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"So how many people on here enjoy the social and friendly side of fab aswell as the sex? Alot of people seam to be on here for the quick ‘’ I’m near by fancy a shag’’ "
Definitely the former, no interest at all in the latter  |
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over a year ago
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Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit...  thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works."
*faced... |
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I've been on here a few years, and value the friendships I've made. It has expanded my world, beyond my usual social circle. At this stage, I've two distinct groups of people in my life, fabbers, and non fabbers. If only I could meet my fab friends more often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to say there's a few that I have net through socials that I now consider good friends outside fab and one or two would be close friend.
And definitely a few I've gotten to know over the last year that can't wait to meet in person |
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works."
Lol......don't get me wrong, I have made great friends on here...even been on holiday with them and can't wait till we go again.
But couldn't agree more with this statement. I've seen it with my own eyes and ears. Amazing what you hear considering its nearly a year since I've met anyone from the site because of covid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely made lifelong friends on here over the years.. Some have been more supportive than vanilla friends.. Always enjoy the social side of here too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works.
Lol......don't get me wrong, I have made great friends on here...even been on holiday with them and can't wait till we go again.
But couldn't agree more with this statement. I've seen it with my own eyes and ears. Amazing what you hear considering its nearly a year since I've met anyone from the site because of covid "
Oh,I've seen alot over 5 years myself... its very very rare you meet very genuine people on here.
For me friendship its a bit more,its not just a word. 
Oh I know,I'm just a pain in the arse but I will say how it is.
Wont sugar coat shit...straight talker here. |
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works."
Spot on. I like the social side but it is very bitchy and cliquey. And there is definitely a clique. It's only the people in it who deny it's existence. But I've met other nobodies like myself and I consider them very good friends now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works.
Lol......don't get me wrong, I have made great friends on here...even been on holiday with them and can't wait till we go again.
But couldn't agree more with this statement. I've seen it with my own eyes and ears. Amazing what you hear considering its nearly a year since I've met anyone from the site because of covid
Oh,I've seen alot over 5 years myself... its very very rare you meet very genuine people on here.
For me friendship its a bit more,its not just a word.
Oh I know,I'm just a pain in the arse but I will say how it is.
Wont sugar coat shit...straight talker here. "
I'm only new here but I believe this is how it should be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works.
Lol......don't get me wrong, I have made great friends on here...even been on holiday with them and can't wait till we go again.
But couldn't agree more with this statement. I've seen it with my own eyes and ears. Amazing what you hear considering its nearly a year since I've met anyone from the site because of covid
Oh,I've seen alot over 5 years myself... its very very rare you meet very genuine people on here.
For me friendship its a bit more,its not just a word.
Oh I know,I'm just a pain in the arse but I will say how it is.
Wont sugar coat shit...straight talker here.
I'm only new here but I believe this is how it should be "
I know myself people who say shit about other fabbers,and they party together and are very "friendly" like they are besties
Pretty sad!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works.
Lol......don't get me wrong, I have made great friends on here...even been on holiday with them and can't wait till we go again.
But couldn't agree more with this statement. I've seen it with my own eyes and ears. Amazing what you hear considering its nearly a year since I've met anyone from the site because of covid
Oh,I've seen alot over 5 years myself... its very very rare you meet very genuine people on here.
For me friendship its a bit more,its not just a word.
Oh I know,I'm just a pain in the arse but I will say how it is.
Wont sugar coat shit...straight talker here.
I'm only new here but I believe this is how it should be
I know myself people who say shit about other fabbers,and they party together and are very "friendly" like they are besties
Pretty sad!
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Unfortunately the crap part of fab. Learnt my lesson the hard way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works.
Lol......don't get me wrong, I have made great friends on here...even been on holiday with them and can't wait till we go again.
But couldn't agree more with this statement. I've seen it with my own eyes and ears. Amazing what you hear considering its nearly a year since I've met anyone from the site because of covid
Oh,I've seen alot over 5 years myself... its very very rare you meet very genuine people on here.
For me friendship its a bit more,its not just a word.
Oh I know,I'm just a pain in the arse but I will say how it is.
Wont sugar coat shit...straight talker here.
I'm only new here but I believe this is how it should be
I know myself people who say shit about other fabbers,and they party together and are very "friendly" like they are besties
Pretty sad!
