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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In all seriousness, this isn't a look at me please I want attention thread.
I'd like a little help please.
What I'd like to know is, if you were local-ish to me and I popped up in your local updates or searches. Would you message me? Or think about it?
I use the forum a bit and I like my profile, but I'm happy to take on constructive advice to make it more interesting for people nearer to me, who don't read what I write on the Forum.
Photos? Text? Vibe?
I don't feel as if I get anywhere near the friendly attention I get locally, as I do here. If I could do both, I'd die a happy man indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ll pretend you’re taller and don’t smoke for this question.
Yes I would meet you for a social and take it from there. "
 Although I dearly love a compliment, thankyou  I need help I can use though. Noted the smoking, working on it. I cant grow though. Bristol is local-ish though Always a silver lining |
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"I’ll pretend you’re taller and don’t smoke for this question.
Yes I would meet you for a social and take it from there.
Although I dearly love a compliment, thankyou I need help I can use though. Noted the smoking, working on it. I cant grow though. Bristol is local-ish though Always a silver lining "
Based on your profile and pictures, I’d meet you but for the two things, one of which you can’t change.
Simple as that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ll pretend you’re taller and don’t smoke for this question.
Yes I would meet you for a social and take it from there.
Although I dearly love a compliment, thankyou I need help I can use though. Noted the smoking, working on it. I cant grow though. Bristol is local-ish though Always a silver lining
Based on your profile and pictures, I’d meet you but for the two things, one of which you can’t change.
Simple as that "
If I were taller and didn't smoke.. You would message me first? |
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"I’ll pretend you’re taller and don’t smoke for this question.
Yes I would meet you for a social and take it from there.
Although I dearly love a compliment, thankyou I need help I can use though. Noted the smoking, working on it. I cant grow though. Bristol is local-ish though Always a silver lining
Based on your profile and pictures, I’d meet you but for the two things, one of which you can’t change.
Simple as that
If I were taller and didn't smoke.. You would message me first?"
Yup. I don’t send as many first messages as I receive but I’d send one to you.
Clear pics and good write up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ll pretend you’re taller and don’t smoke for this question.
Yes I would meet you for a social and take it from there.
Although I dearly love a compliment, thankyou I need help I can use though. Noted the smoking, working on it. I cant grow though. Bristol is local-ish though Always a silver lining
Based on your profile and pictures, I’d meet you but for the two things, one of which you can’t change.
Simple as that
If I were taller and didn't smoke.. You would message me first?
Yup. I don’t send as many first messages as I receive but I’d send one to you.
Clear pics and good write up. "
Well that's nice to know, thankyou. I'd message you too. You could be my tall local-ish mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you didn’t smoke then yes. Pics look good although you could smile a bit. I’m sure there’s a great smile in there. "
I'm smiling in one, but you can't see the rest of my face. Noted, I'll try and get a smiley pic. Thankyou |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry not at all I will block you or remove anythiing which contect the dots which will show anyocality ,But if u are hot n gorgeous I will knick all barriers down to beds you.mm tie breaker will be Face picture, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry not at all I will block you or remove anythiing which contect the dots which will show anyocality ,But if u are hot n gorgeous I will knick all barriers down to beds you.mm tie breaker will be Face picture, "
I'm not sure I understand what you're saying if I'm honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope would never message you even if you lived next door.
Your profile states "if you want help with the site,then get in touch"
But then you post the above?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nope would never message you even if you lived next door.
Your profile states "if you want help with the site,then get in touch"
But then you post the above? "
Is that the only reason? Sounds a bit bizarre, but fair enough. There are a lot of aspects to this site, not just meeting local people you know?
I can advise someone to join the Forum, be themselves, not make their cock shot a profile picture. How to send a decent message that'll get a reply.
This is specific advice, on whether someone would message me FIRST. NOT how to get meets. I don't struggle with that if I'm honest.
Fair enough though, we're all different
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope would never message you even if you lived next door.
Your profile states "if you want help with the site,then get in touch"
But then you post the above?
Is that the only reason? Sounds a bit bizarre, but fair enough. There are a lot of aspects to this site, not just meeting local people you know?
I can advise someone to join the Forum, be themselves, not make their cock shot a profile picture. How to send a decent message that'll get a reply.
This is specific advice, on whether someone would message me FIRST. NOT how to get meets. I don't struggle with that if I'm honest.
Fair enough though, we're all different
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Nope.
Not the only reason.
You smoke.
You come across as quite arrogant.
And we not attracted to your pics.
