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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Like what are they really for? If I look at some and i like what i see I wink
But should i message if they wink first does it mean that there interested.
Hope i posted this in the right place lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like what are they really for? If I look at some and i like what i see I wink
But should i message if they wink first does it mean that there interested.
Hope i posted this in the right place lol"
There is no rule on them, people use them how they want. We use them as a hey we might be interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me they are a way of quickly seeing if a mutual initial attraction is there.
Grinds my gears when people get annoyed by them and say it lacks effort.
If i put effort into every initial message i sent id be here forever and have to quit my job lol.
A guy on here has to cast a wide net usually..like baiting the water.
If you want someone to send you a nice message with flowers and fluffy stuff join a poetry group.
Im just trying to get my leg over.
Bahahaa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We use them as a a hey we like what we see...if they then wink back, we follow up with a message
Xx"
Same here....
...except on such occasions I've often found that those messages get deleted without a reply so I sometimes wonder why I bothered |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We use them as a a hey we like what we see...if they then wink back, we follow up with a message
Xx
Exactly that
Great minds think alike!"
Yes indeed lol.
These threads should give notifications i keep missing people sorry x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We use them as a a hey we like what we see...if they then wink back, we follow up with a message
Xx
Same here....
...except on such occasions I've often found that those messages get deleted without a reply so I sometimes wonder why I bothered"
Really? Why would they wink and then do that?
People are strange.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We use them as a a hey we like what we see...if they then wink back, we follow up with a message
Xx"
Its kind of obvious what wi ks are for and this is it. However I don't think the vast majority use them thos way at all.
I've had winks and winked myself with a returned wink.
Have sent messages after a mutual winking to get no reply. And I don't think I've had any send a first message after a mutual wink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't look at my winks, but I do admit that i will use them as tool to see if someone may be interested. If they wink back, then i will message, though most of the time they will message. I'll only wink at a prifile that im genuinely interested in. I know others use them for different reasons. Just to let someone know they apprecuate someones pics etc... they may not wish to engage via PM though  |
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We have found this too. I even queried one woman when she deleted our message. I said sorry but we thought you'd want us to make contact as you winked back. She put...you winked first..I was just being polite..?? |
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"Like what are they really for? If I look at some and i like what i see I wink
But should i message if they wink first does it mean that there interested.
Hope i posted this in the right place lol"
I use frequently to check if there is any mutual attraction, there is no point putting effort in writing message if they are going to delete in 5 sec. |
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They're a way of indicating you're interested. I rarely look at them. I get the effort thing, but from the other side, if I have the bandwidth to talk to ten people, why would I bother with someone who's clicked a button when I have ten promising messages in my inbox? |
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