Unfortunately the crap part of fab. Learnt my lesson the hard way. "
Thats the reason I never go to parties.. I just simply wouldn't fit in.
I wouldn't lick anyones arse,unless I liked them.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works.
Lol......don't get me wrong, I have made great friends on here...even been on holiday with them and can't wait till we go again.
But couldn't agree more with this statement. I've seen it with my own eyes and ears. Amazing what you hear considering its nearly a year since I've met anyone from the site because of covid
Oh,I've seen alot over 5 years myself... its very very rare you meet very genuine people on here.
For me friendship its a bit more,its not just a word.
Oh I know,I'm just a pain in the arse but I will say how it is.
Wont sugar coat shit...straight talker here.
I'm only new here but I believe this is how it should be
I know myself people who say shit about other fabbers,and they party together and are very "friendly" like they are besties
Pretty sad!
Unfortunately the crap part of fab. Learnt my lesson the hard way.
Thats the reason I never go to parties.. I just simply wouldn't fit in.
I wouldn't lick anyones arse,unless I liked them.lol "
Never been to a party id probably hide in the corner and as for licking someone's ass would want to be a pretty hot ass lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works.
Lol......don't get me wrong, I have made great friends on here...even been on holiday with them and can't wait till we go again.
But couldn't agree more with this statement. I've seen it with my own eyes and ears. Amazing what you hear considering its nearly a year since I've met anyone from the site because of covid
Oh,I've seen alot over 5 years myself... its very very rare you meet very genuine people on here.
For me friendship its a bit more,its not just a word.
Oh I know,I'm just a pain in the arse but I will say how it is.
Wont sugar coat shit...straight talker here.
I'm only new here but I believe this is how it should be
I know myself people who say shit about other fabbers,and they party together and are very "friendly" like they are besties
Pretty sad!
Unfortunately the crap part of fab. Learnt my lesson the hard way.
Thats the reason I never go to parties.. I just simply wouldn't fit in.
I wouldn't lick anyones arse,unless I liked them.lol
Never been to a party id probably hide in the corner and as for licking someone's ass would want to be a pretty hot ass lol "
Lol... obviously!!!giggling here... |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works.
Spot on. I like the social side but it is very bitchy and cliquey. And there is definitely a clique. It's only the people in it who deny it's existence. But I've met other nobodies like myself and I consider them very good friends now. "
Please dont ever consider yourself as a nobody ...you're you and friends to people so you're much more than a nobody |
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Of course there are lots of sychophantic people on here who like to claim they have lots of friends but I often wonder how many of those friends would stand by them when they get into difficulty?
I have made some great friends through fab some of who are no longer on the site but they are real genuine friends and not just fab my pic, fair weather friends.
I have no expectations when it comes to fab friendship because there are too many shallow people around but I'm at an age where I can see the bullshitters and it amazes me every day on here the number of people who are selectively blind. |
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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago
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We have made some great friends on here and we count then as friends not as fab friends, but at saying that we are friendly with people from fab and always great to catch up with them where ever we meet up
Had the quick shag on occasion also lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm relatively new on this site. And with not being able to meet I'm enjoying having a laugh with people and getting to know them slightly.
I'll look forward to the social side hopefully when things open back up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is no different to anywhere else, lots of people are vacuous, two-faced and full of shit, and there are rare gems.
We are choosy about the company we keep, here as in the offline world. |
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"Fab is no different to anywhere else, lots of people are vacuous, two-faced and full of shit, and there are rare gems.
We are choosy about the company we keep, here as in the offline world."
Totally this |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I have made some great friends on here some I have yet to meet in person .The social side definitely is important to me .
But I tend to keep my close circle pretty small and only the people I have gotten to know really well get to know personal info .
There's a lot of crap goes on behind the scenes and I learnt to keep personal stuff private as a lot of info gets shared as well as a lot of bull about people . I have learnt to make my won mind up about people and to avoid the drama and crap when I can.
But the friends I have made make up for all the crap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The best part of fab is definitely the friends I've made.
I'd love some more female friends though  "
Lol, funny, it's much harder to make female friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The best part of fab is definitely the friends I've made.
I'd love some more female friends though
Lol, funny, it's much harder to make female friends "
My one female bestie left fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The best part of fab is definitely the friends I've made.
