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"Ha ha i dont know what i expected ha"
Your profile is what people read, it is what sells you.
Being a single male the odds are stacked against you, so curve the odds in your favor...
Get to a club or social event and start putting yourself out there |
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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago
streatham |
Single gal here and I'm afraid I would have deleted as well.. The couple of lines in your bio tell me nothing about you (other than here's another male who thinks this is enough because it's a 'swinger site'). Your profile pic is grainy and looks like it's a photo of a photo- screams dodgy to me.
check out the profiles of some of the men on the forums..
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Think it's all been said above to be honest but always remember the three P's:
Profile - Write one that makes you stand out, gets across who you are, what you're looking for and what you can offer.
Pictures - Get a decent set of pics that show you off, body shots not cock shots
Patience - You've been here three weeks, which for the majority of single male profiles is no time at all, some wait months or longer to get a meet.
As others have said, getting along to clubs and socials is a good way to get to know people, likewise getting active in the forums.
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've only been here 3 weeks for crying out loud. What did you think this site was? Instashag?
Single males massively outnumber single ladies and couples here (by around 100 to 1), so we really do have to put in the effort.
Most will look at your profile before considering reading your message and so you should ask yourself if your profile is the best that it can possibly be.
Effort in = rewards out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha i dont know what i expected ha"
So what exactly did you expect? Instashag with zero effort profile and pic? Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join. |
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"Ha ha i dont know what i expected ha
So what exactly did you expect? Instashag with zero effort profile and pic? Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join. "
me too as when you ask them they never answer!  |
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By *ohn_278Man
over a year ago
Leven Fife Scotland |
I've been for awhile now and don't listen to women when it comes to profile cause that doesn't work I've updated my profile plenty of times and I still get blanked woman just doesn't like single men end of I've messaged about 100 women or more and not one single reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been for awhile now and don't listen to women when it comes to profile cause that doesn't work I've updated my profile plenty of times and I still get blanked woman just doesn't like single men end of I've messaged about 100 women or more and not one single reply "
Ok so maybe you can answer the question that I asked above. Genuinely interested why some men join:
So what exactly did you expect? Instashag with zero effort profile and pic? Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join.
So ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I joined cause a friend told me it was a good site to chat and meet new people and for every other men who joins i can't answer that"
Maybe ask your friend what he is doing that makes him think it's a good site to chat and meet new people. He must be doing something right if he has that opinion. |
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By *ohn_278Man
over a year ago
Leven Fife Scotland |
I would ask him but he's hardly on here now cause he's always busy with work my only problem I've got is what does women like in a first message cause I think I've said everything that I could think of and still no reply I see the point if women deletes my messages if I say wanna to meet up for sex but I don't I like to of very polite |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would ask him but he's hardly on here now cause he's always busy with work my only problem I've got is what does women like in a first message cause I think I've said everything that I could think of and still no reply I see the point if women deletes my messages if I say wanna to meet up for sex but I don't I like to of very polite "
No idea. Maybe desparation is putting them off. Having a good profile and pics helps, but if men lack the social skills they may as well give up. |
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"I've been for awhile now and don't listen to women when it comes to profile cause that doesn't work I've updated my profile plenty of times and I still get blanked woman just doesn't like single men end of I've messaged about 100 women or more and not one single reply "
Erm unless I'm mistaken your profile says slim but on your pic you look a larger guy?
If that's how you think you're going to get meets then no wonder it ain't working. I'm pretty sure if I said I was thin/athletic I wouldn't expect anybody to meet me as if I'm lying on my profile then what else is a lie??! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would ask him but he's hardly on here now cause he's always busy with work my only problem I've got is what does women like in a first message cause I think I've said everything that I could think of and still no reply I see the point if women deletes my messages if I say wanna to meet up for sex but I don't I like to of very polite "
I presume you are looking for sex so tbh what you say in your first message can be almost irrelevant, yes you need to be able to engage with someone, hold a conversation and find common ground. But unless someone looks at yours pics and is attracted to you then you will struggle to do anything more than chat, just like in the real world. |
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By *ohn_278Man
over a year ago
Leven Fife Scotland |
There I've changed my profile back to normal but doesn't matter what I do nothing works meeting people would be nice don't get me wrong but would also like to chat as well so tell me ladies what does women like to read in a first message |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
Okehampton |
"So, sent a few messages, being polite, with face pic over the last few weeks and have had zero replies, what have i got to do! Any help?"
