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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Might be the highlights in your hair
Hair well actually I've been going grey since I was 23. But thanks for noticing "
I was trying to look for clues as to why. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Might be the highlights in your hair
Hair well actually I've been going grey since I was 23. But thanks for noticing
I was trying to look for clues as to why. "
Thank you. Very much appreciated. Just wierd as the last couple of days been getting messages and I haven't changed anything on my profile |
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"Just wondering where its all coming from all of a sudden is there something on my profile that I havent noticed that says I'm looking for guys?  "
You say you’re looking for someone to go to socials with..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're straight so you'll always get pestered, I'm bi but for an experiment once changed it to straight and got way more male attention. Odd place this!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're straight so you'll always get pestered, I'm bi but for an experiment once changed it to straight and got way more male attention. Odd place this!!! "
Ha that's very weird
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're straight so you'll always get pestered, I'm bi but for an experiment once changed it to straight and got way more male attention. Odd place this!!! "
Makes cringe that they chase genuine straight men and think they will get a genuine straight men. It is different if they are trying to find discrete bi lads, but if they are blatantly stating they are straight and still getting those specimens messaging them, it is a huge show up to decent bi and gay men who behave themselves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thing is so many people on here lie about there sexuality so called straight men are not as straight as they seem if you look at who they sleep with , bi curious is another one so many have profiles on gay sites have lots of meets with men but still claim to be curious no wonder people don't take what's on people's profiles as gospel  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thing is so many people on here lie about there sexuality so called straight men are not as straight as they seem if you look at who they sleep with , bi curious is another one so many have profiles on gay sites have lots of meets with men but still claim to be curious no wonder people don't take what's on people's profiles as gospel "
So by that you mean it's fine to just randomly message someone in the hope they may have just lied of ommited talking about themselves? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your on a singers site u will get males too
If u want Stright look at another site. "
Erm no mate. States that I'm straight. You want a bi guy then search for one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your on a singers site u will get males too
If u want Stright look at another site.
Erm no mate. States that I'm straight. You want a bi guy then search for one! "
I think what he is saying, is you may get some form of male attention on a site like this and if you cannot cope then it is not right place for you. I get attention from all sorts of groups I am really not interested in but you accept it as part and parcel of this type of site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your on a singers site u will get males too
If u want Stright look at another site.
Erm no mate. States that I'm straight. You want a bi guy then search for one!
I think what he is saying, is you may get some form of male attention on a site like this and if you cannot cope then it is not right place for you. I get attention from all sorts of groups I am really not interested in but you accept it as part and parcel of this type of site "
I don't mind the attention. And I kindly explain I'm not interested as they took the time to message. |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
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"Just wondering where its all coming from all of a sudden is there something on my profile that I havent noticed that says I'm looking for guys? "
Maybe you are just a cock magnet some guys just are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its in the small print bottom line three after the bit about being a secret cock monkey lol 
Haha will be deleted pronto "
Its still there only in bigger print now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Its in the small print bottom line three after the bit about being a secret cock monkey lol
Haha will be deleted pronto
Its still there only in bigger print now. "
?????? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Male attention is better than no attention so don't be offended by guys checking you out as how do they know until late they are on your profile"
Looking is fine but was asking what is on the profile as getting messages asking for meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male attention is better than no attention so don't be offended by guys checking you out as how do they know until late they are on your profile
Looking is fine but was asking what is on the profile as getting messages asking for meets"
Exactly. It's the contant offers to suck your cock despite your profile saying you're straight and not looking for men.
Just block messages from single men and you won't get those any more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got chatting to a guy as he (amongst many others) was asking me to meet even tho Im straight. He said it was the thrill of trying to find that guy who will try it for the first time. Apparently he says for every 10 guys he messages he will get one and that gives him more pleasure than openly gay or bi guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its fear.
Fear of being mocked on threads like this...
Fear of whether any woman would ever look at them twice after finding out.
Fear they are gay.
Fear of what their friends would say.
Fear of what their colleagues would say.
Fab is the perfect place to explore your boundaries. How many of us have done things/do things we don't openly advertise on our profiles? Would you like to have been judged for it?
It provides the anonymity to explore your desires in a shame free way. Away from all the judgement and prying eyes.
Nobody has an automatic right to know your sexuality. How can you tell them if you're unsure yourself?
I didn't know I was bi till I was about 25. I'd had full sex with two men before then. I didnt even know if I enjoyed it of not. I was scared I was gay, even though i liked women too.. scared I'd go off them! Scared I was just being a perverted wrong un.
There are few decent male role models that show we can be both masculine, hard, yet soft warm hearted fathers and husbands.. and be bisexual. Society doesn't make it easy for us, but it doesn't make it easy for anyone different from the modern Radioactive Family.
So they have to accept that the world isn't kind and you have to turn and face it and challenge it thd fuck on.. come what may.
