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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey pretty new to site but not having much luck even chatting on here. I'm I doing something wrong not rude or a pest dont send dic pics and appreciate when people not interested. I'm jus looking to get to know like minded people. I'd appreciate any help lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get better wallpaper "
So, aside from the wallpaper ...
You live in The Midlands, some of the most popular clubs in the UK on your doorstep - go to one - see what you think
If that's too much of a step, try an organised group social, they're fun. A great opportunity to meet swingers in a non sexual arena
Try adding some more pics - 1 really isn't that much to go on
Sadly, being a single fella, the can't accom will be a red flag to many
The assumption will be that you're in a relat and playing away
If you're back with your Mom after a relat breakdown, maybe say so, there's no shame in it
You seem a reasonably well put together bloke, but there's another 10,000 or so here who are in much the same boat
You do need to be patient and tolerant and understanding and accepting of conditions that may be placed on you
I hope you can make it work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are your expectations of swinging?
Is your profile well-written, and appealing?
Considee changing your approach."
that's bollcks really as I've had face pics well written profiles ect in the past. If you really.want to meet anyone here you need to be a couple or a woman. Clubs is the best bet if you really wanna meet someone but what's the hype.anyway? I'd rather not force it. Its like a fart when you force it its usually shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are your expectations of swinging?
Is your profile well-written, and appealing?
Considee changing your approach.that's bollcks really as I've had face pics well written profiles ect in the past. If you really.want to meet anyone here you need to be a couple or a woman. Clubs is the best bet if you really wanna meet someone but what's the hype.anyway? I'd rather not force it. Its like a fart when you force it its usually shit"
Plenty of men are successful on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are your expectations of swinging?
Is your profile well-written, and appealing?
Considee changing your approach.that's bollcks really as I've had face pics well written profiles ect in the past. If you really.want to meet anyone here you need to be a couple or a woman. Clubs is the best bet if you really wanna meet someone but what's the hype.anyway? I'd rather not force it. Its like a fart when you force it its usually shit
Plenty of men are successful on here "
I'm obviously too ugly for the high standards the women have here then  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys I appreciate help not sure was I expecting from here. I'm curious and open minded. I thought fab would good place to get to know like minded people. I think my profile says what I'm about or do I come across shit? |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"What are your expectations of swinging?
Is your profile well-written, and appealing?
Considee changing your approach.that's bollcks really as I've had face pics well written profiles ect in the past. If you really.want to meet anyone here you need to be a couple or a woman. Clubs is the best bet if you really wanna meet someone but what's the hype.anyway? I'd rather not force it. Its like a fart when you force it its usually shit
Plenty of men are successful on here I'm obviously too ugly for the high standards the women have here then "
I find that an ugly attitude is more off-putting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are your expectations of swinging?
Is your profile well-written, and appealing?
Considee changing your approach.that's bollcks really as I've had face pics well written profiles ect in the past. If you really.want to meet anyone here you need to be a couple or a woman. Clubs is the best bet if you really wanna meet someone but what's the hype.anyway? I'd rather not force it. Its like a fart when you force it its usually shit
Plenty of men are successful on here I'm obviously too ugly for the high standards the women have here then
I find that an ugly attitude is more off-putting."
just stating what my fab experience has been so far not an attitude at all  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys I appreciate help not sure was I expecting from here. I'm curious and open minded. I thought fab would good place to get to know like minded people. I think my profile says what I'm about or do I come across shit? "
You seem nice, more pictures would help though |
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You should consider attending a club. There's some great ones local to you. Also look out for local socials - great way to meet people.
Your profile photo isn't great tbh. One with you looking more relaxed would help but don't go for loads of cock pics!
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys I appreciate help not sure was I expecting from here. I'm curious and open minded. I thought fab would good place to get to know like minded people. I think my profile says what I'm about or do I come across shit?
You seem nice, more pictures would help though "
Thank you. I'll put some more up. Your gorgeous btw |
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"Hey pretty new to site but not having much luck even chatting on here. I'm I doing something wrong not rude or a pest dont send dic pics and appreciate when people not interested. I'm jus looking to get to know like minded people. I'd appreciate any help lol "
You're a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are a single male, smoker, without the ability to accommodate and you are in to dr rugs.
Started with an uphill task turned it into a mountain climb...
As above, clubs and socials is your doorway, get known for yourself in real world places then this makes a good place to build on that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey pretty new to site but not having much luck even chatting on here. I'm I doing something wrong not rude or a pest dont send dic pics and appreciate when people not interested. I'm jus looking to get to know like minded people. I'd appreciate any help lol
You're a man."
Think that's the main problem lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to smile at some bitter comments on here and its easy to see why some single makes are successful and others fail. A bad attitude and a petulant nature really puts women off. |
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"What are your expectations of swinging?
Is your profile well-written, and appealing?
Considee changing your approach.that's bollcks really as I've had face pics well written profiles ect in the past. If you really.want to meet anyone here you need to be a couple or a woman. Clubs is the best bet if you really wanna meet someone but what's the hype.anyway? I'd rather not force it. Its like a fart when you force it its usually shit"
Think may have missed something?
Women and couples need ermm..men? |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"What are your expectations of swinging?
Is your profile well-written, and appealing?
Considee changing your approach.that's bollcks really as I've had face pics well written profiles ect in the past. If you really.want to meet anyone here you need to be a couple or a woman. Clubs is the best bet if you really wanna meet someone but what's the hype.anyway? I'd rather not force it. Its like a fart when you force it its usually shit
Think may have missed something?
Women and couples need ermm..men?"
Often folk post reasons why they fail or aren't as successful as others..things that are out of their control when as often as not the problem lays far closer to home.
Op. Theres no magic formula, no one size fits all approach, find what works for you and stick with that. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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OP. Why can the meet not verify you ?
As others have said try going to a social or a club .
Regarding your profile. Read it slowly to yourself,as there are a few errors with words missing or not ending correctly.
It looks like you rushed it and didn't put much effort in. Think of it as a swinging CV. You want it to be as good as you can make it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are your expectations of swinging?
Is your profile well-written, and appealing?
Considee changing your approach.that's bollcks really as I've had face pics well written profiles ect in the past. If you really.want to meet anyone here you need to be a couple or a woman. Clubs is the best bet if you really wanna meet someone but what's the hype.anyway? I'd rather not force it. Its like a fart when you force it its usually shit"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheers mate they can't verify gutted lol
Why can't they verify? "
If the other person is also unverified, they can't give veri's
You need to have 1 to give 1 |
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