"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ? "
You might think to add some experience or context here, because I suspect most people commenting think you may be on hard drugs if you think mfm is as difficult to arrange as FMF...  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Excuse my naivety but I assumed that every single male profile on here would like and agree to be part of a mfm
Then you just have to find someone thats compatible
Is that wrong
In a mfm does it matter about the males as long as they both like the woman and she likes them
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By *inxnmaster OP Couple
over a year ago
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ?
You might think to add some experience or context here, because I suspect most people commenting think you may be on hard drugs if you think mfm is as difficult to arrange as FMF... "
Finding male candidates mfm sounds easy at first . Finding one who suits us and doesn’t bail out last minute seem not to be that easy . It’s a load of lads can talk the talk but get stage fear when it’s due to walk the walk .
Finding a female player is difficult in the first stage but a lady once committed does a lot of preparation for the date and wouldn’t drop it light hearted |
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ?
You might think to add some experience or context here, because I suspect most people commenting think you may be on hard drugs if you think mfm is as difficult to arrange as FMF...
Finding male candidates mfm sounds easy at first . Finding one who suits us and doesn’t bail out last minute seem not to be that easy . It’s a load of lads can talk the talk but get stage fear when it’s due to walk the walk .
Finding a female player is difficult in the first stage but a lady once committed does a lot of preparation for the date and wouldn’t drop it light hearted "
yeah weve had a few bail as well. I think that happens across the board though for couples and singles alike |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Excuse my naivety but I assumed that every single male profile on here would like and agree to be part of a mfm
Then you just have to find someone thats compatible
Is that wrong
In a mfm does it matter about the males as long as they both like the woman and she likes them
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Ideally even with two straight lads they should get on with each other to get a proper threesome dynamic going. It's nicer when the gents do joint efforts to look after the lady rather than each on their own. And I think it's crucial if you're into dp. |
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ?
You might think to add some experience or context here, because I suspect most people commenting think you may be on hard drugs if you think mfm is as difficult to arrange as FMF...
Finding male candidates mfm sounds easy at first . Finding one who suits us and doesn’t bail out last minute seem not to be that easy . It’s a load of lads can talk the talk but get stage fear when it’s due to walk the walk .
Finding a female player is difficult in the first stage but a lady once committed does a lot of preparation for the date and wouldn’t drop it light hearted "
Ok, please dont take this as a criticism, but after reading your profile maybe, just maybe your standards, tastes and preferences are a tad more developed in a certain way and so what you are looking for in a guy is much harder to find..?
Good profile by the way, as you are quite clear what you want.. |
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By *inxnmaster OP Couple
over a year ago
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ?
You might think to add some experience or context here, because I suspect most people commenting think you may be on hard drugs if you think mfm is as difficult to arrange as FMF...
Finding male candidates mfm sounds easy at first . Finding one who suits us and doesn’t bail out last minute seem not to be that easy . It’s a load of lads can talk the talk but get stage fear when it’s due to walk the walk .
Finding a female player is difficult in the first stage but a lady once committed does a lot of preparation for the date and wouldn’t drop it light hearted
Ok, please dont take this as a criticism, but after reading your profile maybe, just maybe your standards, tastes and preferences are a tad more developed in a certain way and so what you are looking for in a guy is much harder to find..?
Good profile by the way, as you are quite clear what you want.. "
This thread is not about us . We merrily placed a question to discuss .
But thanks for the compliment anyways |
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ?
You might think to add some experience or context here, because I suspect most people commenting think you may be on hard drugs if you think mfm is as difficult to arrange as FMF...
Finding male candidates mfm sounds easy at first . Finding one who suits us and doesn’t bail out last minute seem not to be that easy . It’s a load of lads can talk the talk but get stage fear when it’s due to walk the walk .
Finding a female player is difficult in the first stage but a lady once committed does a lot of preparation for the date and wouldn’t drop it light hearted
Ok, please dont take this as a criticism, but after reading your profile maybe, just maybe your standards, tastes and preferences are a tad more developed in a certain way and so what you are looking for in a guy is much harder to find..?
Good profile by the way, as you are quite clear what you want..
This thread is not about us . We merrily placed a question to discuss .
But thanks for the compliment anyways "
No offence meant... Was just wondering if perhaps that was why there is a difference in your experiences and the comments above.. I'm more than happy to shut up now..! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ? "
No, we haven't found any difficulty at all, and despite the bad rap single fellas seem to get on Fab, we've met some lovely men and plenty more that we could have met if we had more free time |
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"I find it hard to find genuine couples on here a lot of the time it seems that the male half does the chatting and when it comes to meet cancell "
Nothing wrong with the male half chatting about a potential threesome... also sometimes people do need to cancel for genuine reasons. At least the had the courtesy to cancel rather than ghosting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose it's about careful selection process. Reading a guys profile, seeing verifications, meeting for a social to see if ye click and then taking it further. There are probably more opportunities for mfm on Fab but I am sure its not that easy. But communication and patience should help.
And when a guy is speaking to a couple, they should be sending writing messages including both. It may develop where one or the other person in the couple is replying but the single guy should still be replying with both persons in mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ? "
Mr here. If you have any spare females send them our way because they are rarer than hens teeth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ?
Mr here. If you have any spare females send them our way because they are rarer than hens teeth"
M is all I'm getting this weather |
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With the mmf I've had, the men don't give each other head or try to get each other off. That seems to make it easier for men to co-mingle. They have to be confident enough to be able to be naked together and not so alpha that having another man in the room doesn't trip their territorial wires.
