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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago
Dublin westmeath galway |
"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"
just because people have lots of verifications doesn't mean there all play one  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you put well verified on your profile if you get turned off by people well verified..."
There is well verified and then there’s……
Hey just my preference… just like some ladies like “hung” guys.
Each to their own |
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Personally I prefer well verified. I enjoy reading them and gives me a better insight into the person.
I've had a few meets where I was asked not to veri. So those numbers don't necessarily match meet numbers |
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"
Me too while I dont expect to meet a vestal virgin here too many veris would intimidate me especially std risk.. You're nearly better off not knowing... |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
Cork |
We prefer well verified couples so that we know they are genuine and experienced - likely to turn up and give a good performance.
We’d be lying if we said we wouldn’t feel under pressure ourselves if a couple is hardcore enough to be clocking a meet every other week. We like some degree of parity in experience going into meets... there’s a wide range though - anything from 3 to 100 is our comfort range... and even that is flexible!
We generally find that any profile with cricket score number of meet verifications have garnered many of them at group socials and parties. It is only a positive in our book that so many people from an event would feel enthused enough to give those verifications.
For singles, they are as entitled to have as many verifications on here as we have sex ourselves so not an issue at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…
Me too while I dont expect to meet a vestal virgin here too many veris would intimidate me especially std risk.. You're nearly better off not knowing... "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's quite funny that on this site people offer a mitigation of social veris vs play ones 
 It's kind of like the fella who's had numerous partners but expects his wife to be a virgin!!"
As the old Chinese proverb says
'A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.'”  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
As long as you look after your health and respect other people's it doesn't matter to me how active someone is, quite contrary it normally means a fair amount of experience, that they seem to enjoy themselves and are properly openminded.
Besides the number of veris doesn't mean anything. If someone has just a few veris doesn't mean they're less promiscuous. You don't know what people are doing off fab. Also I've noticed peeps deleting their profile when they've racked up ca 30+ veris, only to return almost immediately under a new name to restart, claiming quality over quantity. |
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It's all relative to how many you have yourself.
Someone with single figure veries will think 50 are too many but someone with 50 might think 100 are too many.
Usually those with 50 though will have received most of those through socials etc so they won't see numbers as a deterrent. |
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So you think every verification is based on the person having sex.
Verifications ain't there to prove your ratings in the sack anyway its to prove your genuine.
I've plenty from socials meets and greets. Which most of mine say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"
Oh no! OP is turned off, whatever shall we do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…
Oh no! OP is turned off, whatever shall we do
Hide your verifications  "
You're right, I need to impress him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you put well verified on your profile if you get turned off by people well verified...
There is well verified and then there’s……
Hey just my preference… just like some ladies like “hung” guys.
Each to their own "
Aren't they linked? All that use like... |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Plain old slut shaming. 
Not at all.
Just preference
Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card"
Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.
As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.
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"It's quite funny that on this site people offer a mitigation of social veris vs play ones
It's kind of like the fella who's had numerous partners but expects his wife to be a virgin!!
As the old Chinese proverb says
'A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.'” "
A pencil sharpener that sharpens lots of pencils is useful. A pencil that's sharpened by lots of sharpeners ends up small and useless!!  |
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"It's quite funny that on this site people offer a mitigation of social veris vs play ones
It's kind of like the fella who's had numerous partners but expects his wife to be a virgin!!
As the old Chinese proverb says
'A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.'”
A pencil sharpener that sharpens lots of pencils is useful. A pencil that's sharpened by lots of sharpeners ends up small and useless!! "
Even the pencil sharpener goes blunt |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plain old slut shaming.
Not at all.
Just preference
Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card
Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.
As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.
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Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!
I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment |
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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago
Around and about |
"Plain old slut shaming.
Not at all.
Just preference
Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card"
I didn't. Im not a victim of anything you have said. A preference over height or cock size is not at all the same as making assumptions or judgements on verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…
How do you feel when you see our verification count? "
Each to their own |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
Cork and surrounding areas |
Pity there isnt an option for a social meet and it could show in the summary,we had to remove our summary as we have way too many verifications but 90% are from social meets , at parties ,meet & greets ets , that we didnt play with at all, in the 9 years we have been here , there is cam veri, meet in person veri which could be split in 2, ( social and play meet )
Just my tuppence worth
Mrs crazy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pity there isnt an option for a social meet and it could show in the summary,we had to remove our summary as we have way too many verifications but 90% are from social meets , at parties ,meet & greets ets , that we didnt play with at all, in the 9 years we have been here , there is cam veri, meet in person veri which could be split in 2, ( social and play meet )
Just my tuppence worth
Mrs crazy "
Thank you very much for that.
