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"Why you say that.."
Because I'm done having kids. And it's the best decision I've ever made
Took 45 minutes. I walked home.
It's the most effective form of contraception available.
I've never had better orgasms. (No little voice to worry about making babies)
Women really, really appreciate it. That surprised me and I really can't overstate it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Looked it up the other day, says you've to ring before making an appointment if under 30 and no kids.
I guess I've a very patronising phone call in my near future  |
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"Looked it up the other day, says you've to ring before making an appointment if under 30 and no kids.
I guess I've a very patronising phone call in my near future "
The consultation was mandatory for me and it was very informative. I was really surprised how many things I didn't know about it.
He interviewed me about my motivation for it. I explained that I was a co parent and was happy with two kids and we were good to go.
Age and kids are the main factors in getting it approved. |
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"I have only been discussing this last few days . Is it though GP you approach it or Clinic somewhere ? . Is it expensive get done . For me defo sounds like the way to go . Thanks guys . "
Not every doctor does is as it is a minor surgery. In Galway there's only one and I just happened to love across the road.
Should be less than five hundred quid |
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"Sounds abit extreme just wear a condom i havent heard the women here yet to get their tubes tied  "
Female tubal sterilisation isn't exactly a minor surgery. I literally popped over road for an hour and walked home.
A woman making that decision goes to hospital and is under full anesthetic.
There's a financial consideration in that too. |
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"Sounds abit extreme just wear a condom i havent heard the women here yet to get their tubes tied
Female tubal sterilisation isn't exactly a minor surgery. I literally popped over road for an hour and walked home.
A woman making that decision goes to hospital and is under full anesthetic.
There's a financial consideration in that too. "
The financial consideration is minor compared to the additional risk factors!!! But some people just don't get it  |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Sounds abit extreme just wear a condom i havent heard the women here yet to get their tubes tied "
So much less risk and hassle for a male to get procedure done |
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"At my age it’s the only thing I have left that is still working!!  "
Obviously if you want to be able to procreate you'll still want to be a fertile male.
Otherwise there's no difference functionally. You'll still ejaculate, it's the same colour and consistency. Your testosterone levels don't change.
The male body typically reabsorbs 90% of the sperm it produces anyway. Once the tube is snipped it just reabsorbs all of it.
And lads, there's well published research that shows men report enjoying sex more post snip. |
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By *s LollyWoman 47 weeks ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
I got my tubes tied about 15yrs ago, to go private was a couple of thousand and done within a few days, public was free and id to wait 10mts, went in at 7am was out at 6pm was tough, but for me it was the best decision i made and never regretted it....... |
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It is something I have been considering as I don't want kids, but in the end it won't change much for me I think. Still wear a condom for sex with strangers regardless.
But it is nice to see it is an easier operation now. |
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By *ol_ieMan 47 weeks ago
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Had it done a few years ago and cant are what the big deal is about.
In and out in 25 mins and little or no pain after. Tested 10 weeks later and no swimmers...
And the lads going on about condoms do realise that they are only 97 percent effective... what about the other 3 percent....lol.
Anyone in a long term thing what have finished with having kids should just go and get it done. |
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"Sounds abit extreme just wear a condom i havent heard the women here yet to get their tubes tied "
That's because doctors don't want to do it on women very often they try and get women on the merina coil which lasts five years as this is as good as having your tubes tided. |
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"Sounds abit extreme just wear a condom i havent heard the women here yet to get their tubes tied
That's because doctors don't want to do it on women very often they try and get women on the merina coil which lasts five years as this is as good as having your tubes tided. "
aw ok most of my friends on on the coil they dont seem to have any issue with it |
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I got it done years ago. It was a very painful procedure, but I got over that, and looking back well worth the discomfort. My tubes were cut, tied and cauterised. For any couple who have had enough children, its the best option. |
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Had it done about 5 years ago. It's liberating!...Removes any concern about contraception. Sex drive was always high, but went through the roof afterwards!
