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Does anyone else find this terminology uncomfortable? I see it being bandied about fab a lot, almost as if it borders upon paedophilic connotations, I know little kids that say this to their fathers, are there any other phrases or words exclusive to fab that you might find uncomfortable? |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"It’s the ultimate ick
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Massively … but horses for courses, and I guess some people can compartmentalise better than others.. (shrugs in what the fuck would I know?)
But for me , ick |
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By *j47Man 46 weeks ago
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I didnt mind her calling me daddy so much but when she asked to be called mommy i just lost it 
I dont think its any thing related to peadophilia its the same as a woman calling a guy sir or a guy using mistress its role play. I woukdn't ask for it but it has being said  |
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"Does anyone else find this terminology uncomfortable? I see it being bandied about fab a lot, almost as if it borders upon paedophilic connotations, I know little kids that say this to their fathers, are there any other phrases or words exclusive to fab that you might find uncomfortable? "
I see it being bandied about fab a lot, almost as if it borders upon paedophilic connotations
Can you clarify please?
Do you mean that you see people use it on fab with these connotations? or you perceive it this way ? |
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It has become fetishised. I think those who use this language dont mean it as "father". Daddy is used in music, particularly also in American rap culture. The word itself can mean lots of things depending on how its interpreted. No one ever called me daddy in a sexual sense. I think if they did, everything would come to a complete full stop. |
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By *ingletWoman 46 weeks ago
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I refer to my partner as daddy but always careful to say his good or best girl never his little girl and I don't use the term with other guys and I've been asked more than once if I was looking for a new daddy |
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By *astelloWoman 46 weeks ago
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"Those who like to be called daddy in the bed, need therapy and castration not more sex…
Surly by that logic the same would apply to anyone using the word baby in bed ? "
That's actually a fair point. Probably like most derived from American song and slang.
Bit like the earlier forum post on honey, babes, babe, hun... |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Those who like to be called daddy in the bed, need therapy and castration not more sex…
Surly by that logic the same would apply to anyone using the word baby in bed ?
That's actually a fair point. Probably like most derived from American song and slang.
Bit like the earlier forum post on honey, babes, babe, hun... "
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By *ustBoWoman 46 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I wrote a longish post about this then thought nah can't be arsed. The highlights were no it's not my thing at all but I don't see the need to kink shame those that enjoy it when it's consentual,and from what I've seen on here ddlg is a fairly popular kink. |
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Fab is meant to be opened minded place kink shaming isn't cool. The Daddy dynamic isn't about the person being your Father it's them acting in a protective role. People wrongly assume daddy kinks are with the thought of having daddy issues or having a wholly unsuitable relationship with someone's father.
In fact, this form of fantasy has nothing to do with such relationships but rather symbolizes a BDSM practice tied specifically to the concept of a person's dominant presence over the sub person.
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"Fab is meant to be opened minded place kink shaming isn't cool. The Daddy dynamic isn't about the person being your Father it's them acting in a protective role. People wrongly assume daddy kinks are with the thought of having daddy issues or having a wholly unsuitable relationship with someone's father.
In fact, this form of fantasy has nothing to do with such relationships but rather symbolizes a BDSM practice tied specifically to the concept of a person's dominant presence over the sub person.
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well put rosy
Pedophilia connotations ffs ...  such things have been employed here that honestly.... its pretty shocking.
Worth remembering most if not all assumptions come from our own mind ... other people's words or actions are just catalysts, not causes !!!!!  |
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"Fab is meant to be opened minded place kink shaming isn't cool. The Daddy dynamic isn't about the person being your Father it's them acting in a protective role. People wrongly assume daddy kinks are with the thought of having daddy issues or having a wholly unsuitable relationship with someone's father.
In fact, this form of fantasy has nothing to do with such relationships but rather symbolizes a BDSM practice tied specifically to the concept of a person's dominant presence over the sub person.
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Someone at last speaking sense ! |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Does anyone else find this terminology uncomfortable? I see it being bandied about fab a lot, almost as if it borders upon paedophilic connotations, I know little kids that say this to their fathers, are there any other phrases or words exclusive to fab that you might find uncomfortable? "
"Yo you not gonna see this but your perceived perversion of the word daddy, I think that's stemming from a fear of mortality man"
https://youtu.be/eHn4od3NPpo |
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"Does anyone else find this terminology uncomfortable? I see it being bandied about fab a lot, almost as if it borders upon paedophilic connotations, I know little kids that say this to their fathers, are there any other phrases or words exclusive to fab that you might find uncomfortable?