I'd love some more female friends though
Lol, funny, it's much harder to make female friends
My one female bestie left fab "
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
I guess being here 9 years has given me more of a chance to make some genuine friends. That's not saying I'm best buddies with half of fab. I have a very small group that I know I can depend on and they can also depend on me.
I don't get involved in kik groups or pay much attention to gossip. I prefer to make my own mind up about people and I would prefer them to do the same for me. |
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I do enjoy the social friendly side of fab. I have been lucky that I've found some close friends here, one of which is female and I have met them in real life too. I'm not one for k*k groups as I like to keep my circle small and value my privacy. |
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"The best part of fab is definitely the friends I've made.
I'd love some more female friends though
Lol, funny, it's much harder to make female friends
My one female bestie left fab "
Would you like a new bestie? I'll be your bestie! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The best part of fab is definitely the friends I've made.
I'd love some more female friends though
Lol, funny, it's much harder to make female friends
My one female bestie left fab
Would you like a new bestie? I'll be your bestie! "
And meeee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The best part of fab is definitely the friends I've made.
I'd love some more female friends though
Lol, funny, it's much harder to make female friends
My one female bestie left fab
Would you like a new bestie? I'll be your bestie! "
Whoop! Let's try a months trial |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely the former made some great friends here on fab. Dont enjoy kik groups but met some really great people on the social side. People looking for the quick ride never get to see the bigger side of what fab has to offer. |
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"The best part of fab is definitely the friends I've made.
I'd love some more female friends though
Lol, funny, it's much harder to make female friends
My one female bestie left fab
Would you like a new bestie? I'll be your bestie!
Whoop! Let's try a months trial "
Pick me pick me lol |
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"The best part of fab is definitely the friends I've made.
I'd love some more female friends though
Lol, funny, it's much harder to make female friends
My one female bestie left fab
Would you like a new bestie? I'll be your bestie!
Whoop! Let's try a months trial
Pick me pick me lol"
Oops....
You can be her next months bestie!! |
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"The best part of fab is definitely the friends I've made.
I'd love some more female friends though
Lol, funny, it's much harder to make female friends
My one female bestie left fab
Would you like a new bestie? I'll be your bestie!
Whoop! Let's try a months trial
Pick me pick me lol
Oops....
You can be her next months bestie!! "
Deal so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely the former made some great friends here on fab. Dont enjoy kik groups but met some really great people on the social side. People looking for the quick ride never get to see the bigger side of what fab has to offer. "
Think this is so true and I know if I never was to have a meet from here again it wouldn't bother me as the friends I've made are what makes this place enjoyable for me |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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Met a few at one or two M&G's but am not close friends with anyone here.
A few I chat with kinda regular but I'd hate to come across as pushy so I am always reticent about "over chatting" to a degree.
Perhaps when things return to normal that may change  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a friendship is primarily built on someone's physical appearance or the size/shape of a body part then its probably only superficial friendship imo.
If you actually spend time to get to know the person behind the photos, a friendship has a better chance of forming and also lasting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works."
Learned this the hard way over the years. Unfortunately people are definitely two faced depending on who their trying to fuck here. I've been lucky though there are a very small few I'm still close with but the rest who stabbed me in the back and told multiple lies. Well karma
Dee |
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By *eebaw OP Man
over a year ago
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"Definitely the former made some great friends here on fab. Dont enjoy kik groups but met some really great people on the social side. People looking for the quick ride never get to see the bigger side of what fab has to offer. "
Total agree with you |
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Fab friendships all the way.
To be honest sex is only a bonus when it happens. If it happens.
Swingers are very much a community as swinging is a lifestyle.
We tend to lean towards people who trust and like us on a human level and do tend to steer away from ones who are overly "discreet".
Yes, we are as discreet as they come and will never kiss and tell as we understand that people who are not into it don't understand it and they don't need to know our nor anyone else's business, but also we are comfortable with other swingers bumping into us when we spend time with our colleagues and families and will never run and hide, instead say hello and offer to join us for whatever occasion it may be without having to disclose any bedroom adventures. |
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"Fab friendships all the way.
To be honest sex is only a bonus when it happens. If it happens.
Swingers are very much a community as swinging is a lifestyle.
We tend to lean towards people who trust and like us on a human level and do tend to steer away from ones who are overly "discreet".
