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"Please, don't any women on here send men messages etc, they can't even send a wink " Yes they do I do but only people im interested in | |||
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"Just because they don't message you, doesn't mean they don't send any messages. " . This x end of thread  x | |||
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"Is my profile ok or do l need to change it " I’d at the very least get rid of your status, as a start  | |||
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"Is my profile ok or do l need to change it " Is it working for you? | |||
"Make then laugh on the forum sounds good x" Why would you want people to add you on Facebook? I would get rid of that if i was you... There are some unscrupulous people out there who could make your life hell | |||
"Is my profile ok or do l need to change it I’d at the very least get rid of your status, as a start "She's just jealous of Katie 46 !  | |||
"Is my profile ok or do l need to change it I’d at the very least get rid of your status, as a start
She's just jealous of Katie 46 ! "I am!!!! | |||
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"What work do l need to do on my profile " Remove your real name for starters | |||
"What work do l need to do on my profile " I was going to say add a remote control pic but you have that already  | |||
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"Is my profile ok or do l need to change it I’d at the very least get rid of your status, as a start "Yes!! Its erm, Nope. Got no words | |||
"What work do l need to do on my profile " Get rid of the stupid request for a specific person to contact you. You manage to come across as needy and demanding at the same time.... guess that’s an achievement  | |||
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"Please, don't any women on here send men messages etc, they can't even send a wink " why wud u put ur real name and offer facebook??? I can understand u wanna meet females but that is just desperation " apoligies not trying to sound mean " keep ur fadebook to ur close friends & family! Fab is for fun | |||
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"I mail men "No wonder the postie going on strike be a bugger trying to get them through post box | |||
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"I recently first messaged an avid forumite to tell him I’d like to sit on his willy. He replied with ‘thanks’ It’s shit for girls too lol"  | |||
"Please, don't any women on here send men messages etc, they can't even send a wink " Of course they do. I tend to get roughly equal amounts of messages from women, couples and guys wanting to "suck my cock with nothing in return." | |||
"I recently first messaged an avid forumite to tell him I’d like to sit on his willy. He replied with ‘thanks’ It’s shit for girls too lol" Better than him saying no xx | |||
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"What work do l need to do on my profile I was going to say add a remote control pic but you have that already "We don't have Sky, I'm so screwed | |||
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"What work do l need to do on my profile I was going to say add a remote control pic but you have that already
We don't have Sky, I'm so screwed " | |||
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"I recently first messaged an avid forumite to tell him I’d like to sit on his willy. He replied with ‘thanks’ It’s shit for girls too lol" He must be mental | |||
"Please, don't any women on here send men messages etc, they can't even send a wink " What makes you say that? Yes of course they can and do, in fact a lot of our conversations start with a wink. | |||
"Please, don't any women on here send men messages etc, they can't even send a wink Yes they do I do but only people im interested in " damn that'll be why I didn’t get one then | |||
"Please, don't any women on here send men messages etc, they can't even send a wink " I send messages if im intetested | |||
"Please, don't any women on here send men messages etc, they can't even send a wink " Of course they do, they are just not sending them to you it seems. | |||
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"I'm hoping my profile looks better, have to think what l put to make the woman laugh to get attention " It still doesn't say a great deal at all really I'm afraid. Your first sentence says you're after meeting someone socially, but only with the intent of getting a verification, nothing more. No one is going to be tempted by that whatsoever. And your second sentence merely states that you're looking for what the basic reason everyone on site is looking for, no more than that. It gives no clue whatsoever to you as a person, your likes and dislikes, your redeeming qualities and what you think you can offer to a lady, no seduction, nothing. Fortunately this is fixable. Put the effort into your profile first, then in turn in time and effort and consideration your messages when chatting with the fairer sex. Then when meeting with them. A lady's pleasure is the loveliest thing to witness so this shouldn't be any hardship, rather the opposite! And speaking from experience if you do all of this correctly, putting women first and foremost there will come a time when it's women who are contacting you rather than the other way around as you're putting all your time and effort into replying to and conversing with they who message you, when you're not meeting up? Which can be time-consuming, but oh so rewarding for you both.... 
But though you might think this right now, this messaging situation isn't the goal itself that you're looking for. Merely a natural conclusion that happens as a result of your having a mutually delicious time with ladies who you make sure love every moment in your company as it is their wishes, wants and needs that you focus on, rather than your own?
Though I will say that just happening to be a "pleaser" certainly helps!
Regarding the first thing you need to do and the problems you seem to be having doing so, they say your profile is like your shop window. There's some truth in this analogy.
Now visualise if you will a parade of shops. A lady is walking past, window shopping as people are oft to do. There are 4 shops there. One is one with the most delightful goods inside, arranged brilliantly with regard to being colourful, interesting, appealing... no prices or anything like that, but in a display that catches the ye and holds it there. The next doesn't have much in the window, just a few items, but has them clearly priced up so that the lady in question knows exactly what she is getting and for what. The third has a combination of the two, visually hugely impressive, everything labelled and priced perfectly and she debates about whether to go inside...
Then her eyes spy the 4th shop. In it is a pair of stepladders, a tarp and half a can of paint as if it is in the middle being decorated. Almost forgotten are 2 paint spattered stock items casually tossed in there as an after thought. No prices, no information, indeed sweet fuck all.
Can you guess which shop window relates to your profile? And indeed what the lady in question is likely to do?
