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By *og-ManMan 45 weeks ago
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Easy to say but fuck them.....unknown gobshites off the internet who dont know you so just block them and forget them
Keyboard warriors who get a kick out off hurting someone
You can just imagine them laughing as they read threads like this especially if you were one of the ones they messaged
Don't reply to them...it gives them validation in their sad minds
Block them every single time
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Ignore them, some lads try to use shock value to get a response, so by insulting you they think you’ll reply and start a convo. Also, this is the internet, those people don’t matter in your life, just block and forget about them  I have lost count of the amount of times I’ve been asked was I pregnant in my pic in the white tshirt. It’s just a food baby  |
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"I know I’m not a skinny girl but am getting a lot of body sharing messages lately. Has anyone else experienced the same?"
Jen, just enjoy the fact that they’ve shown their true self straightaway and you had the power to reject what they say and not waste any time on them.
We all love different looks and body shapes and I’m sure there’s lots on here who would love to get their hands on your gorgeous body  |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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It takes a really nasty individual to do something like that. People come on here and put themselves and their bodies on display. That takes courage, and a huge amount of body confidence, which doesn't just happen overnight for everyone, it can be hugely liberating and such a confidence boost if people admire you.
Then to have some horrible asshole try to degrade you, knowing nothing at all about you is just such a mean and small minded thing to do.
I'm sure they think absolutely fuck all about it. It must just be a jealousy thing I imagine, these saddos are looking saying " who do you think you are? You won't fuck me? Sure look at the state of you"
Just block, report and don't give it the oxygen its looking for...
Keep the fabulous bodies on show everyone |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Brave people behind a keyboard is all that is.
Once ur comfortable in ur own skin feck them .
Block and move on enjoy the men that want that extra to hold onto |
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By *ustBoWoman 45 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
There's plenty on here who body shame others. Some in messages to the person.Some in private messages to others about someone else,quite often people who the in public they act like they are friends with. It happens they are assholes.
You did the right thing op by not replying it only feeds their pathetic little egos when you do. I think some do it in the hope of getting a reply,some just to try and upset someone that they know would never meet time anyhow on here. You have learn to have a thick skin on here and not let some random gobshite who you'd never want to interact with anyhow get to you. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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That's some bullshit behaviour. It says everything about the person sending the message and nothing about the receiver.
I know it's common but I can't understand people that act that way. |
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OP i get it all the time too. Was even told i had no right to be here and just leave cause i was a "fat ugly whiney slut" This from a few pics we had on at the time. Told him if he didnt like it dont look. Then blocked him. I make no secret of being bigger (size 18) and its first thing i get outve the way when speaking to someone new. If im not for them no point in chatting. Please try not to let it bother you. The keyboard warriors are the ones that are bored and looking for a reaction as others have said.
Happy fabbing. Enjoy your journey.
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By *adylaceWoman 45 weeks ago
Waterford City |
I get this daily. Some people's lives are just so sad that they feel the need to bring others down to their level. They hate to see others enjoy their lives. Don't give them the attention that they crave. Block and report. |
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Fab has more than it's fair share of assholes..I'm sure the ladies get this pathetic bullshit. Angel summed it up. Keyboard warriors with little to do except try to get a reaction because their sad miserable lives aren't doing it for them anymore.
Fuck'em, hopefully most of them will get the clap purely from having a wank. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I imagine it’s the idiots who don’t get a response to their stupid message accompanied by their ugly cock pic and the only response to being ignored that they can think of is to call the lady fat or ugly!!
All women are beautiful in my opinion!! |
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By *og-ManMan 45 weeks ago
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"I imagine it’s the idiots who don’t get a response to their stupid message accompanied by their ugly cock pic and the only response to being ignored that they can think of is to call the lady fat or ugly!!
All women are beautiful in my opinion!! "
Women also send the same messages |
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By *adylaceWoman 45 weeks ago
Waterford City |
"I imagine it’s the idiots who don’t get a response to their stupid message accompanied by their ugly cock pic and the only response to being ignored that they can think of is to call the lady fat or ugly!!
All women are beautiful in my opinion!!
