It happened to me a couple of weeks ago when I was chatting to a woman, arranged a hotel but when it came to the day not only did she not show up but also stopped replying to my messages and stopped answering my phone calls without any reason. Funny enough though I messaged her on another number pretending to be someone else and she blocked it but hasnt blocked my main number  |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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Well if your account hasn't been blocked by this lady then maybe it's possible that something came up?
Don't give up yet OP but I hope for your sake it wasn't intentional.
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"Did her explanation stack up?
Sometimes shit just happens. there was no explanation, haven't heard from her since  "
There could well be a valid explanation...
Her phone may have broken or melted.
She may have fallen into a drain.
She may have stepped on a stray sod.
She may have been going down for a look at the Titanic
Her dog may have eaten her homework, or even her leg.
She may have just died.
The above are just some that you may not have considered.. There are other possibilities floating around in my head but maybe they should stay there
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Is it just me or is this happening to others? I had a meet arranged recently with a lady and she never showed, had been chatting for ages arranged a meet for some fun and never showed up "
Hear lots of people saying the same now, so many no shows |
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"Was she well verified and did you meet for coffee first?
yes "
Very strange that you met her for coffee, arranged a fun meet and she just never showed up or explained afterwards?
I smell porkies tbh. |
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Loads of no show's, I accommodate and guys just dissapear, then a few weeks later I get a greeting from a new account, same lads again. Thinking I don't remember them. The charm and over compensated compliments are a dead give away or the ??? If you don't answer their mail in minutes. Effing wasters |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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We ladies get a no show aswell.. I was to meet up last week on the help a fabber out for a cuppa and get him verified.. heard nothing from him .. no show .. let him on |
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By *og-ManMan 46 weeks ago
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"We ladies get a no show aswell.. I was to meet up last week on the help a fabber out for a cuppa and get him verified.. heard nothing from him .. no show .. let him on "
Did you arrange to meet and he never turned up ...unreal...especially looking for a start ...is he still on fab |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"We ladies get a no show aswell.. I was to meet up last week on the help a fabber out for a cuppa and get him verified.. heard nothing from him .. no show .. let him on
Did you arrange to meet and he never turned up ...unreal...especially looking for a start ...is he still on fab "
Jesus bog you have’n a popeye moment |
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By *apri 555Man 46 weeks ago
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"We ladies get a no show aswell.. I was to meet up last week on the help a fabber out for a cuppa and get him verified.. heard nothing from him .. no show .. let him on "
What a foolish thing to do, missing out on a chance like that |
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"I've had loads of no shows that's why I always arrange to meet half way for this reason so at least I wouldn't have travelled too far.."
half way seems fair for a coffee/tea meet the annoying thing is the planning having to move stuff around for them not to show |
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By *oody500 OP Man 46 weeks ago
far far away |
"Was she well verified and did you meet for coffee first?
yes
Very strange that you met her for coffee, arranged a fun meet and she just never showed up or explained afterwards?
I smell porkies tbh."
and why do you smell porkies, I met her for coffee a while back and we had arranged to meet for fun where's the porkies in that |
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I've never had a no show but always found it strange here in the forums that if a man is a no show he's an arsehole but if he has a no show it's still his fault.
Funny it never works the other way around. |
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"I've never had a no show but always found it strange here in the forums that if a man is a no show he's an arsehole but if he has a no show it's still his fault.
Funny it never works the other way around. "
That's actually quite true. Guys get slated for a variety of things that women also do. That's fab I guess. |
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By *andytownMan 46 weeks ago
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"Is it just me or is this happening to others? I had a meet arranged recently with a lady and she never showed, had been chatting for ages arranged a meet for some fun and never showed up "
Perhaps she's a sub  |
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"Did her explanation stack up?
Sometimes shit just happens. there was no explanation, haven't heard from her since
There could well be a valid explanation...
Her phone may have broken or melted.
She may have fallen into a drain.
She may have stepped on a stray sod.
She may have been going down for a look at the Titanic
Her dog may have eaten her homework, or even her leg.
She may have just died.
The above are just some that you may not have considered.. There are other possibilities floating around in my head but maybe they should stay there
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Titanic one... very topical. Puts a Fab no show into context! |
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By *og-ManMan 46 weeks ago
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"Was she well verified and did you meet for coffee first?
yes
Stupid question but is she play meet verified or just socials yes she is play meet verified "
Weird one...all you can do is report her profile |
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By *oody500 OP Man 46 weeks ago
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"Did her explanation stack up?
Sometimes shit just happens. there was no explanation, haven't heard from her since
Did you message her to ask why ? "
yes I did, although she hasn't been online so I haven't had a reply yet |
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"Did her explanation stack up?
Sometimes shit just happens. there was no explanation, haven't heard from her since
Did you message her to ask why ? yes I did, although she hasn't been online so I haven't had a reply yet"
Did you use another chat App or just here? |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Did her explanation stack up?
Sometimes shit just happens. there was no explanation, haven't heard from her since
Did you message her to ask why ? yes I did, although she hasn't been online so I haven't had a reply yet"
There's definitely something Titanic about this whole no show 
I'm going to watch this thread and eagerly await the outcome, as the lady you were meeting with has not blocked you it seems like there may be a legit reason. |
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By *oody500 OP Man 46 weeks ago
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"Did her explanation stack up?
Sometimes shit just happens. there was no explanation, haven't heard from her since
Did you message her to ask why ? yes I did, although she hasn't been online so I haven't had a reply yet
Did you use another chat App or just here?"
just on here |
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"Did her explanation stack up?
Sometimes shit just happens. there was no explanation, haven't heard from her since
Did you message her to ask why ? yes I did, although she hasn't been online so I haven't had a reply yet
Did you use another chat App or just here? just on here "
Its not nice whats happened. |
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"Did her explanation stack up?