"Yo you not gonna see this but your perceived perversion of the word daddy, I think that's stemming from a fear of mortality man"
https://youtu.be/eHn4od3NPpo"
Tongue firmly in cheek |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Fab is meant to be opened minded place kink shaming isn't cool. The Daddy dynamic isn't about the person being your Father it's them acting in a protective role. People wrongly assume daddy kinks are with the thought of having daddy issues or having a wholly unsuitable relationship with someone's father.
In fact, this form of fantasy has nothing to do with such relationships but rather symbolizes a BDSM practice tied specifically to the concept of a person's dominant presence over the sub person. "
Cheers Rosy for speaking sense so eloquently. Was quite surprised by the reaction here. A clear lack of understanding. |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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I got a mesg a few weeks ago from a guy asking was I looking for a sugar daddy I asked what's a sugar daddy he replied a man buying pretty ladies gifts, he wanted to buy a new Ireland Jersey he said mine was an old one, I just replied back I'm not pretty and if I want to buy something I'll buy myself .. but thanks .. maybe there's a sugar daddy and someone want to be called daddy? |
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By *ettaManMan 46 weeks ago
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"Fab is meant to be opened minded place kink shaming isn't cool. The Daddy dynamic isn't about the person being your Father it's them acting in a protective role. People wrongly assume daddy kinks are with the thought of having daddy issues or having a wholly unsuitable relationship with someone's father.
In fact, this form of fantasy has nothing to do with such relationships but rather symbolizes a BDSM practice tied specifically to the concept of a person's dominant presence over the sub person.
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Dropping knowledge bombs! |
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"Isnt it called Dom Daddy/Little Girl? Nobody sees anything wrong and sickening with the Little Girl part in that? "
That depends on whether you're reading it as a father daughter situation or a sexy daddy sexy girl situation surely. I personally don't believe that the majority of people who use these terms are using them in a parental type role play. Furthermore I don't believe for 1 second that most people posting in this forum believe that either
which begs the question why make out that it is apparental type role play when clearly it isn't |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"I got a mesg a few weeks ago from a guy asking was I looking for a sugar daddy I asked what's a sugar daddy he replied a man buying pretty ladies gifts, he wanted to buy a new Ireland Jersey he said mine was an old one, I just replied back I'm not pretty and if I want to buy something I'll buy myself .. but thanks .. maybe there's a sugar daddy and someone want to be called daddy? "
Send me on his Fab, I do a great impression of someone who likes nice things… |
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I've found the kink community to be more open-minded and tolerant than the swing community.
I say let people do their thing as long as nobody gets hurt. Don't knock stuff because you know nothing about it. Live and let live etc etc
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Oh dear Thor..... right you lot down the back.... "Daddy" has NOTHING got to do with your actual Parental Father! It derives from the bdsm Daddy Dom role.
It is a term of reference and usually a term given to one who has earned your respect. This person is usually an older mature Male Dominant who acts as a guide to his partner, in private, professional, educational, sexual and every day things. He helps his partner achieve goals, if they have a path they want to persue, the Dom helps them focus on how to achieve that gold, through tasks and gentle reminders and pushing. They show an interest, help and encourage the Sub to become more... yes its usually and older guy and younger Lady, but not always as there are younger Daddy Doms out there too.
So for me personally.....and ive zero parental issues....and im an actual Domme too...if i call you Daddy, its out of respect and it has to be earned and thoes that do get that whispered in their ear by me, are extremely important to me and we have built up a relationship where we respect and value each other.
Where lines get crossed, is people who dont know the above origin and see a Harley Quinn Tshirt with Daddy on it and idiots then think girls are looking to be fucked by their "Daddy" substitute.
And i also see school girl or similar outfits mentioned.... yes this is for role play too but on a mature woman it certainly is not trying to be childish....younger yes... in my case mutton dressed as lamb but its play outfits...same as a maids outfit... do you think of class and position in society when fucking "the help" i wonder?
So if its not for you....so be it...
Again folks, dont kink shame, do better.
