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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey Ladies.
I'm just looking for a female opinion. What do you think of my profile and how can I improve it? Seem to just be attracting time wasters so the problem might be from my profile.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Hey Ladies.
I'm just looking for a female opinion. What do you think of my profile and how can I improve it? Seem to just be attracting time wasters so the problem might be from my profile.
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Unfortunately there are many timewasters on here and I don't think it's your profile, I quite like your profile and pics are good. It's just that you are one of many single guys on here. As others often suggest, are there any clubs or socials near you where you can interact with others.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as a timewaster?
Have you been here before? Your pics look familiar
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Yeah was on here ages ago. Ermmm well timewasters as in women just talking with no intention of meeting or talking and swapping numbers but then sudden no replies, usual stuff like that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey Ladies.
I'm just looking for a female opinion. What do you think of my profile and how can I improve it? Seem to just be attracting time wasters so the problem might be from my profile.
Unfortunately there are many timewasters on here and I don't think it's your profile, I quite like your profile and pics are good. It's just that you are one of many single guys on here. As others often suggest, are there any clubs or socials near you where you can interact with others. "
Never been to any of the clubs, if I'm honest its a bit daunting and I feel there would be little cliques |
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I think your profile is reasonable.
We'll done for not having any cock pics!
I would suggest the green T-shirt photo would make a better profile pic.
Your write up is respectful if a bit functional. I would put the stuff about you first and then follow it with what you are looking for. It would be good if you could inject some humour into it. It has some good stuff in it but it needs a bit of a lift. Making a woman smile goes a long way. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"What do you class as a timewaster?
Have you been here before? Your pics look familiar
P
Yeah was on here ages ago. Ermmm well timewasters as in women just talking with no intention of meeting or talking and swapping numbers but then sudden no replies, usual stuff like that"
I see what you mean, not really timewasting, that is when you arrange to meet and they don't turn up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you class as a timewaster?
Have you been here before? Your pics look familiar
P
Yeah was on here ages ago. Ermmm well timewasters as in women just talking with no intention of meeting or talking and swapping numbers but then sudden no replies, usual stuff like that"
Right. When I talk to someone I have no intention of meeting them.
IF and only if we get on and I reckon I'll have a good laugh with them etc will I even consider meeting them.
Does that make me a timewaster, or merely someone who's taking the time to explore whether it will be a good decision to meet?
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Hey Ladies.
I'm just looking for a female opinion. What do you think of my profile and how can I improve it? Seem to just be attracting time wasters so the problem might be from my profile.
Unfortunately there are many timewasters on here and I don't think it's your profile, I quite like your profile and pics are good. It's just that you are one of many single guys on here. As others often suggest, are there any clubs or socials near you where you can interact with others.
Never been to any of the clubs, if I'm honest its a bit daunting and I feel there would be little cliques"
Initially it can be daunting. There will always be groups of people in the clubs, who know each other, not necessarily cliques |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as a timewaster?
Have you been here before? Your pics look familiar
P
Yeah was on here ages ago. Ermmm well timewasters as in women just talking with no intention of meeting or talking and swapping numbers but then sudden no replies, usual stuff like that
Right. When I talk to someone I have no intention of meeting them.
IF and only if we get on and I reckon I'll have a good laugh with them etc will I even consider meeting them.
Does that make me a timewaster, or merely someone who's taking the time to explore whether it will be a good decision to meet?
P"
Imagine you and I talk and areange to meet. Then i stop replying. Thats what a time waster is to me. What you described isn't really |
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"It reads more like a dating site profile than one on a swingers site!
So i should be more sex minded? "
You aren’t looking for couples so I’m not your target market. But I would be very wary simple because I would be concerned you are looking for a relationship rather than NSA or even FB. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you class as a timewaster?
Have you been here before? Your pics look familiar
P
Yeah was on here ages ago. Ermmm well timewasters as in women just talking with no intention of meeting or talking and swapping numbers but then sudden no replies, usual stuff like that
Right. When I talk to someone I have no intention of meeting them.