Guess it depends on what you actually said and whether you read the persons profile before you actually sent it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most will take a look at your profile before going anywhere near your message, and so it is perhaps more important to ensure that your profile is the best that it can possibly be.
A well thought out and constructed message is meaningless if the recipient is not attracted by your profile as it's pretty unlikely that they will even read it. |
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"I thought that's the whole point of messaging to see if there is a connection or attracted to the person "
Correct, but if the message is not 'good', the profile is crap and we don't like the look of you anyway, then we're not going to feel any kind of connection or attraction are we  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha i dont know what i expected ha
So what exactly did you expect? Instashag with zero effort profile and pic? Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join. "
I joined out of curiosity.
Ive met a lot of really nice people and couples in the club I attend. Most important thing I learned was how important etiquette and manners are.
2nd socialising and personality go a long way.
3.Have zero expectations (don't expect sex just because your on a swinging site)
The return will fall into place.
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"I joined out of curiosity.
Ive met a lot of really nice people and couples in the club I attend. Most important thing I learned was how important etiquette and manners are.
2nd socialising and personality go a long way.
3.Have zero expectations (don't expect sex just because your on a swinging site)
The return will fall into place.
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Give this man the 'Most Sensible Advice Today Award' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined out of curiosity.
Ive met a lot of really nice people and couples in the club I attend. Most important thing I learned was how important etiquette and manners are.
2nd socialising and personality go a long way.
3.Have zero expectations (don't expect sex just because your on a swinging site)
The return will fall into place.
Give this man the 'Most Sensible Advice Today Award' "
Thank you
Preston |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha i dont know what i expected ha
So what exactly did you expect? Instashag with zero effort profile and pic? Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join.
I joined out of curiosity.
Ive met a lot of really nice people and couples in the club I attend. Most important thing I learned was how important etiquette and manners are.
2nd socialising and personality go a long way.
3.Have zero expectations (don't expect sex just because your on a swinging site)
The return will fall into place.
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At last someone who gets it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha i dont know what i expected ha
So what exactly did you expect? Instashag with zero effort profile and pic? Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join.
I joined out of curiosity.
Ive met a lot of really nice people and couples in the club I attend. Most important thing I learned was how important etiquette and manners are.
2nd socialising and personality go a long way.
3.Have zero expectations (don't expect sex just because your on a swinging site)
The return will fall into place.
At last someone who gets it!!"
Thank you
Preston |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Photos speak volumes.
Hardly anyone reads profile text.
Face pictures show you are a real swinger with nothing to hide.
Only a small percentage of women and couples read the text i know this for a fact because they comment on my accent when we meet and it clearly says in my profile i spent all of my life in devon.
Put pictures up. Not cock pictures. Smile in your pictures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha i dont know what i expected ha
So what exactly did you expect? Instashag with zero effort profile and pic? Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join. "
I joined after chatting to a woman on tinder who is a member on hear, she dragged me off tinder under false pretences I thought she wanted to date lol, she recommended this site so here I am lol, so now you know ,ha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think it's all been said above to be honest but always remember the three P's:
Profile - Write one that makes you stand out, gets across who you are, what you're looking for and what you can offer.
Pictures - Get a decent set of pics that show you off, body shots not cock shots
Patience - You've been here three weeks, which for the majority of single male profiles is no time at all, some wait months or longer to get a meet.
As others have said, getting along to clubs and socials is a good way to get to know people, likewise getting active in the forums.
Good luck "
profiles shit mate be different and stand out but most of all be yourself don't say things you can't follow through with ha. |
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"Photos speak volumes.
Hardly anyone reads profile text.
Face pictures show you are a real swinger with nothing to hide.
Only a small percentage of women and couples read the text i know this for a fact because they comment on my accent when we meet and it clearly says in my profile i spent all of my life in devon.
Put pictures up. Not cock pictures. Smile in your pictures "
Actually, you'll find that a lot do read men's profiles and nobody expects to see a face pic on a profile but it's a bloody good idea to send one with a first message.
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
A couple of questions for you guys who are "getting no luck".
Are you a swinger?
Would you join "Gymdating.com" if you weren't in o keeping fit but just want a shag?
The main question is do you even know what a swinger IS? NOT what you read about in the paper or heard from a mate but actually read a book about it and find out for yourself.
I get that you are looking to FUCK. The problem is some of us are looking to PLAY. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I joined out of curiosity.