Not bizzare really just our personal choices. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope would never message you even if you lived next door.
Your profile states "if you want help with the site,then get in touch"
But then you post the above?
Is that the only reason? Sounds a bit bizarre, but fair enough. There are a lot of aspects to this site, not just meeting local people you know?
I can advise someone to join the Forum, be themselves, not make their cock shot a profile picture. How to send a decent message that'll get a reply.
This is specific advice, on whether someone would message me FIRST. NOT how to get meets. I don't struggle with that if I'm honest.
Fair enough though, we're all different
Nope.
Not the only reason.
You smoke.
You come across as quite arrogant.
And we not attracted to your pics.
Not bizzare really just our personal choices."
Fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think many women make the first move on here. I hardly ever do, but saying that, it was me who messaged my 'weekend husband' first. I liked his profile, and he intrigued me by his forum posts, where he was showing his intelligence, as well as sense of humour. Things almost didn't go anywhere as a day or two later I broke my knee, badly, and ended up in hospital. Even told him to just forget about me and move on, maybe get in touch after some months, but he stayed by my side, continued chatting and supporting me through my ordeal, which finally earned him the right to meet me, when I was ready. And we've been spending almost every single weekend together since.
Moral from this story - don't give up, keep active on forums and you never know, one day you'd get lucky.
Now to answer your question whether I would message you first- no, sorry, smoking is a no no for me. Also, you are shorter than me... But I do like your pics and profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think many women make the first move on here. I hardly ever do, but saying that, it was me who messaged my 'weekend husband' first. I liked his profile, and he intrigued me by his forum posts, where he was showing his intelligence, as well as sense of humour. Things almost didn't go anywhere as a day or two later I broke my knee, badly, and ended up in hospital. Even told him to just forget about me and move on, maybe get in touch after some months, but he stayed by my side, continued chatting and supporting me through my ordeal, which finally earned him the right to meet me, when I was ready. And we've been spending almost every single weekend together since.
Moral from this story - don't give up, keep active on forums and you never know, one day you'd get lucky.
Now to answer your question whether I would message you first- no, sorry, smoking is a no no for me. Also, you are shorter than me... But I do like your pics and profile. "
Thankyou, I'd agree with you. Women tend not to make the first move. However, I kind of lurve those who do. That only happens to me on the Forum, usually. Was just wondering how i make my profile reflect my Forum personality.
I get the height and smoking thing. Both fair reasons, I can see why some women prefer taller men. I should stop, smoking. My cold turkey didn't last long I'm ashamed to say.. but I'm cutting down, with a view to quitting.
Thanks for the feedback |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I don't meet smokers, but I potentially would send you a friendly message to say hello anyway if you were local.
There isn't very much about what you like, apart from that it's a mental connection.
I would be interested in if you attend the clubs, the kind of things you enjoy doing, that could be at be a little bit.
A good profile, and nice pictures too.
I would love to see you smile though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" I don't meet smokers, but I potentially would send you a friendly message to say hello anyway if you were local.
There isn't very much about what you like, apart from that it's a mental connection.
I would be interested in if you attend the clubs, the kind of things you enjoy doing, that could be at be a little bit.
A good profile, and nice pictures too.
I would love to see you smile though. "
Oooh that's good feedback thankyou. When you say interests.. do you mean non-sexual or sexual? Sexual I prefer to leave for conversation, I'm happy to put my non Sexual interests on.. though history may be a bit boring to some
I don't do clubs though and am a bit wary of putting any negativity on my profile. |
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"In all seriousness, this isn't a look at me please I want attention thread.
I'd like a little help please.
What I'd like to know is, if you were local-ish to me and I popped up in your local updates or searches. Would you message me? Or think about it?
I use the forum a bit and I like my profile, but I'm happy to take on constructive advice to make it more interesting for people nearer to me, who don't read what I write on the Forum.
Photos? Text? Vibe?
I don't feel as if I get anywhere near the friendly attention I get locally, as I do here. If I could do both, I'd die a happy man indeed. "
You're the type I would possibly message first and would definitely go on a social with unless during conversation I discovered you were either a racist, Tory or otherwise unsuitable.
Your blurb is compact but rich with the detail and your pictures are excellent.
I'm unconcerned with height :D |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In all seriousness, this isn't a look at me please I want attention thread.
I'd like a little help please.
What I'd like to know is, if you were local-ish to me and I popped up in your local updates or searches. Would you message me? Or think about it?