Love x
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"Oh dear Thor..... right you lot down the back.... "Daddy" has NOTHING got to do with your actual Parental Father! It derives from the bdsm Daddy Dom role.
It is a term of reference and usually a term given to one who has earned your respect. This person is usually an older mature Male Dominant who acts as a guide to his partner, in private, professional, educational, sexual and every day things. He helps his partner achieve goals, if they have a path they want to persue, the Dom helps them focus on how to achieve that gold, through tasks and gentle reminders and pushing. They show an interest, help and encourage the Sub to become more... yes its usually and older guy and younger Lady, but not always as there are younger Daddy Doms out there too.
So for me personally.....and ive zero parental issues....and im an actual Domme too...if i call you Daddy, its out of respect and it has to be earned and thoes that do get that whispered in their ear by me, are extremely important to me and we have built up a relationship where we respect and value each other.
Where lines get crossed, is people who dont know the above origin and see a Harley Quinn Tshirt with Daddy on it and idiots then think girls are looking to be fucked by their "Daddy" substitute.
And i also see school girl or similar outfits mentioned.... yes this is for role play too but on a mature woman it certainly is not trying to be childish....younger yes... in my case mutton dressed as lamb but its play outfits...same as a maids outfit... do you think of class and position in society when fucking "the help" i wonder?
So if its not for you....so be it...
Again folks, dont kink shame, do better.
Love x
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Thank you. I knew a little but now I know more.
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"Oh dear Thor..... right you lot down the back.... "Daddy" has NOTHING got to do with your actual Parental Father! It derives from the bdsm Daddy Dom role.
It is a term of reference and usually a term given to one who has earned your respect. This person is usually an older mature Male Dominant who acts as a guide to his partner, in private, professional, educational, sexual and every day things. He helps his partner achieve goals, if they have a path they want to persue, the Dom helps them focus on how to achieve that gold, through tasks and gentle reminders and pushing. They show an interest, help and encourage the Sub to become more... yes its usually and older guy and younger Lady, but not always as there are younger Daddy Doms out there too.
So for me personally.....and ive zero parental issues....and im an actual Domme too...if i call you Daddy, its out of respect and it has to be earned and thoes that do get that whispered in their ear by me, are extremely important to me and we have built up a relationship where we respect and value each other.
Where lines get crossed, is people who dont know the above origin and see a Harley Quinn Tshirt with Daddy on it and idiots then think girls are looking to be fucked by their "Daddy" substitute.
And i also see school girl or similar outfits mentioned.... yes this is for role play too but on a mature woman it certainly is not trying to be childish....younger yes... in my case mutton dressed as lamb but its play outfits...same as a maids outfit... do you think of class and position in society when fucking "the help" i wonder?
So if its not for you....so be it...
Again folks, dont kink shame, do better.
Love x
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Great response and very inciteful. Have to admit I was aware of Daddy issue but only now know more |
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By *anandJCouple 46 weeks ago
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"Oh dear Thor..... right you lot down the back.... "Daddy" has NOTHING got to do with your actual Parental Father! It derives from the bdsm Daddy Dom role.
It is a term of reference and usually a term given to one who has earned your respect. This person is usually an older mature Male Dominant who acts as a guide to his partner, in private, professional, educational, sexual and every day things. He helps his partner achieve goals, if they have a path they want to persue, the Dom helps them focus on how to achieve that gold, through tasks and gentle reminders and pushing. They show an interest, help and encourage the Sub to become more... yes its usually and older guy and younger Lady, but not always as there are younger Daddy Doms out there too.
So for me personally.....and ive zero parental issues....and im an actual Domme too...if i call you Daddy, its out of respect and it has to be earned and thoes that do get that whispered in their ear by me, are extremely important to me and we have built up a relationship where we respect and value each other.
Where lines get crossed, is people who dont know the above origin and see a Harley Quinn Tshirt with Daddy on it and idiots then think girls are looking to be fucked by their "Daddy" substitute.
And i also see school girl or similar outfits mentioned.... yes this is for role play too but on a mature woman it certainly is not trying to be childish....younger yes... in my case mutton dressed as lamb but its play outfits...same as a maids outfit... do you think of class and position in society when fucking "the help" i wonder?
So if its not for you....so be it...
Again folks, dont kink shame, do better.
