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By *1Cork OP Couple
over a year ago
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…. do you go through the winks, messages, friend requests, more messages dance with a couple, and then the male in the ‘couple’ drops the “XXXXX and I play separately in any event so let me know if you might have an interest in meeting me.”
Does this just happen to us? It’s happened 5 or 6 times to us now.
Are we wrong to be sceptical that there was never a XXXXX half of the ‘couple’? |
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"…. do you go through the winks, messages, friend requests, more messages dance with a couple, and then the male in the ‘couple’ drops the “XXXXX and I play separately in any event so let me know if you might have an interest in meeting me.”
Does this just happen to us? It’s happened 5 or 6 times to us now.
Are we wrong to be sceptical that there was never a XXXXX half of the ‘couple’?"
Happens heaps. Also get a lot of the “Hi, I’m the female but my partner would be perfect for your wife and I don’t mind him playing” style messages  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Well, it certainly proves the point that couples and single females have more success than single males.
It is frustrating for you (two) to have jumped thru all the hoops only to be disappointed at the end, by a male who wants to go solo, possibly he always was a lone wolf, as they are now termed 'lone actors'.
Your antennae should be very well attuned after so many letdowns; thanks for sharing your experiences. |
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Ya, had a few of them "married couple looking to play alone" lads alright.
The funniest part is their couple profile is a dozen pictures of him and none of her. The complete opposite of most couples profiles on here!! |
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"…. do you go through the winks, messages, friend requests, more messages dance with a couple, and then the male in the ‘couple’ drops the “XXXXX and I play separately in any event so let me know if you might have an interest in meeting me.”
Does this just happen to us? It’s happened 5 or 6 times to us now.
Are we wrong to be sceptical that there was never a XXXXX half of the ‘couple’?"
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Apparently "she's" usually in the shower if there's ever a phone convo before a possible meet, so at least she's hygienic but not that you'll ever meet her 
Guess it's just guys chancing their arm in the hope of hearing "She can't make it then? Oh well it's just myself/us   and you  then"
So just like the idea of cock pics getting an instant meet, this is another "genius idea" out there... |
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Many years ago, i was duped into meeting a "couple". All the warning signs were there beforehand, but i hadn't spotted them. When i arrived for our coffee meet, (in a hotel, under the cameras), i was told she couldnt make it. I quickly wised up. I was dissapointed, but intrigued so we both had a good honest chat, and it turned out to be a good learning experience for me. |
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"Many years ago, i was duped into meeting a "couple". All the warning signs were there beforehand, but i hadn't spotted them. When i arrived for our coffee meet, (in a hotel, under the cameras), i was told she couldnt make it. I quickly wised up. I was dissapointed, but intrigued so we both had a good honest chat, and it turned out to be a good learning experience for me. "
Did he offer any insight into why he duped you? |
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This happens to us a lot. Seems to be a particularly bad patch the last couple of weeks, where it feels like every other mail we got was either male half of a couple or a single male profile claiming to have a fwb or girlfriend.
That said, maybe some of them are legit.
Take us for instance, I’m not available much at the moe. So Lucy has had two solo meets. As for myself, I wouldn’t really feel comfortable approaching anyone for a solo meet. I assume they would chalk it up to the the exact issue we’re talking about.
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over a year ago
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Happened once or twice. Very easy for us to spot as they are usually looking for pics straight off the bat and pressuring to meet straight away or their nearby etc etc |
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"Happened once or twice. Very easy for us to spot as they are usually looking for pics straight off the bat and pressuring to meet straight away or their nearby etc etc "
Pictures asked for us always a worry. |
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By *1Cork OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Take us for instance, I’m not available much at the moe. So Lucy has had two solo meets. As for myself, I wouldn’t really feel comfortable approaching anyone for a solo meet. I assume they would chalk it up to the the exact issue we’re talking about.
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No issue with couples playing separately, but we’d expect that kink to be on the bio or the intention made clear in earliest possible message.
We’ve never been afforded the option of playing with the female half following some of these reveals, which makes us a little suspicious.
There was genuine attraction to male in last conversation and we did offer to engage with him as a single man… so it almost worked for him… but he ghosted us then, would prefer to maintain the pretence perhaps. |
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Ugh yes... We've experienced this a fair few times and, on the flip side, it has definitely affected the way people perceive and interact with us.
I (Mr.) do all of the chatting, we ask for face pics early, and we like to arrange stranger meets (no social) with single lads which I get is not the norm for couples but it's how we like things 
I totally understand and appreciate the need for scepticism - it's just weirdly funny sometimes being accused of being fake as I can't imagine doing this without my wife's consent  |
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"Ya, had a few of them "married couple looking to play alone" lads alright.
The funniest part is their couple profile is a dozen pictures of him and none of her. The complete opposite of most couples profiles on here!!"
Profile should set off alarm bells |
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"It's common, we don't accept friend requests now unless we've already met in person. "
The amount of people that send friend requests without even sending a message, let alone having met in person! |
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"I don't understand the couples' profiles where they selected "Man" instead of "Couple"  "
We refuse to interact at all with profiles where they claim to be anything other than what their profile states. A couple on a single male profile being the most common claim. |
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it’s very annoying . 