My thoughts exactly |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Plain old slut shaming.
Not at all.
Just preference
Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card
Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.
As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.
Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!
I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment "
ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plain old slut shaming.
Not at all.
Just preference
Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card
Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.
As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.
Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!
I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment
ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself? "
If it’s an old comment as you say, how would I come up with it ? |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Plain old slut shaming.
Not at all.
Just preference
Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card
Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.
As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.
Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!
I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment
ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself?
If it’s an old comment as you say, how would I come up with it ?"
I meant in this context.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plain old slut shaming.
Not at all.
Just preference
Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card
Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.
As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.
Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!
I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment
ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself?
If it’s an old comment as you say, how would I come up with it ?
I meant in this context. "
Are you new on the internet? |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Plain old slut shaming.
Not at all.
Just preference
Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card
Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.
As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.
Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!
I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment
ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself?
If it’s an old comment as you say, how would I come up with it ?
I meant in this context.
Are you new on the internet?"
Why, you offering lessons? Given your current performance using it I'll give those a miss anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plain old slut shaming.
Not at all.
Just preference
Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card
Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.
As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.
Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!
I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment
ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself?
If it’s an old comment as you say, how would I come up with it ?
I meant in this context.
Are you new on the internet?
Why, you offering lessons? Given your current performance using it I'll give those a miss anyway. "
Jealousy is an awful thing |
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…
Me too while I dont expect to meet a vestal virgin here too many veris would intimidate me especially std risk.. You're nearly better off not knowing...
Exactly "
So at one point a girl would have the correct number and you would be happy to play but u even meeting her a few times and adding to the number would then disqualify her? Liked she has an expiration date lol. Each to their own opinion but I disagree here. |
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…
How do you feel when you see our verification count?
Each to their own "
Take a wild guess how many people we actually had sex with, just for amusements sake  |
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…
Me too while I dont expect to meet a vestal virgin here too many veris would intimidate me especially std risk.. You're nearly better off not knowing...
Exactly
So at one point a girl would have the correct number and you would be happy to play but u even meeting her a few times and adding to the number would then disqualify her? Liked she has an expiration date lol. Each to their own opinion but I disagree here. "
Std risk 
It's not a risk on tinder
Comedy gold |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not one for critising forum posts.....but this one by OP is just judgemental and ignorant on how Fabs works.
If you are turned off by verifications, find a lovely profile with no green flag or tick to get yourself turned on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…
How do you feel when you see our verification count?
Each to their own
Take a wild guess how many people we actually had sex with, just for amusements sake "
Mmm now That your honest number or the number you tell your partner |
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"
Man on website seeking to have sex with people is disgusted that people on website have had sex..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…
Man on website seeking to have sex with people is disgusted that people on website have had sex....."
Woosshhh !!! Completely over your head |
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Best thread in a while
Btw, any women who have used up all of their appropriate veri allowances that need their sexual itches scratched I'm volunteering my services now
Just give ma an hour to go buy a weekly planner and I'm good to go |
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"Best thread in a while
Btw, any women who have used up all of their appropriate veri allowances that need their sexual itches scratched I'm volunteering my services now
Just give ma an hour to go buy a weekly planner and I'm good to go "
But what's the "appropriate" allowance - asking for a friend
And an hour to buy a weekly planner  ?! I'm sure there's an appropriate app, 2 minutes to download |
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"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.
Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?"
Are you saying that the veris you give are overrated? |
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…
How do you feel when you see our verification count?
Each to their own
Take a wild guess how many people we actually had sex with, just for amusements sake
Mmm now That your honest number or the number you tell your partner "
What does that even supposed to mean?
Why on earth would I lie to my partner, especially knowing that we both met 100% of all people who verified us together.
So please, take a wild guess. Giz a number. Thats all.
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"Best thread in a while
Btw, any women who have used up all of their appropriate veri allowances that need their sexual itches scratched I'm volunteering my services now
Just give ma an hour to go buy a weekly planner and I'm good to go "
So your ma organises your meets??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people don't wanna meet because of veri count , sweet... I respect their decision and thank them for saving each other's time as clearly we weren't meant to meet.
Amazing the world just continues on and not one f**k is given.
Happy Fabbing all |
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"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.
Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?"
Its how they speak of someone. If its explicit then I'm put off, if they're respectful then it would be in line with the conversation I expect that I'm having with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh we don't believe at verification stories. We have plenty of examples on here that ppl are so super verified but in real life they are so rude that if we gave them our verifications they wouldn't show on profile. Verification says only those ppl met up nothing more. |
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"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.
Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?
Are you saying that the veris you give are overrated? "
Nope |
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"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.
Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?
Are you saying that the veris you give are overrated?
Nope "
All i'll say is there's a way to say things without having to spell it out, know what I mean 
But some plain lie for convenience sake and that's irritating |
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By *jallMan
over a year ago
Cork/Sligo |
"Best thread in a while
Btw, any women who have used up all of their appropriate veri allowances that need their sexual itches scratched I'm volunteering my services now
Just give ma an hour to go buy a weekly planner and I'm good to go
But what's the "appropriate" allowance - asking for a friend
And an hour to buy a weekly planner ?! I'm sure there's an appropriate app, 2 minutes to download "
Is the poor lad having bother with the internet too?? |
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"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.
Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?
Are you saying that the veris you give are overrated?
Nope
All i'll say is there's a way to say things without having to spell it out, know what I mean
But some plain lie for convenience sake and that's irritating "
Oh, I was only teasing
I know exactly what you mean... |
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Manipulation of other people's veris seems to be a thing now.
I can understand if I have verified someone and they have their own reasons for deciding not to display it.
There could be any number of reasons for this so I've no problem with that.
It's when others get involved and advise or instruct them not to display a particular veri that it starts to become sinister.
I often wonder too why some people decide to hide all their previous veries and only display the latest one from a fab celeb. I wonder how those they have met before feel about being moved aside.
When it comes to verifications it's not always about numbers and content. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP did you know it's possible to contract an STD if you only have sex with 1 person?
Did you know that not everyone broadcasts their "number" through the verification feature?
Did you know that a person with 2 verifications on fab might have had sex with 100 people?
Or that a person with 100 verifications might only have actually had sex with 2 people???
You just do you. Cover your dick no matter where you choose to put it and stop being so judgemental
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"
Someone was told no way to many times for their own liking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manipulation of other people's veris seems to be a thing now.
I can understand if I have verified someone and they have their own reasons for deciding not to display it.
There could be any number of reasons for this so I've no problem with that.
It's when others get involved and advise or instruct them not to display a particular veri that it starts to become sinister.
I often wonder too why some people decide to hide all their previous veries and only display the latest one from a fab celeb. I wonder how those they have met before feel about being moved aside.
When it comes to verifications it's not always about numbers and content."
Fab celebs, is that the the creme de la creme of cliques? |
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"Manipulation of other people's veris seems to be a thing now.
I can understand if I have verified someone and they have their own reasons for deciding not to display it.
There could be any number of reasons for this so I've no problem with that.
It's when others get involved and advise or instruct them not to display a particular veri that it starts to become sinister.
I often wonder too why some people decide to hide all their previous veries and only display the latest one from a fab celeb. I wonder how those they have met before feel about being moved aside.
When it comes to verifications it's not always about numbers and content.
Fab celebs, is that the the creme de la creme of cliques? "
Maybe in their own little world but probably more like the creme egg of cliques. |
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"
Just a heads up not everyone that gives a verification ends up in bed with the person they verify...surely you know that!
Ppl verify to say that person is genuine and all round nice person!
Doesn't mean they've fab met them! |
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"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"
Don't put so much stock in veries! As people have said you can get a veri from someone you've spent a couple of minutes chatting to at a social, or on the other hand have lots of sex with lots of people and never write or receive a veri from them. Trust your own judgement on whether or not they are for you.
If people's "body count" is such a turn off for you, a swingers website probably isn't the best place for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have 400 veris yet I can count on 1 hand how many I've actually slept with.
Same! "
I have had sex with plenty of people… the amount of people I slept with is far lower!! |
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"I have 400 veris yet I can count on 1 hand how many I've actually slept with.
Same!
I have had sex with plenty of people… the amount of people I slept with is far lower!! "
I don't have sex with people I don't want to wake up next to.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Takes cock like a pro
Unreal skills
Sucks like a dyson.
Thats all I look for in a veri but it must appear multiple times just to be sure she is the real deal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Takes cock like a pro
Unreal skills
Sucks like a dyson.
Thats all I look for in a veri but it must appear multiple times just to be sure she is the real deal"
And displayed with pride |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Bearing in mind the weight and significance that is attached to verifications on this site, the question of having too many does not arise.
Verifications indicate authenticity and a history of meeting other members, whether socially for a chat, meeting as a group or 'playing', which is the sole raison d'etre of this site, ultimately.
There is an undercurrent of suspicion that pervades this site, that profiles are either fake or false or inauthentic.
Verifications are worth their weight in gold, in my opinion.
The more one has, the more exalted one's provenance!
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