Women also send the same messages "
Yep. Crazy comes from both sides unfortunately. |
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I've seen some passive aggressive body shaming on the forums as well as PM's from some two-faced fabbers using words like hideous to describe other women they themselves have verified and call friends in the forum. |
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Some Neck on them. I can’t get a reply back even with a complement. I didn’t think this lifestyle was all about shape and looks. Well I hope not anyways . If anyone needs protection from these lads. Give me a shout. I’m an excellent screamer |
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"I know I’m not a skinny girl but am getting a lot of body sharing messages lately. Has anyone else experienced the same?
Messages such as what? "
I don’t think we need them repeated here for their enjoyment  |
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Sorry to here you are getting nasty messages OP. Most will have been sent from blank profiles or people who have been on here for years and are still not verified. As others have said block and report. |
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"I know I’m not a skinny girl but am getting a lot of body sharing messages lately. Has anyone else experienced the same?
Messages such as what?
I don’t think we need them repeated here for their enjoyment "
Who is this we you refer too
Also who do you think will enjoy it?
I am interested to know thats why I asked  |
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By *adylaceWoman 45 weeks ago
Waterford City |
"I think everyone gets them regardless of shape or sizes.
I've got told twice in the last 2 months that someone couldn't be with me cause of the way my body looks.
Can't win them all I guess. "
Absolutely true. It has more to do with the person sending these messages than the person getting them. They are just nasty people. |
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"I know I’m not a skinny girl but am getting a lot of body sharing messages lately. Has anyone else experienced the same?"
I’m fairly new to this site and so I don’t claim to speak with expertise but first and foremost the men writing this stuff are simply wrong… and you don’t need to dignify their insults with a reply and you never need to explain or defend yourself to them … or anyone else…
And if they hung around for a bit they would find that the ladies commenting on their experiences on this string also happen to be the creators of some of the hottest, most confident and sensuous profiles on here and i for one am a fan. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I know I’m not a skinny girl but am getting a lot of body sharing messages lately. Has anyone else experienced the same?"
It's absolutely disgraceful that anyone would go down the road of body Shaming any one else , to me anyone that does that are just so f**king arrogant wether they're male or female, have absolutely no time for them. |
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By *irdyxWoman 45 weeks ago
dublin/ Birmingham |
There is some absolute tools on here after saying no thanks
I got told sure it's hard to shift a beached whale .
Some don't take rejection very well at all
I don't mind it I just know who not to meet now |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Que the many white knights jumping to the defense of this lady, if there were no bbws on fab the selection of ladies would be very limited, it's already a sausage fest as it is |
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By *aid backMan 45 weeks ago
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"Que the many white knights jumping to the defense of this lady, if there were no bbws on fab the selection of ladies would be very limited, it's already a sausage fest as it is "
Ah the old there's too many lads that's why I can't get meets. I never had a problem with getting meets or getting to know people because I didn't just offer a sausage.
As for people passing comment on people's body types etc it happens it unfortunate but remember they took time out of their little lives to actually pass comment then went back to their Tate videos |
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Yes, lots of times. Block and delete is the only way to deal with that crap.
I saw someone post a status update recently, complaining that women here need to know the difference between curvy and fat, that they should fix their profiles.
I'd say he had just been rejected by a curvy woman. It reeked of it.
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Que the many white knights jumping to the defense of this lady, if there were no bbws on fab the selection of ladies would be very limited, it's already a sausage fest as it is
Ah the old there's too many lads that's why I can't get meets. I never had a problem with getting meets or getting to know people because I didn't just offer a sausage.
As for people passing comment on people's body types etc it happens it unfortunate but remember they took time out of their little lives to actually pass comment then went back to their Tate videos "
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By *og-ManMan 45 weeks ago
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"Que the many white knights jumping to the defense of this lady, if there were no bbws on fab the selection of ladies would be very limited, it's already a sausage fest as it is "
Have to say I've never seen fab as a sausage fest because I'm not in competition with any other man for a start
Also since when did helping someone / anyone thats feeling upset by Internet trolls become a wrong thing to do because other trolls call you a white Knight for doing it
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I like to think that the variety of tastes means there is a variety of beauty.
