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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So basically my profile gets on average 20views a day (give or take) but I've received very few messages/replys, so my question is how can I adapt my profile to be more approachable/enticing? I realise having my face pics hidden doesn't help but I'd like to keep them private for the time being. Thanks any advice is appreciated  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your username may put some off.
Having a friend lurking in the wings may put others off.
Find something about you that stands out (I don't mean your cock) rather than being one of a thousand average guys who are good looking and easy to get on with.
Some women like an edge... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A profile pic that predominantly features some random woman's arse and fanny with what I presume is you hanging out of it, bareback.
A status after a woman who's willing to be shared with you and a mate who can't be bothered to have his own profile.
A pic of you with your cock out with another bloke.
You'll definitely being noticed, can't say it's for any of the right reasons though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your username may put some off.
Having a friend lurking in the wings may put others off.
Find something about you that stands out (I don't mean your cock) rather than being one of a thousand average guys who are good looking and easy to get on with.
Some women like an edge..."
Ah thanks, sounds very sensible and helpful il make some adjustments, cheers  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Two cocks in a pic ?
Bareback fucking who exactly ? "
This was actually a pic from a couple of years back, and the girl was a long time girlfriend of mine at the time... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The profile picture puts me off ... just being honest "
No problem so what pics would be more fitting? Baring in mind I don't want my face plastered all over fab? Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A profile pic that predominantly features some random woman's arse and fanny with what I presume is you hanging out of it, bareback.
A status after a woman who's willing to be shared with you and a mate who can't be bothered to have his own profile.
A pic of you with your cock out with another bloke.
You'll definitely being noticed, can't say it's for any of the right reasons though. "
Thanks for the feedback, just trying to work this site out il get there eventually  |
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"Two cocks in a pic ?
Bareback fucking who exactly ?
This was actually a pic from a couple of years back, and the girl was a long time girlfriend of mine at the time... "
Who has given you permission to post it on a swinger's site ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Two cocks in a pic ?
Bareback fucking who exactly ?
This was actually a pic from a couple of years back, and the girl was a long time girlfriend of mine at the time...
Who has given you permission to post it on a swinger's site ? "
I'm still good friends with the girl, she's on here herself that's how I found out about this site... I hope that meets your approval  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Two cocks in a pic ?
Bareback fucking who exactly ?
This was actually a pic from a couple of years back, and the girl was a long time girlfriend of mine at the time...
Who has given you permission to post it on a swinger's site ? "
Im surprised you are asking tbh  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Let off an airhorn, while wearing a propeller cap, cargo pants and crocs. Someone will notice. before they go back to looking at vaginas again."
Haha I like the idea, might not get me the right type of attention though  |
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"Two cocks in a pic ?
Bareback fucking who exactly ?
This was actually a pic from a couple of years back, and the girl was a long time girlfriend of mine at the time...
Who has given you permission to post it on a swinger's site ?
I'm still good friends with the girl, she's on here herself that's how I found out about this site... I hope that meets your approval "
It's her approval you need but the pic won't do you any favours tbh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Two cocks in a pic ?
Bareback fucking who exactly ?
This was actually a pic from a couple of years back, and the girl was a long time girlfriend of mine at the time...
Who has given you permission to post it on a swinger's site ?
Im surprised you are asking tbh "
Meaning?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Two cocks in a pic ?
Bareback fucking who exactly ?
This was actually a pic from a couple of years back, and the girl was a long time girlfriend of mine at the time...
Who has given you permission to post it on a swinger's site ?
I'm still good friends with the girl, she's on here herself that's how I found out about this site... I hope that meets your approval
It's her approval you need but the pic won't do you any favours tbh"
Well thanks for the feedback |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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There are thousands of images of folk with others male female or third or fourth parties or more involved ..
I don't recall consent is ever questioned if it's on a couple's or single ladies profile |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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OK, you need more pics of you, the one of two penises is very nice but I don't know which is yours and I've no desire to meet your "mate", if I want to meet two guys ill find both myself, and most other women will do the same.
The pictures with a woman will put people off because they assume you're bareback fucking all over the place and that you've used the other parties pictures without permission,wether that's the case or not.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are thousands of images of folk with others male female or third or fourth parties or more involved ..
I don't recall consent is ever questioned if it's on a couple's or single ladies profile "
I didn't want to add fuel to the fire as it won't help what I'm trying to achieve but I completely agree with you, single males on here from what I gather seem to get a lot of shit, especially of "veteran fabbers"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OK, you need more pics of you, the one of two penises is very nice but I don't know which is yours and I've no desire to meet your "mate", if I want to meet two guys ill find both myself, and most other women will do the same.
