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Is a club a good option for a first time young couple?
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By *K-cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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We've been on here a while and often think about visiting a club but have a couple of fears.
1. Is a club the best way to introduce yourself to swinging?
2. Will there be anyone our age?
Anyone got any views on this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs are fantastic. Just don't let your mind get carried away with images of what you see in the movies or in mags. It's nothing like that. Try and find one that is more of a night club type than a sauna one for your first visits. Prehaps contact a club and ask if you can visit when there closed so you can take in what's on offer. And the golden rule of any where is No means No. As for age you'll find people of all ages there. So we'd say give it a go. Prehaps look at the club review page and look at the people who have posted comments for a one you like. Then drop them a mail and ask them if you cN go with them for your first time. I'm sure they would love the chance to be the ones to introduce you. Hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We went to a club 1st before we did any private meets. You have more freedom and its more like a social. You can just go with the flow without any pressure . The main thing is to go with an open mind and talk to each other about what you do and dont want before you go . xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were more nervous the first time we went to a club than the first time we had a meet. For me (mrs) it was down to the amount of people that might be there whereas in our own home it was just us and the people we had decided to meet. For us now though we enjoy both club and private but club has the thrill of not knowing who is going to be there. |
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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago
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Not sure where you are, but Xtasia in West Brom is good little club, always has new faces and is more of a night club setting. have been going there the last few years and never felt un easy. They have a good age range of people from i would say early 20s to 60+. We try and go as often as possible.
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