So do what is necessary to make your own more like the 3rd shop for a start. It really isn't that difficult. | |||
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"Have a look at Bliss’s profile and read his message to you, you’ll have an idea what success looks like. " Aw, thank you Madam! I also have more than an idea of what a red-blooded and sexually charged desirable maiden that it is my firm desire to mate again looks like when in front of me in the flesh...thanks in no small part to your good self... | |||
"Is my profile ok or do l need to change it " I get few messages but they do message, maybe time to update my profile xx | |||
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"Have a look at Bliss’s profile and read his message to you, you’ll have an idea what success looks like. " Wow, that's a cracking profile. | |||
"I recently first messaged an avid forumite to tell him I’d like to sit on his willy. He replied with ‘thanks’ It’s shit for girls too lol" He has a pet tarantula called 'Willy' | |||
"Have a look at Bliss’s profile and read his message to you, you’ll have an idea what success looks like. " Damn that Bliss, a man who can conjugate more than one consecutive sentence..I hate him!  | |||
"Please, don't any women on here send men messages etc, they can't even send a wink " We only send messages to people were interested in, that's normal isn't it. Other people we put messages in a bottle off the west coast, maybe you will pick one up.  | |||
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"Make them laugh on the forum and they might message you. Don't expect locals to message you with 'Fancy a fuck later' cos it's not going to happen" Happened to me but then she didn't show up! She had verifications as well. That's the only time a woman has messaged me first on here.  | |||
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"Have a look at Bliss’s profile and read his message to you, you’ll have an idea what success looks like. Aw, thank you Madam! I also have more than an idea of what a red-blooded and sexually charged desirable maiden that it is my firm desire to mate again looks like when in front of me in the flesh...thanks in no small part to your good self... "Awwwww, it’s been many years my friend, too long. | |||
And thank you everyone, I'm feeling a lot of love in this room.. 
Except from Bigblackdom ha! But I know he loves me really! | |||
"I'm hoping my profile looks better, have to think what l put to make the woman laugh to get attention It still doesn't say a great deal at all really I'm afraid. Your first sentence says you're after meeting someone socially, but only with the intent of getting a verification, nothing more. No one is going to be tempted by that whatsoever. And your second sentence merely states that you're looking for what the basic reason everyone on site is looking for, no more than that. It gives no clue whatsoever to you as a person, your likes and dislikes, your redeeming qualities and what you think you can offer to a lady, no seduction, nothing. Fortunately this is fixable. Put the effort into your profile first, then in turn in time and effort and consideration your messages when chatting with the fairer sex. Then when meeting with them. A lady's pleasure is the loveliest thing to witness so this shouldn't be any hardship, rather the opposite! And speaking from experience if you do all of this correctly, putting women first and foremost there will come a time when it's women who are contacting you rather than the other way around as you're putting all your time and effort into replying to and conversing with they who message you, when you're not meeting up? Which can be time-consuming, but oh so rewarding for you both....
But though you might think this right now, this messaging situation isn't the goal itself that you're looking for. Merely a natural conclusion that happens as a result of your having a mutually delicious time with ladies who you make sure love every moment in your company as it is their wishes, wants and needs that you focus on, rather than your own?
Though I will say that just happening to be a "pleaser" certainly helps!
Regarding the first thing you need to do and the problems you seem to be having doing so, they say your profile is like your shop window. There's some truth in this analogy.
Now visualise if you will a parade of shops. A lady is walking past, window shopping as people are oft to do. There are 4 shops there. One is one with the most delightful goods inside, arranged brilliantly with regard to being colourful, interesting, appealing... no prices or anything like that, but in a display that catches the ye and holds it there. The next doesn't have much in the window, just a few items, but has them clearly priced up so that the lady in question knows exactly what she is getting and for what. The third has a combination of the two, visually hugely impressive, everything labelled and priced perfectly and she debates about whether to go inside...
Then her eyes spy the 4th shop. In it is a pair of stepladders, a tarp and half a can of paint as if it is in the middle being decorated. Almost forgotten are 2 paint spattered stock items casually tossed in there as an after thought. No prices, no information, indeed sweet fuck all.
Can you guess which shop window relates to your profile? And indeed what the lady in question is likely to do?
So do what is necessary to make your own more like the 3rd shop for a start. It really isn't that difficult."Fantastic advice been offered right here OP, you'd do well to read this over and over and apply if it to your profile. As the saying goes you get out of Fab what you put in...time to work on that profile and approach! | |||
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" Except from Bigblackdom ha! But I know he loves me really! "Indeed brother, keep up the good work and generous of you to give up your trade secrets | |||
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"Have a look at Bliss’s profile and read his message to you, you’ll have an idea what success looks like. " Its a bit bloody long.. I get bored after the first paragraph and skip to his pics | |||
"Make them laugh on the forum and they might message you. Don't expect locals to message you with 'Fancy a fuck later' cos it's not going to happen Happened to me but then she didn't show up! She had verifications as well. That's the only time a woman has messaged me first on here. "Thats a shame | |||
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"No more cock pictures, does it look better " Yes and no? I can tell you want to be verified and you're looking for a social or sex. That isn't at all informative. What kind of person are you, what are you looking for, what's special about you? Answer those questions. Also, saying you're straight but looking for men is confusing. | |||
"No more cock pictures, does it look better " All that help and that’s it? | |||
"Is my profile ok or do l need to change it Is it working for you?" Lol | |||
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"I recently first messaged an avid forumite to tell him I’d like to sit on his willy. He replied with ‘thanks’ It’s shit for girls too lol" If you looking for somewhere to sit on my face leaves at midnight | |||
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