Yes, we are as discreet as they come and will never kiss and tell as we understand that people who are not into it don't understand it and they don't need to know our nor anyone else's business, but also we are comfortable with other swingers bumping into us when we spend time with our colleagues and families and will never run and hide, instead say hello and offer to join us for whatever occasion it may be without having to disclose any bedroom adventures. "
This |
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"Fab friendships all the way.
To be honest sex is only a bonus when it happens. If it happens.
Swingers are very much a community as swinging is a lifestyle.
We tend to lean towards people who trust and like us on a human level and do tend to steer away from ones who are overly "discreet".
Yes, we are as discreet as they come and will never kiss and tell as we understand that people who are not into it don't understand it and they don't need to know our nor anyone else's business, but also we are comfortable with other swingers bumping into us when we spend time with our colleagues and families and will never run and hide, instead say hello and offer to join us for whatever occasion it may be without having to disclose any bedroom adventures. "
100% this . |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
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"Fab friendships all the way.
To be honest sex is only a bonus when it happens. If it happens.
Swingers are very much a community as swinging is a lifestyle.
We tend to lean towards people who trust and like us on a human level and do tend to steer away from ones who are overly "discreet".
Yes, we are as discreet as they come and will never kiss and tell as we understand that people who are not into it don't understand it and they don't need to know our nor anyone else's business, but also we are comfortable with other swingers bumping into us when we spend time with our colleagues and families and will never run and hide, instead say hello and offer to join us for whatever occasion it may be without having to disclose any bedroom adventures. "
Love this. |
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By *cupxxxWoman
over a year ago
Gorey |
I personally love the social side of swinging. I have met many of you at either socials, m&g or parties/clubs.
Having the craic & banter is most important. The rest falls into place I find. I really value my friends here.  |
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"Fab friendships all the way.
To be honest sex is only a bonus when it happens. If it happens.
Swingers are very much a community as swinging is a lifestyle.
We tend to lean towards people who trust and like us on a human level and do tend to steer away from ones who are overly "discreet".
Yes, we are as discreet as they come and will never kiss and tell as we understand that people who are not into it don't understand it and they don't need to know our nor anyone else's business, but also we are comfortable with other swingers bumping into us when we spend time with our colleagues and families and will never run and hide, instead say hello and offer to join us for whatever occasion it may be without having to disclose any bedroom adventures. "
Hit the nail on the head again or was it the nail lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab friendships all the way.
To be honest sex is only a bonus when it happens. If it happens.
Swingers are very much a community as swinging is a lifestyle.
We tend to lean towards people who trust and like us on a human level and do tend to steer away from ones who are overly "discreet".
Yes, we are as discreet as they come and will never kiss and tell as we understand that people who are not into it don't understand it and they don't need to know our nor anyone else's business, but also we are comfortable with other swingers bumping into us when we spend time with our colleagues and families and will never run and hide, instead say hello and offer to join us for whatever occasion it may be without having to disclose any bedroom adventures.
Hit the nail on the head again or was it the nail lol"
I only ever seen to bump into fabbers in the supermarket |
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"Fab friendships all the way.
To be honest sex is only a bonus when it happens. If it happens.
Swingers are very much a community as swinging is a lifestyle.
We tend to lean towards people who trust and like us on a human level and do tend to steer away from ones who are overly "discreet".
Yes, we are as discreet as they come and will never kiss and tell as we understand that people who are not into it don't understand it and they don't need to know our nor anyone else's business, but also we are comfortable with other swingers bumping into us when we spend time with our colleagues and families and will never run and hide, instead say hello and offer to join us for whatever occasion it may be without having to disclose any bedroom adventures.
Hit the nail on the head again or was it the nail lol
I only ever seen to bump into fabbers in the supermarket "
I recently bumped into one in Woodies
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"Too many two faces people on here i have to say.
They smile in your face,say the right words,turn back and say shit... thats a normal thing on here i noticed.
If your not doing that,you dont fit in this community thats how it works."
Don't be put off by it... I've come across those people too but it's best to shake it off, move on and forget they exist.
I've made so many amazing fab friends and some are even part of my everyday life now, I'd be lost without them because we all support and empower one another.
The ones who bitch and gossip will lose out in the end because it always comes out. Feel sorry for them, it's a very sad person that has to bring others down to make themselves feel better.  |
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