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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not getting any genuine interest from couples/single ladies - have I been too honest in admitting I'm married (although I'll bet a lot of the "single" men here actually arent)?? Or should I lose the cock pics?
I fully realise I'm raising my head above the parapet posting here whilst admitting I'm married, so do your worst, those of you who may delight in being judgemental... |
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I think you are doing the right thing admitting you are married, a lot of people would assume you were anyway because you can't accommodate. If you read the hundred of profile advice threads it seems that the general consensus is cock pics if any should be set to private, although a small amount women do like cock shots. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you are doing the right thing admitting you are married, a lot of people would assume you were anyway because you can't accommodate. If you read the hundred of profile advice threads it seems that the general consensus is cock pics if any should be set to private, although a small amount women do like cock shots."
Thanks. I'll lose some cock shots and post some that are a bit more tasteful!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not getting any genuine interest from couples/single ladies - have I been too honest in admitting I'm married (although I'll bet a lot of the "single" men here actually arent)?? Or should I lose the cock pics?
I fully realise I'm raising my head above the parapet posting here whilst admitting I'm married, so do your worst, those of you who may delight in being judgemental..."
You have done the right thing in saying you are married as now anyone who looks can make an informed opinion as to whether they wish to meet you ..., or not as it seems  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honesty is always the best policy! Yep most men who say "single" ain't and I think most would respect you for being honest ! If u are playing alone on the site and the wife didn't know well you wouldn't make a couples profile . . . .so that part makes sense and th ratios are much out of the single males favor happy fabbing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its best to say you are married,as said above,but i dont think there's any reason to mention anything else regarding that.
however, i doubt your status is going to do you any favours at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are happy to meet married just so long as they were honest and could meet on a Friday/Saturday evening with no time restrictions.
If you said that you were single, we would suggest meeting at your place first and you would be caught out before you had started.
So you pays your money and makes your choice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its best to say you are married,as said above,but i dont think there's any reason to mention anything else regarding that.
however, i doubt your status is going to do you any favours at all."
Point taken re: status. I'll change it now. Just a bit frustrated at the latest deleted message. I always write politely - a simple no thanks isnt too much to ask (well, obviously is..) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its best to say you are married,as said above,but i dont think there's any reason to mention anything else regarding that.
however, i doubt your status is going to do you any favours at all.
Point taken re: status. I'll change it now. Just a bit frustrated at the latest deleted message. I always write politely - a simple no thanks isnt too much to ask (well, obviously is..)"
you should peruse the rules if you get a spare minute...
no one has to respond
therefore no reply means no thanks ..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its best to say you are married,as said above,but i dont think there's any reason to mention anything else regarding that.
however, i doubt your status is going to do you any favours at all.
Point taken re: status. I'll change it now. Just a bit frustrated at the latest deleted message. I always write politely - a simple no thanks isnt too much to ask (well, obviously is..)
you should peruse the rules if you get a spare minute...
no one has to respond
therefore no reply means no thanks .. "
I know - still comes across as a bit rude though. Oh well.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some might see being married and cheating as a bit rude as well ... no obligation to reply if person is not for them ... that's it ... accept it and move on. |
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My assumptions -
All single men looking for sex here will find it harder than other people.
A lot of people won't play with people who are cheating - so it adds more difficulty on to the above
Many women and couples will want social meets first- they may assume you're harder to meet. Likewise your travel with work may discourage people where you visit, due to wanting the above.
Assessment - It's better to be honest. Make it clear if you're here with permission.
Your profile doesn't sell you very well. I know clearly what you dislike but I don't know why I should pick you over someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"some might see being married and cheating as a bit rude as well ... no obligation to reply if person is not for them ... that's it ... accept it and move on. "
The person I messaged has a massive emphasis on her profile about how she loves meeting married men and gets off on thinking that man might then be thinking of her after the "event", so I'm pretty sure me being married isnt the reason for the non-reply!
Incidentally I never message people who say on their profile that married or attached is a no-go. |
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"Not getting any genuine interest from couples/single ladies - have I been too honest in admitting I'm married (although I'll bet a lot of the "single" men here actually arent)?? Or should I lose the cock pics?
