Myself and Mr wolf drove from cork to the middle of roscommon for a meet. In fairness we where a tad late. But she was well informed hours before hand. However. Our messages did not deliver till 4:30. And was told still got go ahead. As we pulled in to the place at 6. She said she would only 5 min. 10 to 7 now. And messages are not going through any more. So wondering should give another half hour cut our losses and leave? Or give her a bit more time? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I'd leave. If she said that long ago she was going to be 5 mins and still isn't there you have waited long enough.As BM said leave and enjoy the rest of your evening together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh that's so unfair!
A drive back to Cork on New Year's is no fun. Wish I could offer an alternative. Perhaps book into a hotel at short notice. If they have availability they'll probably be cheap and there'll be some craic. The Abbey Hotel looks nice from the website - never been.
Hope you have some fun for new years! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you have given her enough time
Shitty thing to do to anyone but especially new years eve
Hopefully ye can salvage the evening and have a good time |
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"Myself and Mr wolf drove from cork to the middle of roscommon for a meet. In fairness we where a tad late. But she was well informed hours before hand. However. Our messages did not deliver till 4:30. And was told still got go ahead. As we pulled in to the place at 6. She said she would only 5 min. 10 to 7 now. And messages are not going through any more. So wondering should give another half hour cut our losses and leave? Or give her a bit more time?"
Report and move on,try to enjoy yourselves on way back. |
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"Oh that's so unfair!
A drive back to Cork on New Year's is no fun. Wish I could offer an alternative. Perhaps book into a hotel at short notice. If they have availability they'll probably be cheap and there'll be some craic. The Abbey Hotel looks nice from the website - never been.
Hope you have some fun for new years!"
Luckily Mr wolf does not drink. So drive back is not to much an issue. He's furious on my behalf. as the whole point of my being on here is so I can get to play with other women. |
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"You drove from cork to Roscommon on New Year’s Eve for what looks like your first face to face meet with someone you haven’t met before ? "
Tbh Mr wolfs fuckery radar was going off in the days leading up to. I and the woman where in contact a lot on phone etc. So for me he hoped against hope. As I was soooo excited. He made contingent'ish plans for just the two of us. So there's that. Just have to drive back to cork |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"You drove from cork to Roscommon on New Year’s Eve for what looks like your first face to face meet with someone you haven’t met before ?
Tbh Mr wolfs fuckery radar was going off in the days leading up to. I and the woman where in contact a lot on phone etc. So for me he hoped against hope. As I was soooo excited. He made contingent'ish plans for just the two of us. So there's that. Just have to drive back to cork "
Trust your / his instinct more and learn from it is all you can do now ......hopefully you find what you're looking for eventually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a nice situation to be in on New Year's Eve. Is there anyone you know between Roscommon and Cork that would put you up ? Or give you a pit stop..its a long disappointing drive home |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh God OP, that is so disrespectful, we've had our fair share of these also, we planned to meet couples previously only for the male to msg and say she was staying out with friends or late at work and to carry on and enjoy ourselves with him. So disheartening seeing these kinda posts.
We left fabswingers a few months back and only just rejoined and are much more careful now.
We'd gladly arrange to meet up with you both sometime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's some driving OP  Happy New year to you both.  
Lol.. I did not have e to do it. My owner did. Luckily it rained for most of the time back so it calmed him. "
HAPPY NEW YEAR FOLKS.
Glad to hear your home safely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm curious did the person eventually reply to your messages. It's a shitty thing to happen but don't take it personally people are flaky af here. I hope you have plenty of adventures in 2023 to make up for it |
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"I'm curious did the person eventually reply to your messages. It's a shitty thing to happen but don't take it personally people are flaky af here. I hope you have plenty of adventures in 2023 to make up for it"
No. Messages still not even delivered. So assuming I'm blocked lol. Oh I don't. Lesson learned. And that's dont beleive even if veri'd and gold site supporters. Which the person is. Will deffo make it harder for genuine women. To even get a coffee meet. |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"I'm curious did the person eventually reply to your messages. It's a shitty thing to happen but don't take it personally people are flaky af here. I hope you have plenty of adventures in 2023 to make up for it
No. Messages still not even delivered. So assuming I'm blocked lol. Oh I don't. Lesson learned. And that's dont beleive even if veri'd and gold site supporters. Which the person is. Will deffo make it harder for genuine women. To even get a coffee meet. "
Im a nosy fooker
You said earlier you had lots of phone contact, was that actually talking or text? Like did you actually hear a female voice?
And well verified? Perhaps life got in the way - scorned hubby found out or something?
Ps you can't message if you are blocked  |
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