The pictures with a woman will put people off because they assume you're bareback fucking all over the place and that you've used the other parties pictures without permission,wether that's the case or not.
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Now this is the kinda feedback that helps, thank you for helping much appreciated x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A profile pic that leaves the ladies intrigued and wanting to see more "
Ye I see what you mean I'm not really putting out the best 1st impressions haha thank you x |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"The profile picture puts me off ... just being honest
No problem so what pics would be more fitting? Baring in mind I don't want my face plastered all over fab? Thanks"
A pic of what your potential meets will be getting on the meet ie you
There's more to you than a face or cock shot though. Another 5ft or so presumably... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well thanks to all those positively trying to help, rude comments etc will be ignored as your not the kind of interest I'm after but at least your honest il make some changes, take some pics and change my description from athletic to fat and white like 1 member described me as hahaha |
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"So basically my profile gets on average 20views a day (give or take) but I've received very few messages/replys, so my question is how can I adapt my profile to be more approachable/enticing? I realise having my face pics hidden doesn't help but I'd like to keep them private for the time being. Thanks any advice is appreciated "
People are looking at the woman in your avatar. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So basically my profile gets on average 20views a day (give or take) but I've received very few messages/replys, so my question is how can I adapt my profile to be more approachable/enticing? I realise having my face pics hidden doesn't help but I'd like to keep them private for the time being. Thanks any advice is appreciated
People are looking at the woman in your avatar. "
Spot on hahaha I thought this site would be full of friendly people but the amount of messages I've had of random people trying to give me shit is hilarious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly your profile pic looks like a thumbnail from pornhub
Secondly the other pic is frankly abit bizarre
Thirdly you've only been here for 3 weeks making fab work takes time effort and hard graft there aint no easy quick solutions to getting meets or noticed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Two cocks in a pic ?
Bareback fucking who exactly ?
This was actually a pic from a couple of years back, and the girl was a long time girlfriend of mine at the time... "
Don’t want to worry you OP, but that pic of you and your long term girlfriend is on over twenty porn sites! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The text is boring and unimaginative and says nothing about you or what you’re looking for and the pics are not good,especially the one of an ex who presumably hasn’t given consent! A single male profile should never had pics of a woman on! Inject personality and humour into your profile, that’s what I like to see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if you were local and your photo was you not someone else I'd be interested.
Photo isn't me?
Its 98% not you.
How is it not me? "
Because it’s a woman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your username may put some off.
Having a friend lurking in the wings may put others off.
Find something about you that stands out (I don't mean your cock) rather than being one of a thousand average guys who are good looking and easy to get on with.
Some women like an edge..."
What about your user name lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if you were local and your photo was you not someone else I'd be interested.
Photo isn't me?
Its 98% not you.
How is it not me? "
The trouble is fella ..we can now reverse search photos, to see where they might of originally come from.. |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"So basically my profile gets on average 20views a day (give or take) but I've received very few messages/replys, so my question is how can I adapt my profile to be more approachable/enticing? I realise having my face pics hidden doesn't help but I'd like to keep them private for the time being. Thanks any advice is appreciated "
More than one picture helps and not of a penis or even 2 (that just confuses people) a full description about you and what you are looknig for and can offer goes a long way to getting peoples interest too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely think that your profile pic was taken off Google or a porn site in no way am i buying that it's yours just own up "
He might be an Olympic pork sword champion in training? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So basically my profile gets on average 20views a day (give or take) but I've received very few messages/replys, so my question is how can I adapt my profile to be more approachable/enticing? I realise having my face pics hidden doesn't help but I'd like to keep them private for the time being. Thanks any advice is appreciated
More than one picture helps and not of a penis or even 2 (that just confuses people) a full description about you and what you are looknig for and can offer goes a long way to getting peoples interest too. "
Thankyou |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely think that your profile pic was taken off Google or a porn site in no way am i buying that it's yours just own up
He might be an Olympic pork sword champion in training?"
Hmmm good point i never thought about that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are thousands of images of folk with others male female or third or fourth parties or more involved ..
I don't recall consent is ever questioned if it's on a couple's or single ladies profile
I didn't want to add fuel to the fire as it won't help what I'm trying to achieve but I completely agree with you, single males on here from what I gather seem to get a lot of shit, especially of "veteran fabbers" "
Lol@veteran fabbers! |
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