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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Like title says, how far would you travel for a meet, I've been tempted to get a flight across the water when I see some of the pics on here lol, once I was also going to drive to Dublin from Belfast |
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By *rezMan
over a year ago
Ballyhoura |
I would not mind to travel even 3hrs
I did travel before 2hrs one way and it was worth it.
Not too sure why it is such a big deal for people...
We do not live in Texas but little island of Ireland. Everywhere is close enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Previously being part of a couple we travelled as far as Tipperary so guess if the company is right its worth it "
So was the song right..." It's a long way to Tipperary...it's a long way to go ..."  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't mind travelling a long distance for even a coffee meet if there was a mental connection established in chatting beforehand,the way l look at it is if a lady is kind enough to give me the opportunity to meet and there's a connection there well then why not ..it's a road trip .. something to look forward to in the meet ..and a return road trip... everything thing about it is wayyyy better than the alternative...no road trip... nothing to look forward to...like on that given night what else might you be doing ?... watching the TV... doing nothing much ? ...so like l said if a lady is kind enough to give a guy an opportunity to meet and give you her time isn't it well worth the effort to go meet her .. wherever she is ..it's definitely something to look forward to , even if it only means or ends up happening the one time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't mind travelling a long distance for even a coffee meet if there was a mental connection established in chatting beforehand,the way l look at it is if a lady is kind enough to give me the opportunity to meet and there's a connection there well then why not ..it's a road trip .. something to look forward to in the meet ..and a return road trip... everything thing about it is wayyyy better than the alternative...no road trip... nothing to look forward to...like on that given night what else might you be doing ?... watching the TV... doing nothing much ? ...so like l said if a lady is kind enough to give a guy an opportunity to meet and give you her time isn't it well worth the effort to go meet her .. wherever she is ..it's definitely something to look forward to , even if it only means or ends up happening the one time."
I agree, sometimes you just click so well with someone, if I found someone like that I wouldn't mind travelling an hour or 2 to see them regularly |
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By *rezMan
over a year ago
Ballyhoura |
"I wouldn't mind travelling a long distance for even a coffee meet if there was a mental connection established in chatting beforehand,the way l look at it is if a lady is kind enough to give me the opportunity to meet and there's a connection there well then why not ..it's a road trip .. something to look forward to in the meet ..and a return road trip... everything thing about it is wayyyy better than the alternative...no road trip... nothing to look forward to...like on that given night what else might you be doing ?... watching the TV... doing nothing much ? ...so like l said if a lady is kind enough to give a guy an opportunity to meet and give you her time isn't it well worth the effort to go meet her .. wherever she is ..it's definitely something to look forward to , even if it only means or ends up happening the one time.
I agree, sometimes you just click so well with someone, if I found someone like that I wouldn't mind travelling an hour or 2 to see them regularly "
Amen to that...
On the other hand I would not expect to get fun just because I have travelled a bit.
I would not take it for granted.
If chemistry would be there...well you know the drill.
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"I wouldn't mind travelling a long distance for even a coffee meet if there was a mental connection established in chatting beforehand,the way l look at it is if a lady is kind enough to give me the opportunity to meet and there's a connection there well then why not ..it's a road trip .. something to look forward to in the meet ..and a return road trip... everything thing about it is wayyyy better than the alternative...no road trip... nothing to look forward to...like on that given night what else might you be doing ?... watching the TV... doing nothing much ? ...so like l said if a lady is kind enough to give a guy an opportunity to meet and give you her time isn't it well worth the effort to go meet her .. wherever she is ..it's definitely something to look forward to , even if it only means or ends up happening the one time."
I might consider travelling if there was a connection and we had been chatting for a while. For someone who was kind enough to give me an opportunity? Not so much. I prefer to meet people as equals rather than out of gratitude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't mind travelling a long distance for even a coffee meet if there was a mental connection established in chatting beforehand,the way l look at it is if a lady is kind enough to give me the opportunity to meet and there's a connection there well then why not ..it's a road trip .. something to look forward to in the meet ..and a return road trip... everything thing about it is wayyyy better than the alternative...no road trip... nothing to look forward to...like on that given night what else might you be doing ?... watching the TV... doing nothing much ? ...so like l said if a lady is kind enough to give a guy an opportunity to meet and give you her time isn't it well worth the effort to go meet her .. wherever she is ..it's definitely something to look forward to , even if it only means or ends up happening the one time.
I might consider travelling if there was a connection and we had been chatting for a while. For someone who was kind enough to give me an opportunity? Not so much. I prefer to meet people as equals rather than out of gratitude. "
If there's a connection there it's as equals,you might be mad about someone but you're not her type so it's not gonna happen , you might be mad about someone and she feels the same so it will happen but only because she also wants to ,she's meeting you cause she wants to ,not out of anything else. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Like a lot of people I don't have a lot of spare time so I'd travel an hour at most and I wouldn't want anyone to travel farther either to meet me.
The only exception is if I was going somewhere anyhow.
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"There is a direct correlation between distance travelled and expectation. "
I drove from Donegal to Limerick to get my Fab cherry popped. It was worth it at the time. But, this is a good point, time and distance can create too much nervous build-up. |
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"I would travel any distance for the right woman "
This, I have travelled two hours for a meet and it was worth it, but there was a connection built up beforehand!
Living in rural north Mayo means that I have to travel an hour at least anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Distance doesn't bother me I like to go for drives and take different roads of the country.
I've had people say that I'm too far and I get it, some people just aren't bothered to make the effort and other silly reasons it's a tiny country and I'm not saying I'm the best thing since sliced bread but whoever iy is that's not willing to go the extra leg...ya could miss out on something that ends up being great!?
I've even said I'll go to where as far as they'd travel but still a no......maybe it's not about the distance.....  Hahaha |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"Distance doesn't bother me I like to go for drives and take different roads of the country.
I've had people say that I'm too far and I get it, some people just aren't bothered to make the effort and other silly reasons it's a tiny country and I'm not saying I'm the best thing since sliced bread but whoever iy is that's not willing to go the extra leg...ya could miss out on something that ends up being great!?
I've even said I'll go to where as far as they'd travel but still a no......maybe it's not about the distance..... Hahaha"
Maybe its that expectation thing ? They d worry that if you are travelling that much you ll be expecting them to spend the night with you regardless |
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"Like title says, how far would you travel for a meet, I've been tempted to get a flight across the water when I see some of the pics on here lol, once I was also going to drive to Dublin from Belfast "
Fair play to ya  I wouldn't be travelling too far based on pix  |
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When I’m meeting someone it’s because there’s chemistry there and would have been chatting back and forth building it and a social would be a natural extension of that and if we wanted to meet distance wouldn’t put me off |
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