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Curious to know in Belfast
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are all men on here married or something as even those that say can accommodate then say they can’t always wondered and not much happening now days so decided to ask lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can accommodate but choose not to i don't want strangers to my house im assuming not all people who accommodate want the same mabey due to kids or other family commitments...."
I can’t due to kids but would obviously be after chatting and socially meeting just don’t know why they have can but then say can’t
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like post covid times if ever happens. I wouldn't accom unless been chatting to someone for a very long time and knew them well. I'd prefer meet somewhere social and then maybe hotel if went well. Then would happy to host after that. But that's just me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can accommodate but choose not to i don't want strangers to my house im assuming not all people who accommodate want the same mabey due to kids or other family commitments.... I can’t due to kids but would obviously be after chatting and socially meeting just don’t know why they have can but then say can’t "
Maybe they don't want to meet you and thats their tact rather than just coming right out with it?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Like post covid times if ever happens. I wouldn't accom unless been chatting to someone for a very long time and knew them well. I'd prefer meet somewhere social and then maybe hotel if went well. Then would happy to host after that. But that's just me "
yeah I like a social meet first post Covid but getting even that sometimes is harder than expected
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can accommodate but choose not to i don't want strangers to my house im assuming not all people who accommodate want the same mabey due to kids or other family commitments.... I can’t due to kids but would obviously be after chatting and socially meeting just don’t know why they have can but then say can’t
Maybe they don't want to meet you and thats their tact rather than just coming right out with it? "
true although I’m honest with description of myself and share pictures would rather be told up front than messed about I know I’m not everyone’s cuppa tea just like everyone isn’t mine either |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"I can accommodate but choose not to i don't want strangers to my house im assuming not all people who accommodate want the same mabey due to kids or other family commitments.... I can’t due to kids but would obviously be after chatting and socially meeting just don’t know why they have can but then say can’t
Maybe they don't want to meet you and thats their tact rather than just coming right out with it? true although I’m honest with description of myself and share pictures would rather be told up front than messed about I know I’m not everyone’s cuppa tea just like everyone isn’t mine either "
That's the spirit if we all like the same Fab would be very boring  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wouldn’t it just plain and simple if not interested just say rather than waste each other’s time I ask often enough if they are interested and always say yes then either no show or can’t accommodate and all that life would definitely be boring if we all wanted the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can accommodate but choose not to i don't want strangers to my house im assuming not all people who accommodate want the same mabey due to kids or other family commitments.... I can’t due to kids but would obviously be after chatting and socially meeting just don’t know why they have can but then say can’t
Maybe they don't want to meet you and thats their tact rather than just coming right out with it? true although I’m honest with description of myself and share pictures would rather be told up front than messed about I know I’m not everyone’s cuppa tea just like everyone isn’t mine either "
I agree 100%. But not everyone is as up front on fab. |
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"Are all men on here married or something as even those that say can accommodate then say they can’t always wondered and not much happening now days so decided to ask lol "
Married guys often say they can accommodate just to appear single....minefield  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can understand why "can't accommodate" means not bring you to their home. But there's always a hotel. "
pre Covid and hopefully after I agree yes but even then still get can’t most seem to want car fun which even though I’m pretty short I am a bbw so not exactly comfortable plus good chance getting caught if I say that I then get sure you could just give me a bj so where would my enjoyment in that be they can hire an escort for that
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"I can understand why "can't accommodate" means not bring you to their home. But there's always a hotel. pre Covid and hopefully after I agree yes but even then still get can’t most seem to want car fun which even though I’m pretty short I am a bbw so not exactly comfortable plus good chance getting caught if I say that I then get sure you could just give me a bj so where would my enjoyment in that be they can hire an escort for that "
You seem pretty much stranded though as you can neither accommodate nor travel...unfortunately this info leads folk to offer alternative meeting arrangements  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can understand why "can't accommodate" means not bring you to their home. But there's always a hotel. pre Covid and hopefully after I agree yes but even then still get can’t most seem to want car fun which even though I’m pretty short I am a bbw so not exactly comfortable plus good chance getting caught if I say that I then get sure you could just give me a bj so where would my enjoyment in that be they can hire an escort for that
You seem pretty much stranded though as you can neither accommodate nor travel...unfortunately this info leads folk to offer alternative meeting arrangements "
I don’t drive which is why I don’t have travel down but do say in bio I travel via public transport or a friend can take me places as did have travel down and when I said via public transport they asked why I had can travel on |
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Just a reflection of them if they can’t just tell the truth. I’m single it would have to have a social first to make sure there was that spark and chemistry there first though I have broken that rule once and ended up with that person for a year lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just a reflection of them if they can’t just tell the truth. I’m single it would have to have a social first to make sure there was that spark and chemistry there first though I have broken that rule once and ended up with that person for a year lol "
it seems to be sean and agree with you on social first then if no connection or spark as you say hasn’t been a total waste of time as still had a chat and a cuppa
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can understand why "can't accommodate" means not bring you to their home. But there's always a hotel. pre Covid and hopefully after I agree yes but even then still get can’t most seem to want car fun which even though I’m pretty short I am a bbw so not exactly comfortable plus good chance getting caught if I say that I then get sure you could just give me a bj so where would my enjoyment in that be they can hire an escort for that "
Just give me a bj?? Fuck that. Block those arrogant entitled arseholes. Excuse my language if Ive broken rules. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can understand why "can't accommodate" means not bring you to their home. But there's always a hotel. pre Covid and hopefully after I agree yes but even then still get can’t most seem to want car fun which even though I’m pretty short I am a bbw so not exactly comfortable plus good chance getting caught if I say that I then get sure you could just give me a bj so where would my enjoyment in that be they can hire an escort for that
Just give me a bj?? Fuck that. Block those arrogant entitled arseholes. Excuse my language if Ive broken rules. "
my thoughts exactly |
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"I can understand why "can't accommodate" means not bring you to their home. But there's always a hotel. pre Covid and hopefully after I agree yes but even then still get can’t most seem to want car fun which even though I’m pretty short I am a bbw so not exactly comfortable plus good chance getting caught if I say that I then get sure you could just give me a bj so where would my enjoyment in that be they can hire an escort for that
Just give me a bj?? Fuck that. Block those arrogant entitled arseholes. Excuse my language if Ive broken rules. "
This is so right. I think that tells you all you need to know about that person. Some just want it to be all about them regardless. If someone is interested they will understand the concept of a social. |
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