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Getting verified - does it matter?
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I had 3 play meets before I took a veri. I didn’t see the point, and the women I met didn’t need any more. Eventually I realised that it helped a bit, so took them when they were offered. Some women filter out guys that aren’t verified, so getting one may open up your choice, but to be honest, there seems to be far too many guys who blame a lack of veris on a lack of meets. I think if you put the effort in you’ll cut through easily enough. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had 3 play meets before I took a veri. I didn’t see the point, and the women I met didn’t need any more. Eventually I realised that it helped a bit, so took them when they were offered. Some women filter out guys that aren’t verified, so getting one may open up your choice, but to be honest, there seems to be far too many guys who blame a lack of veris on a lack of meets. I think if you put the effort in you’ll cut through easily enough. "
Thanks. That's good advice  |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"How can I get verified if I only meet other non-verified people? Does it actually make any difference being verified? "
They're no Amazon reviews but they do help a little, especially when meeting new people. |
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By *JCouple
over a year ago
Teesside |
"You don't need a meet to get verified, just send in a photo of yourself.
I'm verified and have never met anyone  "
Been photo verified and been meet verified from meeting in person are 2 completely different things. There's also cam verified aswell.
KJ x |
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It will make a difference to some but most single men would find better results from following the great tips from others in the forum. Usually it's...
Writing an attractive profile that sells them well.
They focus effort on the right people. Expect it to be hard work.
Have realistic expectations.
Visit socials and clubs, to get better known. Often others verify people there too.
Review a few of the help wanted posts. Some people like me will verify decent people, who we're not meeting for sex. Lots of friendly people. |
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For me verification help me have a little more trust that 1.they are genuine user of fab 2.little insight of their sexual preferences and play 3.they not dangerous if other decent fab ladies say they are decent. |
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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago
south west , continental |
My first verification came from a club meet. Having verifications doesn't necessarily guarantee you will get more meets. I guess the verifications give a little snap shot into who you are. Although if you meet someone from here and they leave a verification its always a positive reciprocated gesture.
Proof is always in the pudding so they say. Profiles are the key and being realistic in your quest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all of your advice. Very much appreciate that you've taken the time to respond. I might seek some advice on my profile next as 95% of my views are from guys LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can I get verified if I only meet other non-verified people? Does it actually make any difference being verified? "
makes no difference if a person insists on it move onto next  |
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"How can I get verified if I only meet other non-verified people? Does it actually make any difference being verified? "
I've definitely had a meet where the lady contacted me after seeing my verifications, confirming that I matched what she was looking for. |
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"Thanks for all of your advice. Very much appreciate that you've taken the time to respond. I might seek some advice on my profile next as 95% of my views are from guys LOL"
Most women view in stealth mode. otherwise guys harass us wanting to know whether we’re interested. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks for all of your advice. Very much appreciate that you've taken the time to respond. I might seek some advice on my profile next as 95% of my views are from guys LOL
Most women view in stealth mode. otherwise guys harass us wanting to know whether we’re interested. "
Ah that is useful to know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree. I use them for my own safety and to reduce engaging with time wasters. Not really fussed about the actual content, as I like to go with the flow and have my own individual experience with that person x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can I get verified if I only meet other non-verified people? Does it actually make any difference being verified? "
I don’t think I have ever met a couple or female who is not verified by another couple/lady unless I have spoken to them.
I find veri’s are a good way of ing out the (male) pic hunters. |
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