Didn't think it fair on Mrs to be responsible since we've had our family. No need to be using coils and pills when the snip was a 15min, no scalpel, permanent, painless procedure. Cost €450, and got €80 back on tax.
Doctor has clinic in Dublin and clinic in Galway and Cork once a month! |
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"... and my vasectomy.
If you're done having kids lads, get the snip. Best decision you'll ever make.
Yes, I got himself done ASAP once we were done having kids. Piece of cake  "
You make it sound like you just brought a stray cat to the vets |
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"... and my vasectomy.
If you're done having kids lads, get the snip. Best decision you'll ever make.
Yes, I got himself done ASAP once we were done having kids. Piece of cake
You make it sound like you just brought a stray cat to the vets"
Yes I have brought stray cats to the vet and they were very well looked after so you could correlate the two I suppose |
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"... and my vasectomy.
If you're done having kids lads, get the snip. Best decision you'll ever make.
Yes, I got himself done ASAP once we were done having kids. Piece of cake
You make it sound like you just brought a stray cat to the vets
Yes I have brought stray cats to the vet and they were very well looked after so you could correlate the two I suppose "
It sounds like he didn't get a choice. Just rounded up in a cage and dropped off at reception. Lol |
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Had snip done about 10 yrs ago at a clinic in Galway. Apprehensive getting it done but best decision ever made.
(And at the time the receptionist there was a real hottie. I think she might have been placed there especially in a weird sort of way!!) |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Is it true it involves a rusty hedge clippers and something to bite down on? Asking for a friend...
Biting down on something is for a wuss...but ya get a cup of tea and a biscuit afterwards "
I guess if you were flexible enough you'd have something to bite down on by doing a diy job 
Save yourself 600quid! |
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"Is it true it involves a rusty hedge clippers and something to bite down on? Asking for a friend... "
Ah it wasn't that rusty, he gave it a rub of a file to take the rough edges of it! I was slugging away on a bottle of whiskey! |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Had it done after child number 2. Not a bother! Took the worry off herself so she stopped taking the pill.
I think women appreciate the decision so they don’t need to ! Much more complicated for them!! |
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"... and my vasectomy.
If you're done having kids lads, get the snip. Best decision you'll ever make.
Yes, I got himself done ASAP once we were done having kids. Piece of cake
You make it sound like you just brought a stray cat to the vets
Yes I have brought stray cats to the vet and they were very well looked after so you could correlate the two I suppose
It sounds like he didn't get a choice. Just rounded up in a cage and dropped off at reception. Lol"
Ah he was grand, I collected him afterwards and all |
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By *og-ManMan 47 weeks ago
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"... and my vasectomy.
If you're done having kids lads, get the snip. Best decision you'll ever make.
Yes, I got himself done ASAP once we were done having kids. Piece of cake
You make it sound like you just brought a stray cat to the vets
Yes I have brought stray cats to the vet and they were very well looked after so you could correlate the two I suppose
It sounds like he didn't get a choice. Just rounded up in a cage and dropped off at reception. Lol
Ah he was grand, I collected him afterwards and all "
Did you pat him on the head and give him a treat |
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"... and my vasectomy.
If you're done having kids lads, get the snip. Best decision you'll ever make.
Yes, I got himself done ASAP once we were done having kids. Piece of cake
You make it sound like you just brought a stray cat to the vets
Yes I have brought stray cats to the vet and they were very well looked after so you could correlate the two I suppose
It sounds like he didn't get a choice. Just rounded up in a cage and dropped off at reception. Lol
Ah he was grand, I collected him afterwards and all
Did you pat him on the head and give him a treat "
He was purrrrfect after it |
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My choice was made with my partner at the time because we had three kids between the two of us and her coil was causing her period to last over ten days. For years. And that was the least disturbing choice of contraception for her.
It was an easy choice. |
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