Love x
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It’s not about who you call that and why. It’s about why from the language that has about 1 million words, you decided to use one that is used by toddlers and kids to call their dad.
It’s not kink shaming. It’s a call for common sense. |
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"Oh dear Thor..... right you lot down the back.... "Daddy" has NOTHING got to do with your actual Parental Father! It derives from the bdsm Daddy Dom role.
It is a term of reference and usually a term given to one who has earned your respect. This person is usually an older mature Male Dominant who acts as a guide to his partner, in private, professional, educational, sexual and every day things. He helps his partner achieve goals, if they have a path they want to persue, the Dom helps them focus on how to achieve that gold, through tasks and gentle reminders and pushing. They show an interest, help and encourage the Sub to become more... yes its usually and older guy and younger Lady, but not always as there are younger Daddy Doms out there too.
So for me personally.....and ive zero parental issues....and im an actual Domme too...if i call you Daddy, its out of respect and it has to be earned and thoes that do get that whispered in their ear by me, are extremely important to me and we have built up a relationship where we respect and value each other.
Where lines get crossed, is people who dont know the above origin and see a Harley Quinn Tshirt with Daddy on it and idiots then think girls are looking to be fucked by their "Daddy" substitute.
And i also see school girl or similar outfits mentioned.... yes this is for role play too but on a mature woman it certainly is not trying to be childish....younger yes... in my case mutton dressed as lamb but its play outfits...same as a maids outfit... do you think of class and position in society when fucking "the help" i wonder?
So if its not for you....so be it...
Again folks, dont kink shame, do better.
Love x
It’s not about who you call that and why. It’s about why from the language that has about 1 million words, you decided to use one that is used by toddlers and kids to call their dad.
It’s not kink shaming. It’s a call for common sense. "
It's 100% kink shaming. As explained above the word daddy is used in many other contexts that don't include fatherhood.
You may find it distasteful and that's fine but coming in here and shouting from the rooftop that it's just plain wrong is out of order.
Shame on the lot of you.
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By *oghunter33Woman 46 weeks ago
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Not my thing but I understand it's a kink. Each on their own.
It's easy to see how it evokes the wrong associations and therefore quickly prejudged if pushed out there without explanation and context. |
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"Oh dear Thor..... right you lot down the back.... "Daddy" has NOTHING got to do with your actual Parental Father! It derives from the bdsm Daddy Dom role.
It is a term of reference and usually a term given to one who has earned your respect. This person is usually an older mature Male Dominant who acts as a guide to his partner, in private, professional, educational, sexual and every day things. He helps his partner achieve goals, if they have a path they want to persue, the Dom helps them focus on how to achieve that gold, through tasks and gentle reminders and pushing. They show an interest, help and encourage the Sub to become more... yes its usually and older guy and younger Lady, but not always as there are younger Daddy Doms out there too.
So for me personally.....and ive zero parental issues....and im an actual Domme too...if i call you Daddy, its out of respect and it has to be earned and thoes that do get that whispered in their ear by me, are extremely important to me and we have built up a relationship where we respect and value each other.
Where lines get crossed, is people who dont know the above origin and see a Harley Quinn Tshirt with Daddy on it and idiots then think girls are looking to be fucked by their "Daddy" substitute.
And i also see school girl or similar outfits mentioned.... yes this is for role play too but on a mature woman it certainly is not trying to be childish....younger yes... in my case mutton dressed as lamb but its play outfits...same as a maids outfit... do you think of class and position in society when fucking "the help" i wonder?
So if its not for you....so be it...
Again folks, dont kink shame, do better.
Love x
It’s not about who you call that and why. It’s about why from the language that has about 1 million words, you decided to use one that is used by toddlers and kids to call their dad.
It’s not kink shaming. It’s a call for common sense. "
It is 100% kink shaming.
It has nothing to do with children and their parents.
People here need to educate themselves. |
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AND THIS IS WHY WE LOVE YA X
"Fab is meant to be opened minded place kink shaming isn't cool. The Daddy dynamic isn't about the person being your Father it's them acting in a protective role. People wrongly assume daddy kinks are with the thought of having daddy issues or having a wholly unsuitable relationship with someone's father.
In fact, this form of fantasy has nothing to do with such relationships but rather symbolizes a BDSM practice tied specifically to the concept of a person's dominant presence over the sub person.
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"Almost all man saying it makes them sick.