Sometimes shit just happens. there was no explanation, haven't heard from her since
Did you message her to ask why ? yes I did, although she hasn't been online so I haven't had a reply yet"
The poor woman could have been in an accident or worse. Was it normal for her to be offline for days? |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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It's frustrating. It seems to happen to everyone, men, women and couples.
I raised this in a chat room recently and was told that you can report a profile (click the little report button below the profile header) for arranging to meet and not showing up.
Not sure what happens if you do. |
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By *s LollyWoman 46 weeks ago
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"It's frustrating. It seems to happen to everyone, men, women and couples.
I raised this in a chat room recently and was told that you can report a profile (click the little report button below the profile header) for arranging to meet and not showing up.
Not sure what happens if you do."
Can't imagine anything would be done in all honesty... |
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By *og-ManMan 46 weeks ago
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"It's frustrating. It seems to happen to everyone, men, women and couples.
I raised this in a chat room recently and was told that you can report a profile (click the little report button below the profile header) for arranging to meet and not showing up.
Not sure what happens if you do.
Can't imagine anything would be done in all honesty..."
I live in hope that if they get enough reports about a profile then they ban the profile |
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By *affa31Woman 46 weeks ago
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"It's frustrating. It seems to happen to everyone, men, women and couples.
I raised this in a chat room recently and was told that you can report a profile (click the little report button below the profile header) for arranging to meet and not showing up.
Not sure what happens if you do.
Can't imagine anything would be done in all honesty...
I live in hope that if they get enough reports about a profile then they ban the profile "
Not a hope. How would they verify any of it. We all know there could be a campaign to get a person banned |
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It does happen, more so lately I am hearing it. I myself have been blown off recently. Was told to meet in the city and drove up, then told it wouldn’t be for hours, then nothing for hours and hours until I gave up and said have fun then got told a silly excuse. We been talking for weeks.. alas, just think of it this way, they missed out! My regular play partner came over the next day and I fucked her brains out 
Always try to arrange half way with folks so you don’t miss out and never book a hotel on your own, go halves. Had a girl last year who I met up with a few times, even had sex in my car (spontaneous tbh) cancel last minute for a hotel that I booked and paid for.. fun times
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By *ORBCouple 45 weeks ago
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I'm sure that is a worry if she hasn't been online since. Hopefully she is okay. She may have a genuine excuse if she normally is online and hasn't been since.
Anyone who just ghosts is cowardly. It doesn't take more than a few seconds to send a message to say they aren't going to show. Even if they block after to just ghost and not show up is low.They can always block straight away after they send it. But to waste other peoples time just because they can is pure gobshite behaviour. I've been lucky enough to hasn't happened to me (Bo) but I've seen so many posts from people who have it happen to them and it must be horrible. |
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Some people are rude unfortunately. I had a hotel booked to have mfm and one of the guys didn't show up. I had met him 2 days previous, I stupidly verified him (which I think is all he wanted as he had no verifications yet) and then he didn't turn up for the mfm. Made the most of it and had a great night regardless! |
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"Some people are rude unfortunately. I had a hotel booked to have mfm and one of the guys didn't show up. I had met him 2 days previous, I stupidly verified him (which I think is all he wanted as he had no verifications yet) and then he didn't turn up for the mfm. Made the most of it and had a great night regardless! "
Drop me a message for a chat.. |
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"I think there should be a name and shame forum for these idiots we've been on here 17 years never had any then had 2 in a matter of weeks recently. Its infuriating."
I understand wanting to name these people to help warm other people. But there will always be people who would abuse such a system, sadly. |
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I was chatting to a lady both in here and on WhatsApp, she sent me a friend request. Arranged to meet, she suggested a hotel and time and asked me to book a room. Continued to chat but on the date arranged I could see that my messages were read but no replies. No show from her and too late to cancel the room booking (you all know how expensive hotels are in Dublin right now), she went unlos, but reactivated her account the next day but has me blocked. No response or explanation received. |
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it happened to me again a few weeks ago when I was chatting to a woman, arranged a hotel but when it came to the day not only did she not show up but also stopped replying to my messages and stopped answering my phone calls without any reason. If you women aint interested just say so, at least I know where I stand |
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"I was chatting to a lady both in here and on WhatsApp, she sent me a friend request. Arranged to meet, she suggested a hotel and time and asked me to book a room. Continued to chat but on the date arranged I could see that my messages were read but no replies. No show from her and too late to cancel the room booking (you all know how expensive hotels are in Dublin right now), she went unlos, but reactivated her account the next day but has me blocked. No response or explanation received. "
This is why stopped meeting in hotels. Happened to me twice just before the pandemic, loss hotel money!
It's either we meet socially first to get to know each other before I invite you back to my place; or we meet at club night. Otherwise you will have to book the hotel on your own and then invite me over. |
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"I was chatting to a lady both in here and on WhatsApp, she sent me a friend request. Arranged to meet, she suggested a hotel and time and asked me to book a room. Continued to chat but on the date arranged I could see that my messages were read but no replies. No show from her and too late to cancel the room booking (you all know how expensive hotels are in Dublin right now), she went unlos, but reactivated her account the next day but has me blocked. No response or explanation received. "
Its a simple explanation... she's a cunt  |
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We had a small few no shows for threesomes. We just accept it as part of fab life. And try to chat extensively before hand to minimise but we are of the view it happens as all sorts of reasons why a very personal activity like swinging is never going to be straightforward. Our only real problem was at Easter when after chatting on WhatsApp to a guy on our sex phone I said chat next week but we then went on an trip at short notice forgot and left that phone behind to come back to threatening messages from him. It was a casual chat next week not a commitment but he took exception. Ce La vie. |
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