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By *blake491 OP   Man  over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi

I’ve been on and off browsing on fab for about 6 months plus now. I’ve seemed to notice I don’t get many reply’s , but I’ve always been worried it might be my age. I do generally message people up to there late 40s. When I first came on here I thought that older women would prefer a young guy to be honest but that doesn’t seem the case. I’m not sure if it’s because I haven’t uploaded any pictures or have any verifications. Has anyone got any advice it would be much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi

I’ve been on and off browsing on fab for about 6 months plus now. I’ve seemed to notice I don’t get many reply’s , but I’ve always been worried it might be my age. I do generally message people up to there late 40s. When I first came on here I thought that older women would prefer a young guy to be honest but that doesn’t seem the case. I’m not sure if it’s because I haven’t uploaded any pictures or have any verifications. Has anyone got any advice it would be much appreciated."

Why did you think they would prefer younger guys?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP, I have no idea on how appealing your messages are but I do know that most people will look at your profile before they read them.

You might want to start with that.

V

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By *blake491 OP   Man  over a year ago

Sheffield

Are thank you. I’ll have a look into improving it. I do need to write a proper profile to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You might want to start with a profile picture

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By *edVelveteenCouple  over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Have a profile pic or at least one public pic that gives a good interpretation of you. I personally go for younger guys but i would pass you by with no pics.

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By *edVelveteenCouple  over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

But you're also very young, which could be a disadvantage.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are thank you. I’ll have a look into improving it. I do need to write a proper profile to be honest "

No problem. Remember, effort in, rewards out. Good luck and enjoy Fab

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Again once looking at your profile it would be a no thank you from us.

Tony

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By *etite HandfulWoman  over a year ago

Chester

Be yourself, be an individual also treat others as an individual and if you message them make it original.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you wouldn’t say it to someone face to face when first meeting them then don’t send it in a message. Be polite, fancy a fuck or getting your cock out wouldn’t work in a bar so why try it here? Haha

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By *anana JoeMan  over a year ago

Sheffield

Don't try to be what you are not just be straight with people.

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By *litterbabeWoman  over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

What are you doing to stand out from the other guys who make a lot of effort with their profile and messages?

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By *blake491 OP   Man  over a year ago

Sheffield

Thanks. Yeah that makes sense bet a lot of people get some very rude messages aha. I always say what I would in person luckily

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By *blake491 OP   Man  over a year ago

Sheffield

Good point I’ll try that out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi

I’ve been on and off browsing on fab for about 6 months plus now. I’ve seemed to notice I don’t get many reply’s , but I’ve always been worried it might be my age. I do generally message people up to there late 40s. When I first came on here I thought that older women would prefer a young guy to be honest but that doesn’t seem the case. I’m not sure if it’s because I haven’t uploaded any pictures or have any verifications. Has anyone got any advice it would be much appreciated."

I think pictures help but it takes time

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