Ive met a lot of really nice people and couples in the club I attend. Most important thing I learned was how important etiquette and manners are.
2nd socialising and personality go a long way.
3.Have zero expectations (don't expect sex just because your on a swinging site)
The return will fall into place.
Give this man the 'Most Sensible Advice Today Award'
Thank you
Preston"
Best comment in this thread so far.... |
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By *ohn_278Man
over a year ago
Leven Fife Scotland |
I do get what everyone is saying and when I signed up to this I never expected sex right away not even when I signed up the first time and for what everyone has said I will take it into mind but for going to clubs is kinda due health condition |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I do get what everyone is saying and when I signed up to this I never expected sex right away not even when I signed up the first time and for what everyone has said I will take it into mind but for going to clubs is kinda due health condition "
You have a health condition that stops you going to clubs (although you can still travel) but you can still have sex? (I'm assuming at your home.)
What kind of sex are you offering?  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I do get what everyone is saying and when I signed up to this I never expected sex right away not even when I signed up the first time and for what everyone has said I will take it into mind but for going to clubs is kinda due health condition
You have a health condition that stops you going to clubs (although you can still travel) but you can still have sex? (I'm assuming at your home.)
What kind of sex are you offering? "
My mind is boggling  |
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By *ohn_278Man
over a year ago
Leven Fife Scotland |
What do you's think of this and if you think It can better tell me
Single guy from fife looking to meet women
Hate filling these parts out but here goes
My likes are, oral, watersports, taking pictures, making videos, fisting, rimming...
Dislike, vomit, scat, blood
Love all shapes and sizes
If your after someone with an 8 pack and fake muscles move along to the next person
I am who I am I'm not gonna change for nobody
Not here to judge anyone so please don't judge me on the way I look we are all humans at end of the day and feelings can hurt so be respectful so be before judging someone just think
Don't be shy come say hi and see where things goes
Happy swinging peeps |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
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Don't be shy come say hi and see where things goes
Happy swinging peeps"
I've left the bits that are ok, not negative and not displayed anywhere else on you profile.
Carry on, you're on the right track though... |
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By *ohn_278Man
over a year ago
Leven Fife Scotland |
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Don't be shy come say hi and see where things goes
Happy swinging peeps
I've left the bits that are ok, not negative and not displayed anywhere else on you profile.
Carry on, you're on the right track though... "
so do you think that's ok what I've said or do you think it could be better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you's think of this and if you think It can better tell me
Single guy from fife looking to meet women
Hate filling these parts out but here goes
My likes are, oral, watersports, taking pictures, making videos, fisting, rimming...
Dislike, vomit, scat, blood
Love all shapes and sizes
If your after someone with an 8 pack and fake muscles move along to the next person
I am who I am I'm not gonna change for nobody
Not here to judge anyone so please don't judge me on the way I look we are all humans at end of the day and feelings can hurt so be respectful so be before judging someone just think
Don't be shy come say hi and see where things goes
Happy swinging peeps"
This has a similar layout to what some women have on their profiles, unfortunately it will fall flat. It portrays a "my way or no way" attitude which a fair few women also have on their profile but with one difference your a single male.... this will just go against you. When filling out your interests their are check boxes that state what your into, so you don't really need to state it in your bio. For the bio my advice is describe your good qualities e.g are you sociable, do you attend a certain club etc... Some good advice has been left above by a few people. Read it and hopefully you'll get the gist of what the site and the culture is about. Hope this helps
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
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Don't be shy come say hi and see where things goes
Happy swinging peeps
I've left the bits that are ok, not negative and not displayed anywhere else on you profile.
Carry on, you're on the right track though... so do you think that's ok what I've said or do you think it could be better "
The lines I left are a good start. |
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"And for profile I do keep changing it all the time cause there is times I think it's crap I'm just no good at selling myself lol"
Write it in word first, and use the spell checker to get it right and word also helps with grammar.
Your using negatives constantly.
Use your imagination and think how you would meet someone in real life and use the same on here. |
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"I've been for awhile now and don't listen to women when it comes to profile cause that doesn't work I've updated my profile plenty of times and I still get blanked woman just doesn't like single men end of I've messaged about 100 women or more and not one single reply "
Of course some women are looking for single men. I did pretty well when I was a single guy on here and its how myself and Miss got together.
A good, well structured profile, decent pics, interacting and being polite go a long way. And patience. Try to go to a social or club and mingle with people.