Women are a completely different kettle of fish. We generally don't have issues being naked together, but I know (after being with more women than most men) that I'm probably not going to give her the orgasm of her life the first time out. And unless she's more than bi-curious, she's not even going to try to give me one. So I tend to play with lesbians when I want to be with women and they don't like to play with men. A truly bi-sexual woman is hard to find. So I would think, if you want to be with 2 women, tell them they don't need to play with each other beyond kissing and breast fondling, and that you're ambidextrous and man enough to take them both on simultaneously. |
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"With the mmf I've had, the men don't give each other head or try to get each other off. That seems to make it easier for men to co-mingle. They have to be confident enough to be able to be naked together and not so alpha that having another man in the room doesn't trip their territorial wires.
Women are a completely different kettle of fish. We generally don't have issues being naked together, but I know (after being with more women than most men) that I'm probably not going to give her the orgasm of her life the first time out. And unless she's more than bi-curious, she's not even going to try to give me one. So I tend to play with lesbians when I want to be with women and they don't like to play with men. A truly bi-sexual woman is hard to find. So I would think, if you want to be with 2 women, tell them they don't need to play with each other beyond kissing and breast fondling, and that you're ambidextrous and man enough to take them both on simultaneously. "
Yep. I totally agree. I’m not bi AT ALL but enjoy the company of women to have fun alongside of. Finding someone to do this with is nearly impossible. It’s the main reason IMO that FFMs don’t happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ? "
Yes totally i gave up a long time ago i believe it will happen spontaneously when Ieast expect it or so i hope. Once i had a mmf it was going really well until one of the guys messed it up by switching it around to suit himself. Lesson learned right there is to get to know people first which takes time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ?
Yes totally i gave up a long time ago i believe it will happen spontaneously when Ieast expect it or so i hope. Once i had a mmf it was going really well until one of the guys messed it up by switching it around to suit himself. Lesson learned right there is to get to know people first which takes time. "
Couldn’t agree more - can’t beat initial chats on here to create a bit of spark / interest
Then a social which may or maybe get the spark really going
Then hopefully full meet where you can’t wait to rip the clothes off them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ?
Yes totally i gave up a long time ago i believe it will happen spontaneously when Ieast expect it or so i hope. Once i had a mmf it was going really well until one of the guys messed it up by switching it around to suit himself. Lesson learned right there is to get to know people first which takes time.
Couldn’t agree more - can’t beat initial chats on here to create a bit of spark / interest
Then a social which may or maybe get the spark really going
Then hopefully full meet where you can’t wait to rip the clothes off them "
For me it takes more than one social and lots of chatting aswell in between meets. I know more or less after a few weeks chatting or in some cases a few days when the person/persons are for me or not . Couples can be a difficult on here because when chatting you don't know who you're really talking to he/she, also nearly always one wanting different to the other etc. Socials/parties are always the best way roll on RVC early December hopefully |
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By *murphMan
over a year ago
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"I find it hard to find genuine couples on here a lot of the time it seems that the male half does the chatting and when it comes to meet cancell
Nothing wrong with the male half chatting about a potential threesome... also sometimes people do need to cancel for genuine reasons. At least the had the courtesy to cancel rather than ghosting."
The ones that do cancel are usually genuine but the amount of ones that just don’t show and disappear off the site is unreal |
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By *on11Man
over a year ago
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ?
Yes totally i gave up a long time ago i believe it will happen spontaneously when Ieast expect it or so i hope. Once i had a mmf it was going really well until one of the guys messed it up by switching it around to suit himself. Lesson learned right there is to get to know people first which takes time.
Couldn’t agree more - can’t beat initial chats on here to create a bit of spark / interest
Then a social which may or maybe get the spark really going
Then hopefully full meet where you can’t wait to rip the clothes off them
For me it takes more than one social and lots of chatting aswell in between meets. I know more or less after a few weeks chatting or in some cases a few days when the person/persons are for me or not . Couples can be a difficult on here because when chatting you don't know who you're really talking to he/she, also nearly always one wanting different to the other etc. Socials/parties are always the best way roll on RVC early December hopefully "
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Second that! Roll on an opportunity for socials |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"In my experience meeting a couple is less stressful than trying to meet a single female. Don’t judge, just giving my own personal experience. "
Long time since I had fmf but let me know what local girls are available, I might know a red head who is Interested ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were let down last night from a male...without a text even...well verified very pleasant...online no explanation....disappointed but I'm sure plenty more decent guys out there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were let down last night from a male...without a text even...well verified very pleasant...online no explanation....disappointed but I'm sure plenty more decent guys out there..."
Maybe he remembered about the lockdown... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A good mfm is as difficult to setup as a good fmf. Do you agree ?
Yes totally i gave up a long time ago i believe it will happen spontaneously when Ieast expect it or so i hope. Once i had a mmf it was going really well until one of the guys messed it up by switching it around to suit himself. Lesson learned right there is to get to know people first which takes time.
Couldn’t agree more - can’t beat initial chats on here to create a bit of spark / interest
Then a social which may or maybe get the spark really going
Then hopefully full meet where you can’t wait to rip the clothes off them
For me it takes more than one social and lots of chatting aswell in between meets. I know more or less after a few weeks chatting or in some cases a few days when the person/persons are for me or not . Couples can be a difficult on here because when chatting you don't know who you're really talking to he/she, also nearly always one wanting different to the other etc. Socials/parties are always the best way roll on RVC early December hopefully
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Second that! Roll on an opportunity for socials "
Yes Don how are you keeping i didn't see you for some time |
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From a couples perspective I would assume a MMF should be easy enough to arrange. As long as you know what you are looking. I.e age, looks etc.
There after I’d be looking that they are meet verified with couples on multiple occasions.
P.s I am available for MMF if any couples require a third |
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