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over a year ago
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Not everyone can do it. In my experience, you have to let go of the shame attached to accidentally peeing. Every woman I've explored this with has told me they feel like they're going to pee and it has put them off because they don't want to. I have always had to assure them that, even if they do pee, it's fine. You have to be comfortable enough with doing that, either on your own or with a partner, before you can progress.
It helps to make sure your bladder is empty before starting to explore this. That only helps to reassure you that you are unlikely to pee. Also, be sure to have lots of towels bunched up beneath you if you're on a bed. Don't fold them, bunch and screw them up, they're more absorbent that way.
When you're in a position where you can move freely and really express yourself, try to find your 'G-Spot'. If you put your ring and middle fingers into your vagina and press forwards, you'll feel your pubic bone, progress further in and you'll feel the bone move away, where you'll feel smooth skin for a short distance until you feel a ripply texture to the skin, with a heavy, almost wadded tissue-like formation behind it. Try pressing firmly around this area until you begin to feel a strong sensation.
Once you feel that sensation, keep manipulating that area, keeping firm pressure there constantly. If you feel pressure building, or contractions, keep pressing your fingers in (or a dildo, or a penis, whatever you're using at the time, just keep pressure there) and simultaneously push, as though you're trying to pee for thirty yards.
Keep on pushing constantly and really FEEL the pressure build up, focus on it (if you can meditate, you can do this). When you feel like you can't handle another surge, hold one more off, or two, if you can.
After you've decided that you truly have had enough, let the next surge or contraction come and hold the pressure for a second, then simply let the pressure go, whether it's your fingers, a dildo or a penis, just let it go as quickly as you can and enjoy the ride!
That's my experience of it, as a man who has made many young women ejaculate for the first time. It takes a lot of trust to let your partner do that, and it takes lots of patience too. You might not find the right spot to start with, it might take weeks of trying, or you might never find it, it's the luck (or lack of) of the draw.
Whatever happens, you must be totally and utterly comfortable with whatever is happening or could happen. I've always asserted to the young women I've explored this with that even if they shit everywhere in the midst of an intense orgasm, it's absolutely fine and there's no shame in it.
It takes a lot of conditioning to do this with someone. Really be completely comfortable and at one with your partner and you'll have the best chance of getting there.
Once you're used to doing it, I should warn you, you'll find it hard not to do it. It'll be like having the first pee of a long, hard booze session; after that, you just keep going, lol! So be prepared to ejaculate at inconvenient times thereafter. There might be ways to train yourself out of doing that, and only ejaculating when you want to, but I don't know about that because I've never known a woman to not want to do it every time afterwards.
Have fun and happy new year to you! |
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