Jack. |
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If you are looking at women's profiles that attract you, which I presume you are, it might be helpful to look at the profile of those men whose verifications are displayed to give you some idea of the kind of profile you could write that might work better for you. |
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"I want. I want. I like. I don't like"
While your likes and dislikes are pretty important, the mistake most guys make is to concoct a profile which reads like a list of demands.
This is a swingers site, not a sex site. Swinging has a social aspect to it and it is not all about finding someone to fuck.
Don't complain that the advice generously given by the ladies here is no good.... I strongly suspect that they know how the typical female mind works.
Fab really can work. Guys really do meet women and couples here. And, gosh, sometimes we have sex. I can't see in the dark for shit either but I get a lift to clubs. You won't get anything out of Fab unless you put the effort in.
Ask yourself "what am I able to offer? Why should a lady reply to my message when she has already deleted 30 today?"
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By *ohn_278Man
over a year ago
Leven Fife Scotland |
Thanks for the advice everyone it's much appreciated
But after talking to someone in PM only one other thing I've got to say is I'm not exactly skinny does women prefer men that's skinny or does that not matter |
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"Thanks for the advice everyone it's much appreciated
But after talking to someone in PM only one other thing I've got to say is I'm not exactly skinny does women prefer men that's skinny or does that not matter "
I'm fat by any definition of the word and I do ok.
I fully accept that I am not everyone's cup of tea but I am confident in my body and that helps. |
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"Thanks for the advice everyone it's much appreciated
But after talking to someone in PM only one other thing I've got to say is I'm not exactly skinny does women prefer men that's skinny or does that not matter
I'm fat by any definition of the word and I do ok.
I fully accept that I am not everyone's cup of tea but I am confident in my body and that helps. "
I'm a chubby rugby lad, as I said in previous posts being sociable and personality go a long way in the swinging world. I've learned that a lot of people care less for perfect looks and more for the person that is good banter and genuine. As absinthe stated, put yourself out there, out the effort in. |
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"So, sent a few messages, being polite, with face pic over the last few weeks and have had zero replies, what have i got to do! Any help?"
Your not the only one who has trouble with that, i never get a reply either x |
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"So, sent a few messages, being polite, with face pic over the last few weeks and have had zero replies, what have i got to do! Any help?
Your not the only one who has trouble with that, i never get a reply either x"
you have a single profile but your text says your a couple? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"So, sent a few messages, being polite, with face pic over the last few weeks and have had zero replies, what have i got to do! Any help?
Your not the only one who has trouble with that, i never get a reply either x you have a single profile but your text says your a couple?"
Yep confused here as well |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"So, sent a few messages, being polite, with face pic over the last few weeks and have had zero replies, what have i got to do! Any help?
Your not the only one who has trouble with that, i never get a reply either x you have a single profile but your text says your a couple?"
It also says in your blurb that you're 22 but your profile details says 28...
...back to the drawing board methinks!! |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
Okehampton |
"Yes I do read people's profiles and the ones that's been on here for awhile who has blank profiles I just say hi how are you "
Indeed, that is why we blocked you...you just said "Hi how are you". We have been here for a number of years, haven't got a blank profile, and it specifies that we cannot get a mental connection going, if people just ask after our health..
Clearly you don't read profiles..  |
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"So, sent a few messages, being polite, with face pic over the last few weeks and have had zero replies, what have i got to do! Any help?"
Is someone talking ? Lol ,joking hello babes and welcome xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do not take it personally .
I will say that its easier to the ride elsewhere than on here. If fab was my only hope for the ride, id have given up on sex already!
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"Thanks for the advice everyone it's much appreciated
But after talking to someone in PM only one other thing I've got to say is I'm not exactly skinny does women prefer men that's skinny or does that not matter
I'm fat by any definition of the word and I do ok.
I fully accept that I am not everyone's cup of tea but I am confident in my body and that helps. "
You clearly think that every woman wants exactly the some thing so if you think that's not you, why are you here? |
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"Thanks for the advice everyone it's much appreciated
But after talking to someone in PM only one other thing I've got to say is I'm not exactly skinny does women prefer men that's skinny or does that not matter
I'm fat by any definition of the word and I do ok.
I fully accept that I am not everyone's cup of tea but I am confident in my body and that helps.
You clearly think that every woman wants exactly the some thing so if you think that's not you, why are you here?"