IF and only if we get on and I reckon I'll have a good laugh with them etc will I even consider meeting them.
Does that make me a timewaster, or merely someone who's taking the time to explore whether it will be a good decision to meet?
P
Imagine you and I talk and areange to meet. Then i stop replying. Thats what a time waster is to me. What you described isn't really"
I was just clarifying as you had highlighted women just talking with no intention of meeting as timewasters.
I class a timewaster as someone who doesn't turn up when all arranged, with no notice or warning. I appreciate people can get cold feet, that doesn't make them a timewaster in my book, it makes them someone who got cold feet.
To me it's those who intentionally set out to waste your time as their sole purpose.
Anyway, hope you find what you're looking for
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It reads more like a dating site profile than one on a swingers site!
So i should be more sex minded?
You aren’t looking for couples so I’m not your target market. But I would be very wary simple because I would be concerned you are looking for a relationship rather than NSA or even FB. "
No I'm. Open to couples. I'm not after a relationship for sure. Ive edited it, hope it is better |
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"It reads more like a dating site profile than one on a swingers site!
So i should be more sex minded?
You aren’t looking for couples so I’m not your target market. But I would be very wary simple because I would be concerned you are looking for a relationship rather than NSA or even FB.
No I'm. Open to couples. I'm not after a relationship for sure. Ive edited it, hope it is better "
Your “looking for” section doesn’t include MF couples, only FF |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Can i have an honest opinion on my profile?
I am new to this whole thing only joined 3 weeks ago,
Ive had a social meet with a lovely lass, (verified now) and we are planning to hook up again
But over 200 messages half dont get read and 96% of other half just get deleted :-/
Is it my profile? Perhaps? "
Please start your own thread rather than jumping on someone else's, otherwise it gets confusing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It reads more like a dating site profile than one on a swingers site!
So i should be more sex minded?
You aren’t looking for couples so I’m not your target market. But I would be very wary simple because I would be concerned you are looking for a relationship rather than NSA or even FB.
No I'm. Open to couples. I'm not after a relationship for sure. Ive edited it, hope it is better
Your “looking for” section doesn’t include MF couples, only FF"
Oh can you send me a private message? I want to see if it's blocked for couples as it shouldnt be |
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"It reads more like a dating site profile than one on a swingers site!
So i should be more sex minded?
You aren’t looking for couples so I’m not your target market. But I would be very wary simple because I would be concerned you are looking for a relationship rather than NSA or even FB.
No I'm. Open to couples. I'm not after a relationship for sure. Ive edited it, hope it is better
Your “looking for” section doesn’t include MF couples, only FF
Oh can you send me a private message? I want to see if it's blocked for couples as it shouldnt be"
It’s not blocked but it does come up with the warning that you aren’t looking for MF couples as you haven’t changed your “looking for” |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It reads more like a dating site profile than one on a swingers site!
So i should be more sex minded?
You aren’t looking for couples so I’m not your target market. But I would be very wary simple because I would be concerned you are looking for a relationship rather than NSA or even FB.
No I'm. Open to couples. I'm not after a relationship for sure. Ive edited it, hope it is better
Your “looking for” section doesn’t include MF couples, only FF
Oh can you send me a private message? I want to see if it's blocked for couples as it shouldnt be
It’s not blocked but it does come up with the warning that you aren’t looking for MF couples as you haven’t changed your “looking for” "
Cool I've changed it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn’t mention you are a Man United fan and like football... it’s an oxymoron and it would definitely put people off with your bad fast in football team     "
Should have said taste not fast lol
Oh and was only joking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wouldn’t mention you are a Man United fan and like football... it’s an oxymoron and it would definitely put people off with your bad fast in football team
Should have said taste not fast lol
Oh and was only joking "
Well We are pants at the moment so I can't argue. Saw your pics. Mrs has an absolute stunning body. |
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