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By *amfab OP Man
over a year ago
Luton |
"Been on fab ages now , without luck in sight , or even chats , why is my inbox dry -- ' I reach out respectfully ... gimme a clue guys and gals"
On my 4th adaptation of my profile nothing seems to spark interest or conversation |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
Why not go and read the pointers made on the other post on same topic you did.
As pointed out on that, you dont need to state not being into men, use the message filter. No pictures no reply, again theres a filter for that (not 100% reliable).
My profile is mega ranty to purposely repel, I read yours and thought ha no! Most dont need to be told to be their self |
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All of this advice exists in multiple threads, but for ease....
Lose the cockshots.
Spend some time taking and editing the best photos you can. Look at what other guys and women have done and take inspiration.
Make your profile text about what you can offer. Distil it down so that it says something unique and interest-piquing. At the moment it’s full of rules and inspirational phrases, but not really anything which says “I’m different from every other guy on here”
Don’t put any caveats into your text.
Up your game when you message. It’s your best and perhaps only chance of grabbing attention. |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
" why is my inbox dry -- ' I reach out respectfully ... gimme a clue guys and gals
How can you believe you reach out respectfully when your profile pic is your cock out in the kitchen ? "
This. It would be an instant no from me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a massive difference between being a single man who is looking for sex and a male swinger. Successful men have made the effort to learn how to approach and talk to people. They have also made their profile appealing. Plenty of tips on the forums of what to do, but it will require effort and most men are adverse to that. |
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By *amfab OP Man
over a year ago
Luton |
"Why not go and read the pointers made on the other post on same topic you did.
As pointed out on that, you dont need to state not being into men, use the message filter. No pictures no reply, again theres a filter for that (not 100% reliable).
My profile is mega ranty to purposely repel, I read yours and thought ha no! Most dont need to be told to be their self "
taken on board |
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"There’s a massive difference between being a single man who is looking for sex and a male swinger. Successful men have made the effort to learn how to approach and talk to people. They have also made their profile appealing. Plenty of tips on the forums of what to do, but it will require effort and most men are adverse to that. "
Hit the nail on the head there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not go and read the pointers made on the other post on same topic you did.
As pointed out on that, you dont need to state not being into men, use the message filter. No pictures no reply, again theres a filter for that (not 100% reliable).
My profile is mega ranty to purposely repel, I read yours and thought ha no! Most dont need to be told to be their self "
Lol I had to have a brief skim over yours to see what you were ranting about. What on earth is ‘knotty’? |
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"Been on fab ages now , without luck in sight , or even chats , why is my inbox dry -- ' I reach out respectfully ... gimme a clue guys and gals"
You seem very sad in your
pictures.
The dickpics aren't great.
I'm 420 friendly occasionally and your doobie photo was off putting to me.
You moan about men messaging you and how you don't like it instead of adjusting your filters, that spells, ego and a touch of homophobia.
If you were a woman, would you meet you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can do all you can profile wise but if people are not attracted then they are not attracted. "
It’s that simple sometimes, try and enjoy the chase and don’t let it get you down it’s just a website! |
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