Would be interested in seeing how many of these would say no if a woman ever messaged them and asked them would they be interested. "
I've had it said over phone sex. It's a little bit more popular in other countries. I just said not that thanks and we carried on.
It didn't make me sick. Just a hard pass on the erotometer |
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"Almost all man saying it makes them sick.
Would be interested in seeing how many of these would say no if a woman ever messaged them and asked them would they be interested. "
I can't say it bothers me in the slightest.
I'm not so silly as to believe that fantasy role play is some sort of deep insight into the workings of the horny human mind.
It's escapism for some people. Nothing more, nothing less. |
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It’s actually so wrong. The first I’d heard of it was with a fab female. She started calling me daddy. I didn’t know what was going on. All I can say is there was no round 2. I couldn’t wait to get out of there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 46 weeks ago
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"It’s actually so wrong. The first I’d heard of it was with a fab female. She started calling me daddy. I didn’t know what was going on. All I can say is there was no round 2. I couldn’t wait to get out of there"
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Here here and a great response to this thread..as someone who straddles both the fab and kink community like so many others here it's gorgeous to see and hear an understanding of the real true protective/caring and even nurturing side of it. |
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"It’s actually so wrong. The first I’d heard of it was with a fab female. She started calling me daddy. I didn’t know what was going on. All I can say is there was no round 2. I couldn’t wait to get out of there"
I hope that particular Fab female doesn't read the forums. We all have different kinks just because it's not for you doesn't mean you have to shame someone for it. |
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"Oh dear Thor..... right you lot down the back.... "Daddy" has NOTHING got to do with your actual Parental Father! It derives from the bdsm Daddy Dom role.
It is a term of reference and usually a term given to one who has earned your respect. This person is usually an older mature Male Dominant who acts as a guide to his partner, in private, professional, educational, sexual and every day things. He helps his partner achieve goals, if they have a path they want to persue, the Dom helps them focus on how to achieve that gold, through tasks and gentle reminders and pushing. They show an interest, help and encourage the Sub to become more... yes its usually and older guy and younger Lady, but not always as there are younger Daddy Doms out there too.
So for me personally.....and ive zero parental issues....and im an actual Domme too...if i call you Daddy, its out of respect and it has to be earned and thoes that do get that whispered in their ear by me, are extremely important to me and we have built up a relationship where we respect and value each other.
Where lines get crossed, is people who dont know the above origin and see a Harley Quinn Tshirt with Daddy on it and idiots then think girls are looking to be fucked by their "Daddy" substitute.
And i also see school girl or similar outfits mentioned.... yes this is for role play too but on a mature woman it certainly is not trying to be childish....younger yes... in my case mutton dressed as lamb but its play outfits...same as a maids outfit... do you think of class and position in society when fucking "the help" i wonder?
So if its not for you....so be it...
Again folks, dont kink shame, do better.
Love x
It’s not about who you call that and why. It’s about why from the language that has about 1 million words, you decided to use one that is used by toddlers and kids to call their dad.
It’s not kink shaming. It’s a call for common sense. "
What about the use of the word baby then ?
Or pet ? Or any word that is used in another context ?? |
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If I got a euro for everytime someone asked me if I was a Daddys Girl my piggy bank would be full. Its not for everyone that's true but who am I to judge. And if it is someone's kink I do hope they indsomeone to share it with and not feel ashamed. Just my general feeling on the matter. |
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By *affa31Woman 46 weeks ago
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Do those of you who think it’s disgusting have the same reaction to the term babygirl or baby?
It’s ok not to be into it but it’s not ok to kink shame when there is no harm being done.
Don’t yuck anyones yum |
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By *ub_TMan 46 weeks ago
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I thought about this overnight…..
I don’t see any issue with it myself and each to their own.
At the velocity the downward direction his country is already going with ridiculous rules / laws & opinions, we’re on the way back into the dark ages !
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"Do those of you who think it’s disgusting have the same reaction to the term babygirl or baby?
It’s ok not to be into it but it’s not ok to kink shame when there is no harm being done.