I'm kind because I know what its like.. so I won't mock Fabstraight men, I won't mock straight men who chase straight men.. perhaps it makes them feel less bi, less gay.. If that helps them relax a bit, gets them off a bit.. so they can figure it all out.
Then power to the fucking Fab Police for leaving them be.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its fear.
Fear of being mocked on threads like this...
Fear of whether any woman would ever look at them twice after finding out.
Fear they are gay.
Fear of what their friends would say.
Fear of what their colleagues would say.
Fab is the perfect place to explore your boundaries. How many of us have done things/do things we don't openly advertise on our profiles? Would you like to have been judged for it?
It provides the anonymity to explore your desires in a shame free way. Away from all the judgement and prying eyes.
Nobody has an automatic right to know your sexuality. How can you tell them if you're unsure yourself?
I didn't know I was bi till I was about 25. I'd had full sex with two men before then. I didnt even know if I enjoyed it of not. I was scared I was gay, even though i liked women too.. scared I'd go off them! Scared I was just being a perverted wrong un.
There are few decent male role models that show we can be both masculine, hard, yet soft warm hearted fathers and husbands.. and be bisexual. Society doesn't make it easy for us, but it doesn't make it easy for anyone different from the modern Radioactive Family.
So they have to accept that the world isn't kind and you have to turn and face it and challenge it thd fuck on.. come what may.
I'm kind because I know what its like.. so I won't mock Fabstraight men, I won't mock straight men who chase straight men.. perhaps it makes them feel less bi, less gay.. If that helps them relax a bit, gets them off a bit.. so they can figure it all out.
Then power to the fucking Fab Police for leaving them be.
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For record.. I'm listed as bi curious.. because I fucking feel like it. Not for anyone to tell me I am, or am not anything. |
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"Just wondering where its all coming from all of a sudden is there something on my profile that I havent noticed that says I'm looking for guys? "
Maybe it's coz ur so damn irrssistable to all genders and sexual orientations? |
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"I think its fear.
Fear of being mocked on threads like this...
Fear of whether any woman would ever look at them twice after finding out.
Fear they are gay.
Fear of what their friends would say.
Fear of what their colleagues would say.
Fab is the perfect place to explore your boundaries. How many of us have done things/do things we don't openly advertise on our profiles? Would you like to have been judged for it?
It provides the anonymity to explore your desires in a shame free way. Away from all the judgement and prying eyes.
Nobody has an automatic right to know your sexuality. How can you tell them if you're unsure yourself?
I didn't know I was bi till I was about 25. I'd had full sex with two men before then. I didnt even know if I enjoyed it of not. I was scared I was gay, even though i liked women too.. scared I'd go off them! Scared I was just being a perverted wrong un.
There are few decent male role models that show we can be both masculine, hard, yet soft warm hearted fathers and husbands.. and be bisexual. Society doesn't make it easy for us, but it doesn't make it easy for anyone different from the modern Radioactive Family.
So they have to accept that the world isn't kind and you have to turn and face it and challenge it thd fuck on.. come what may.
I'm kind because I know what its like.. so I won't mock Fabstraight men, I won't mock straight men who chase straight men.. perhaps it makes them feel less bi, less gay.. If that helps them relax a bit, gets them off a bit.. so they can figure it all out.
Then power to the fucking Fab Police for leaving them be.
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Well said, genuine respect to you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its fear.
Fear of being mocked on threads like this...
Fear of whether any woman would ever look at them twice after finding out.
Fear they are gay.
Fear of what their friends would say.
Fear of what their colleagues would say.
Fab is the perfect place to explore your boundaries. How many of us have done things/do things we don't openly advertise on our profiles? Would you like to have been judged for it?
It provides the anonymity to explore your desires in a shame free way. Away from all the judgement and prying eyes.
Nobody has an automatic right to know your sexuality. How can you tell them if you're unsure yourself?
I didn't know I was bi till I was about 25. I'd had full sex with two men before then. I didnt even know if I enjoyed it of not. I was scared I was gay, even though i liked women too.. scared I'd go off them! Scared I was just being a perverted wrong un.
There are few decent male role models that show we can be both masculine, hard, yet soft warm hearted fathers and husbands.. and be bisexual. Society doesn't make it easy for us, but it doesn't make it easy for anyone different from the modern Radioactive Family.
So they have to accept that the world isn't kind and you have to turn and face it and challenge it thd fuck on.. come what may.
I'm kind because I know what its like.. so I won't mock Fabstraight men, I won't mock straight men who chase straight men.. perhaps it makes them feel less bi, less gay.. If that helps them relax a bit, gets them off a bit.. so they can figure it all out.
Then power to the fucking Fab Police for leaving them be.
Well said, genuine respect to you
xx "
Thanks Respect returned |
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