I fully realise I'm raising my head above the parapet posting here whilst admitting I'm married, so do your worst, those of you who may delight in being judgemental..."
A married, bi curious guy.... cock pics ....and a veri from a man .....
I think youve answered your own question . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not getting any genuine interest from couples/single ladies - have I been too honest in admitting I'm married (although I'll bet a lot of the "single" men here actually arent)?? Or should I lose the cock pics?
I fully realise I'm raising my head above the parapet posting here whilst admitting I'm married, so do your worst, those of you who may delight in being judgemental...
A married, bi curious guy.... cock pics ....and a veri from a man .....
I think youve answered your own question ."
Not really - I never message those that specifically preclude bi / bi-curious / married. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"its best to say you are married,as said above,but i dont think there's any reason to mention anything else regarding that.
however, i doubt your status is going to do you any favours at all.
Point taken re: status. I'll change it now. Just a bit frustrated at the latest deleted message. I always write politely - a simple no thanks isnt too much to ask (well, obviously is..)
you should peruse the rules if you get a spare minute...
no one has to respond
therefore no reply means no thanks ..
I know - still comes across as a bit rude though. Oh well.."
It's not rude. Some women get lots of messages. Imagine copying and pasting "no thanks" 25 times a day. If you'd do that you're a better woman....err, man than me!
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Hi op ,there a so many men on fab that you have to sell yourself.
Your marital status will put some off ,but at least you have given people a choice by including it in your profile.
I think 1 cock pic is enough,maybe a bit about what you can offer to meets.
Also clubs and socials are good places to meet people too.
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"Not getting any genuine interest from couples/single ladies - have I been too honest in admitting I'm married (although I'll bet a lot of the "single" men here actually arent)?? Or should I lose the cock pics?
I fully realise I'm raising my head above the parapet posting here whilst admitting I'm married, so do your worst, those of you who may delight in being judgemental...
A married, bi curious guy.... cock pics ....and a veri from a man .....
I think youve answered your own question .
Not really - I never message those that specifically preclude bi / bi-curious / married."
Just out of interest what is a "very gay" guy?
Is that not like saying someone is "very dead" ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not getting any genuine interest from couples/single ladies - have I been too honest in admitting I'm married (although I'll bet a lot of the "single" men here actually arent)?? Or should I lose the cock pics?
I fully realise I'm raising my head above the parapet posting here whilst admitting I'm married, so do your worst, those of you who may delight in being judgemental...
A married, bi curious guy.... cock pics ....and a veri from a man .....
I think youve answered your own question .
Not really - I never message those that specifically preclude bi / bi-curious / married.
Just out of interest what is a "very gay" guy?
Is that not like saying someone is "very dead" ??"
Chuckle - very camp / overly "girly". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi op ,there a so many men on fab that you have to sell yourself.
Your marital status will put some off ,but at least you have given people a choice by including it in your profile.
I think 1 cock pic is enough,maybe a bit about what you can offer to meets.
Also clubs and socials are good places to meet people too.
Miss"
Thank you Miss. Working on finding a suitable club/social. Seems its not so easy for blokes on their own - but I'm willing to be corrected on that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some might see being married and cheating as a bit rude as well ... no obligation to reply if person is not for them ... that's it ... accept it and move on.
The person I messaged has a massive emphasis on her profile about how she loves meeting married men and gets off on thinking that man might then be thinking of her after the "event", so I'm pretty sure me being married isnt the reason for the non-reply!
Incidentally I never message people who say on their profile that married or attached is a no-go. "
I'm sure she doesn't fancy every married man |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"some might see being married and cheating as a bit rude as well ... no obligation to reply if person is not for them ... that's it ... accept it and move on.
The person I messaged has a massive emphasis on her profile about how she loves meeting married men and gets off on thinking that man might then be thinking of her after the "event", so I'm pretty sure me being married isnt the reason for the non-reply!
Incidentally I never message people who say on their profile that married or attached is a no-go.
I'm sure she doesn't fancy every married man"
Almost certainly not - i was just saying its probably not my married status that would have been off pitting in that instance. Plenty of other reasons!!! |
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