My sister in law is a size 8, slim, box ticking sorta woman. I'd be afraid I'd break her in bed - so having ticked all the populist boxes I'd still not want the ride from her. Now when theres a bit of cushion for pushin', well thats a woman worth undressing ?? |
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"Que the many white knights jumping to the defense of this lady, if there were no bbws on fab the selection of ladies would be very limited, it's already a sausage fest as it is
Have to say I've never seen fab as a sausage fest because I'm not in competition with any other man for a start
Also since when did helping someone / anyone thats feeling upset by Internet trolls become a wrong thing to do because other trolls call you a white Knight for doing it
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Bog .. your not wrong 
At the same time , your labeling others that don't think like you as trolls ... thats a pretty troll like thing to do  |
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"I like to think that the variety of tastes means there is a variety of beauty.
My sister in law is a size 8, slim, box ticking sorta woman. I'd be afraid I'd break her in bed - so having ticked all the populist boxes I'd still not want the ride from her. Now when theres a bit of cushion for pushin', well thats a woman worth undressing ??"
Never mind she is married to your brother ??? |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Que the many white knights jumping to the defense of this lady, if there were no bbws on fab the selection of ladies would be very limited, it's already a sausage fest as it is
Have to say I've never seen fab as a sausage fest because I'm not in competition with any other man for a start
Also since when did helping someone / anyone thats feeling upset by Internet trolls become a wrong thing to do because other trolls call you a white Knight for doing it
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By *og-ManMan 45 weeks ago
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"Que the many white knights jumping to the defense of this lady, if there were no bbws on fab the selection of ladies would be very limited, it's already a sausage fest as it is
Have to say I've never seen fab as a sausage fest because I'm not in competition with any other man for a start
Also since when did helping someone / anyone thats feeling upset by Internet trolls become a wrong thing to do because other trolls call you a white Knight for doing it
Bog .. your not wrong
At the same time , your labeling others that don't think like you as trolls ... thats a pretty troll like thing to do "
Not that they think differently to me...after all we all have different opinions
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I know I’m not a skinny girl but am getting a lot of body sharing messages lately. Has anyone else experienced the same?"
At times in the past, I have. It hurts, and it's a pure dick move. However, as I've grown, I've come to accept that people who resort to body shaming are generally complete pricks anyway. |
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"I like to think that the variety of tastes means there is a variety of beauty.
My sister in law is a size 8, slim, box ticking sorta woman. I'd be afraid I'd break her in bed - so having ticked all the populist boxes I'd still not want the ride from her. Now when theres a bit of cushion for pushin', well thats a woman worth undressing ??
Never mind she is married to your brother ??? "
There's that too but what I mean is if I met her and we were both single |
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There's all kind of animals out there I hope the op takes from this she is beautiful and any other ppl that get these kind off fucked up messages head up move on there not even worth thinking about .
You can imagine the fine specimen behind the messages |
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"Que the many white knights jumping to the defense of this lady, if there were no bbws on fab the selection of ladies would be very limited, it's already a sausage fest as it is
Have to say I've never seen fab as a sausage fest because I'm not in competition with any other man for a start
Also since when did helping someone / anyone thats feeling upset by Internet trolls become a wrong thing to do because other trolls call you a white Knight for doing it
Bog .. your not wrong
At the same time , your labeling others that don't think like you as trolls ... thats a pretty troll like thing to do
Not that they think differently to me...after all we all have different opinions
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"I like to think that the variety of tastes means there is a variety of beauty.
My sister in law is a size 8, slim, box ticking sorta woman. I'd be afraid I'd break her in bed - so having ticked all the populist boxes I'd still not want the ride from her. Now when theres a bit of cushion for pushin', well thats a woman worth undressing ??
Never mind she is married to your brother ???
There's that too but what I mean is if I met her and we were both single "
Nice save |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I got messages asking would I not work on getting rid of my mammy tummy .. No ...Feck Off I've 3 scars proud of them .. just call me Mrs Zoro .. to posh 2 push  |
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By *addubMan 45 weeks ago
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I can't see anything wrong with your body I think you are very sexy. Ignore any asshole that tries to bodyshame you.