Eh? Where do I say that? |
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"Thanks for the advice everyone it's much appreciated
But after talking to someone in PM only one other thing I've got to say is I'm not exactly skinny does women prefer men that's skinny or does that not matter
I'm fat by any definition of the word and I do ok.
I fully accept that I am not everyone's cup of tea but I am confident in my body and that helps.
You clearly think that every woman wants exactly the some thing so if you think that's not you, why are you here?
Eh? Where do I say that?"
Sorry AB, not you, I hit the wrong reply and quote, it was the OP's above yours. |
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"Think it's all been said above to be honest but always remember the three P's:
Profile - Write one that makes you stand out, gets across who you are, what you're looking for and what you can offer.
Pictures - Get a decent set of pics that show you off, body shots not cock shots
Patience - You've been here three weeks, which for the majority of single male profiles is no time at all, some wait months or longer to get a meet.
As others have said, getting along to clubs and socials is a good way to get to know people, likewise getting active in the forums.
Good luck "
Perfect advice for any fab profile... well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join. "
And what is it that attracts gals here? What is said about this site that makes you gals join? |
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" Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join.
And what is it that attracts gals here? What is said about this site that makes you gals join?"
Does it matter in the context of this thread? It's not women complaining about not getting meets, usually the beef from women is being treated like something to be ordered from Argos from men who think all women are exactly the same and are disposable.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stop looking for sex and start talking to people. It'll get you much further.
I think men on here are generally guilty of forgetting that they are talking to actual people and focusing too much on what they're wanting... It's no wonder it puts people off. |
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Many guys need to remember that Fab is not simply a sex site. You're not ordering from the Argos catalogue as one poster has said. The ladies here are not present to cater to anyone's needs/requests.
Swinging is about mutual fun and satisfaction, has both social and sexual aspects. It certainly can involve no strings sex but it's not a catalogue service. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join.
And what is it that attracts gals here? What is said about this site that makes you gals join?"
At first the sheer numbers but I think if someone would have told me the amount of disrespect and bullshit that comes with fab I would have stayed clear. Now I'm just nosey. Nothing worth meeting that meets even half my needs and gave up meeting new people along time ago. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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" Why do guys come here with that mentality. The site seems to attract then, however it's actually the total reverse.
Love to know genuinely what is said about this site that makes guys join.
And what is it that attracts gals here? What is said about this site that makes you gals join?
Does it matter in the context of this thread? It's not women complaining about not getting meets, usually the beef from women is being treated like something to be ordered from Argos from men who think all women are exactly the same and are disposable.
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I think it does matter. Both men AND women possibly join this site for the "wrong" reasons. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
There are now several guys on this thread asking for help. One easy thing to ammend is the fact that you want to meet everyone from 20 year old college students to 97 year old great grannies !!!
Please actually alter this to give a sensible age range.
It's this kind of lazy attitude, that winds me up.
Take some time to write a decent profile and not just about what YOU are looking for, but also what you offer.
Add some humour.
Be friendly and polite.
Write a message after reading someone's profile, if you fit what they are looking for and mention something to show you connect on some level.
Go along to a club or social and get a veri or two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cos they are mostly fake mate some will say it's your profile or lack of effort in message etc but seeing as I have been on other sites and was getting offers without doing any work with worse profiles and no pics or worse pics is all I need to know |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Is OP going to jump back in at all, I'm genuinely curious if any of this has helped"
They never normally do,usually just disappear and the reappear a few weeks later asking the same thing!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, read all the replies and i have taken them on board. Never been on a site before so had no idea how to set up my profile. Thanks for the replies i will take the good advice and sort my profile out. Thank you
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By (user no longer on site)
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To put it bluntly swinging is about sharing you partner so that both of you have fun with other people without that cheating feeling, so guys get yourself a willing female because otherwise you are wasting your time on here. spare cocks are ten a penny anyway.and the last thing you want do is send pics of it, females are never impressed by pics of your genitalia, it is a real turn off. |
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"Surprise, surprise....rather than put in the effort he's gone UNLOS.
Clearly thats the correct course of action  "
nah he's going to come back with the best profile on the site and be fighting all the hot girls begging for mffs with a shitey stick, just you all watch |
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"Surprise, surprise....rather than put in the effort he's gone UNLOS.
Clearly thats the correct course of action nah he's going to come back with the best profile on the site and be fighting all the hot girls begging for mffs with a shitey stick, just you all watch"
fighting off |
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