I use the forum a bit and I like my profile, but I'm happy to take on constructive advice to make it more interesting for people nearer to me, who don't read what I write on the Forum.
Photos? Text? Vibe?
I don't feel as if I get anywhere near the friendly attention I get locally, as I do here. If I could do both, I'd die a happy man indeed.
You're the type I would possibly message first and would definitely go on a social with unless during conversation I discovered you were either a racist, Tory or otherwise unsuitable.
Your blurb is compact but rich with the detail and your pictures are excellent.
I'm unconcerned with height :D"
Nice to know Om neither a racist, nor a Conservative Thankyou for the nice feedback and not being a shortist |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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" I don't meet smokers, but I potentially would send you a friendly message to say hello anyway if you were local.
There isn't very much about what you like, apart from that it's a mental connection.
I would be interested in if you attend the clubs, the kind of things you enjoy doing, that could be at be a little bit.
A good profile, and nice pictures too.
I would love to see you smile though.
Oooh that's good feedback thankyou. When you say interests.. do you mean non-sexual or sexual? Sexual I prefer to leave for conversation, I'm happy to put my non Sexual interests on.. though history may be a bit boring to some
I don't do clubs though and am a bit wary of putting any negativity on my profile."
Non-sexual, just to know that if we were to strike up conversation in person could we have some things in common, kind of thing.
Say then if you don't go to clubs you could put that, you don't have to put it in the negative sense, you could for example. "I travel, accommodate or can n a hotel."
Just an idea of course as your profile is good how it is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" I don't meet smokers, but I potentially would send you a friendly message to say hello anyway if you were local.
There isn't very much about what you like, apart from that it's a mental connection.
I would be interested in if you attend the clubs, the kind of things you enjoy doing, that could be at be a little bit.
A good profile, and nice pictures too.
I would love to see you smile though.
Oooh that's good feedback thankyou. When you say interests.. do you mean non-sexual or sexual? Sexual I prefer to leave for conversation, I'm happy to put my non Sexual interests on.. though history may be a bit boring to some
I don't do clubs though and am a bit wary of putting any negativity on my profile.
Non-sexual, just to know that if we were to strike up conversation in person could we have some things in common, kind of thing.
Say then if you don't go to clubs you could put that, you don't have to put it in the negative sense, you could for example. "I travel, accommodate or can n a hotel."
Just an idea of course as your profile is good how it is."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No i wouldn't i like funny cheeky guys who can deal with a sarcastic bitch and i didn't get that from your profile."
That's good to know, because I love cheeky sarcastic bitches, I wouldn't want them to think I can't handle a bit of banter.
I may consider removing the part someone else thought was arrogant (though I can't see how genuinely enjoying helping others can be translated as arrogance).
And adding more about me personally, plus some proof I can handle a sarky bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If we were looking for a single guy and you were closer we probably would msg you for a few drinks, you come across as someone we could have a laugh with, put the world to rights! Your profile seems fine and you match our preferences if we were meeting
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If we were looking for a single guy and you were closer we probably would msg you for a few drinks, you come across as someone we could have a laugh with, put the world to rights! Your profile seems fine and you match our preferences if we were meeting
Peach x"
Its nice to know I'm doing some things right Thankyou very much. I love putting the world to rights, how right I am when I do it, is questionable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd contact you for a pint but it's maybe not what you're hoping for"
A pint would be fine you may notice my profile says I'm not really looking for men, so I'm not sure what you think I'm hoping for with you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd contact you for a pint but it's maybe not what you're hoping for
A pint would be fine you may notice my profile says I'm not really looking for men, so I'm not sure what you think I'm hoping for with you?"
I'm not looking for men either other than as friends, that's what I meant with it's not what you're looking for. You seem cool and asked if people would contact you. Did you just mean for sex? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd contact you for a pint but it's maybe not what you're hoping for
A pint would be fine you may notice my profile says I'm not really looking for men, so I'm not sure what you think I'm hoping for with you?
I'm not looking for men either other than as friends, that's what I meant with it's not what you're looking for. You seem cool and asked if people would contact you. Did you just mean for sex?"
No I didn't. I'm glad you've posted that, I'm glad others have said they'd message on friendly terms. For me, this place isn't purely a sex site. I enjoy meeting or talking to new folk. So an invite for a pint is something I'd definitely consider, if approached in the right way |
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Hiya
I like your profile and pics but I’d be wondering why you picked the name you’re using. Choosing the name of a man known for the widespread massacre of civilians is an odd choice and it put a question mark in my mind.
The rest is good.
MrsT |
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