Be yourself is the best advice I can give. If they don't like you for who you are move on .
They obviously have nothing better to do.
You enjoy yourself and f the assholes can go f##k themselves.
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By *addubMan 45 weeks ago
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"I know I’m not a skinny girl but am getting a lot of body sharing messages lately. Has anyone else experienced the same?
Jen, just enjoy the fact that they’ve shown their true self straightaway and you had the power to reject what they say and not waste any time on them.
We all love different looks and body shapes and I’m sure there’s lots on here who would love to get their hands on your gorgeous body "
This is very true jen I'm hoping you can put my name to the top of your list.
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I know I’m not a skinny girl but am getting a lot of body sharing messages lately. Has anyone else experienced the same?
At times in the past, I have. It hurts, and it's a pure dick move. However, as I've grown, I've come to accept that people who resort to body shaming are generally complete pricks anyway."
Anybody that does body shame anyone else is an asshole. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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People that body shame .. would you like anyone body shaming your loved one? I got horrible messages calling me crosed eyed yes I've a lazy eye do I like it no .. it can't be helped I'm to old my parents hadn't the money to help to straighten it |
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"People that body shame .. would you like anyone body shaming your loved one? I got horrible messages calling me crosed eyed yes I've a lazy eye do I like it no .. it can't be helped I'm to old my parents hadn't the money to help to straighten it "
Wtf that’s such and asshole thing to do or say about anyone what an absolute bellend |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"People that body shame .. would you like anyone body shaming your loved one? I got horrible messages calling me crosed eyed yes I've a lazy eye do I like it no .. it can't be helped I'm to old my parents hadn't the money to help to straighten it
Wtf that’s such and asshole thing to do or say about anyone what an absolute bellend "
Hence why I don't send a face pic.. I prefer my humour.. put a bag over my face lol or a eye patch |
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"People that body shame .. would you like anyone body shaming your loved one? I got horrible messages calling me crosed eyed yes I've a lazy eye do I like it no .. it can't be helped I'm to old my parents hadn't the money to help to straighten it
Wtf that’s such and asshole thing to do or say about anyone what an absolute bellend
Hence why I don't send a face pic.. I prefer my humour.. put a bag over my face lol or a eye patch "
See I would do that anyway more kinkyer lol , we could do some pirate role play lol , I’ll wear one too and have a peg leg lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"People that body shame .. would you like anyone body shaming your loved one? I got horrible messages calling me crosed eyed yes I've a lazy eye do I like it no .. it can't be helped I'm to old my parents hadn't the money to help to straighten it
Wtf that’s such and asshole thing to do or say about anyone what an absolute bellend
Hence why I don't send a face pic.. I prefer my humour.. put a bag over my face lol or a eye patch
See I would do that anyway more kinkyer lol , we could do some pirate role play lol , I’ll wear one too and have a peg leg lol "
Lol love it .. thank you I'm just been honest .. goodnight all x lou .. chat tomorrow |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"People that body shame .. would you like anyone body shaming your loved one? I got horrible messages calling me crosed eyed yes I've a lazy eye do I like it no .. it can't be helped I'm to old my parents hadn't the money to help to straighten it "
Christ Lou… looking at your pics , I’m surprised the creepy fuckers could focus on your eyes.. I’d struggle, I know I’m a perv  |
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"People that body shame .. would you like anyone body shaming your loved one? I got horrible messages calling me crosed eyed yes I've a lazy eye do I like it no .. it can't be helped I'm to old my parents hadn't the money to help to straighten it
Wtf that’s such and asshole thing to do or say about anyone what an absolute bellend
Hence why I don't send a face pic.. I prefer my humour.. put a bag over my face lol or a eye patch
See I would do that anyway more kinkyer lol , we could do some pirate role play lol , I’ll wear one too and have a peg leg lol
Lol love it .. thank you I'm just been honest .. goodnight all x lou .. chat tomorrow "
No worries at all that’s an invite too  lmao night x |
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