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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I prefer hotel meets for a first time sex meet.
I can accommodate I choose not to unless I know the person really well only then will I invite them to my home.
I will never ever go to someone's house for a meet until I know them well also. I made that mistake once on here when I agreed to go to a guys house for a coffee and chat as his car was in the garage. Turns out he didn't actually have a car and he expected a lot more than a coffee and chat as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I suppose we are all adults and can make our own decisions, I'd bring someone to my place no bother just not as first meet though, price of hotels is too much imo |
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I've turned down offers from women who insisted on only meeting in their own homes.
If they had so little concern for their own personal safety by inviting me as a complete stranger into their home they weren't people I had any interest in engaging with any further.
I much prefer hotel meets but that will only ever happen after at least one social. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
It depends, but I am very much more cautious than I used to be; some people can misinterpret signals and others are simply out for themselves, and will do whatever is required to get whatever they want!
I think we have all been burned at some time, and thankfully lived to tell the tale; in one instance I had to beat a hasty exit for the front door after things took a nasty turn.
My home is now my refuge, my sanctuary and offlimits to all but a select few.
The watchword is to tread very cautiously, VERY. |
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"I would never accommodate unless I knew someone well. I also find something very bold and fun about hotel bars, lifts and rooms. Lol"
Exactly, it’s very horny flirting and imagining what it’s going to be like when you go upstairs
Then when you can’t resist in the lift  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never accommodate unless I knew someone well. I also find something very bold and fun about hotel bars, lifts and rooms. Lol
Exactly, it’s very horny flirting and imagining what it’s going to be like when you go upstairs
Then when you can’t resist in the lift "
Exactly! I personally love hotels |
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"I would never accommodate unless I knew someone well. I also find something very bold and fun about hotel bars, lifts and rooms. Lol
Exactly, it’s very horny flirting and imagining what it’s going to be like when you go upstairs
Then when you can’t resist in the lift
Exactly! I personally love hotels "
There’s a few of us “romantics” still on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a hotel you can relax more , if it's a person's own place you or them, if it's at their place, are always open to an unexpected or uninvited person just dropping by . |
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By *ing PaddyMan
over a year ago
South County Dublin |
I've been unfortunate not to have any play for ages , which does not bother me now.
A social met first, you have to build up trust and feel you are comfortable with the other person.
I could never host anyway but would prefer, dinner and hotel met, if I was lucky and did not say the wrong thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First meet is social, next depends on how well u get on with the guy, love hotel meets,the anticipation, enjoying the flirting and teasing. Going to get dinner and drinks and flirting.
Need to feel comfortable with a guy to stay at his or have a guy t stay at mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you happy to go to another person's house for a meet or are hotels preferred?
And is it wise to bring meets to your home? "
Whats this thing you call a hotel?
Are they like some sort of reception centre?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree! Going to someone’s house that you’ve never met beforehand is a big no no ! I know a guy who got beaten up by the husband and had money extracted from him or else wife was going g to shout r**e . Be careful out there Fabbers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A tent from Tesco or Aldi would be nicer and cleaner than some fab members houses.
Walking into a dirty,filthy house,with dirty smelly clothes and empty beer cans all over the floor,is not my idea of fun. |
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