Don’t yuck anyones yum "
Exactly this, I don't need approval of my kinks but I also don't feel anyone should be kink shamed. |
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"Does anyone else find this terminology uncomfortable? I see it being bandied about fab a lot, almost as if it borders upon paedophilic connotations, I know little kids that say this to their fathers, are there any other phrases or words exclusive to fab that you might find uncomfortable? "
The P word makes me uncomfortable. That you would jump to that rather than role-play, taboo or another kink is a bit of a leap. |
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"Fab is meant to be opened minded place kink shaming isn't cool. The Daddy dynamic isn't about the person being your Father it's them acting in a protective role. People wrongly assume daddy kinks are with the thought of having daddy issues or having a wholly unsuitable relationship with someone's father.
In fact, this form of fantasy has nothing to do with such relationships but rather symbolizes a BDSM practice tied specifically to the concept of a person's dominant presence over the sub person. Love this perfectly sums it up.
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Jesus the level of judgment on an "open minded non judgmental" site exasperates me. Its not for some ok scroll on by there really isn't a need to shame those that do. I'm sure many have kinks/fetish they wouldn't like to be shamed about. Live and let live people. Peace,love and all that jazz.
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By *panishRebelMan 43 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
Just read through the whole thread. Never seen such a division on Fab.
Interesting how the immediate association of some is that of paedophilia. I wouldn't have thought of that even though being called Daddy in a sex situation is not what I would look for.... But I would think it was obvious that it would not be paedophilic.
I am not a roll player and don't have an attraction for it. But out of curiosity I have asked questions of friends and acquaintances who like it, or more precisely need it. There is a whole therapeutic aspect to it as well as just plain old fantasy.
So for me it would be a no, but I would be careful not to ick those who do love and use the term Daddy, cause I love my babies! |
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"The school girl costume creeps me out a small bit. Think it's up there with the Daddy thing for me anyway.
100% weird as fuck "
Mmmmmm dont knock it till you've tried it bet you look dead cute in tartan!!!!
Its like the "Dom Uniform" of White Shirt Tie(in hand, round the neck) Suit/jacket....not as if most dress like that daily...
Its dress up!!! Lol
Seriously guys..... relax.... its not as if guys are perving outside school gates lol
Or are they???? Lol
I dress up in everything and nothing.... im comfortable in being me and love seeing the person(s) im with, smile when i come out wearing god knows what and we have a giggle or i get a spank on the arse and called a good girl.... its all FUN...not real...
So not world ending stuff... 
As they say..... you do you. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"The school girl costume creeps me out a small bit. Think it's up there with the Daddy thing for me anyway.
100% weird as fuck
Mmmmmm dont knock it till you've tried it bet you look dead cute in tartan!!!!
Its like the "Dom Uniform" of White Shirt Tie(in hand, round the neck) Suit/jacket....not as if most dress like that daily...
Its dress up!!! Lol
Seriously guys..... relax.... its not as if guys are perving outside school gates lol
Or are they???? Lol
I dress up in everything and nothing.... im comfortable in being me and love seeing the person(s) im with, smile when i come out wearing god knows what and we have a giggle or i get a spank on the arse and called a good girl.... its all FUN...not real...
So not world ending stuff...
As they say..... you do you."
I'm not knocking anyone's kink just not my thing
Seeing as we invented the kilt I've got one in the wardrobe if you're interested? In the middle ages the English were horrified by how much leg the Savage Irish men showed |
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"The school girl costume creeps me out a small bit. Think it's up there with the Daddy thing for me anyway.
100% weird as fuck
Mmmmmm dont knock it till you've tried it bet you look dead cute in tartan!!!!
Its like the "Dom Uniform" of White Shirt Tie(in hand, round the neck) Suit/jacket....not as if most dress like that daily...
Its dress up!!! Lol
Seriously guys..... relax.... its not as if guys are perving outside school gates lol
Or are they???? Lol
I dress up in everything and nothing.... im comfortable in being me and love seeing the person(s) im with, smile when i come out wearing god knows what and we have a giggle or i get a spank on the arse and called a good girl.... its all FUN...not real...
So not world ending stuff...
As they say..... you do you.
I'm not knocking anyone's kink just not my thing
Seeing as we invented the kilt I've got one in the wardrobe if you're interested? In the middle ages the English were horrified by how much leg the Savage Irish men showed "
For me to wear or you??? Lol  |
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You can call me whatever you want, with your mouth full or not.
If you want me to call you anything, just ask. Personally it can be very erotic and usually let's you know that the lady is submissive, and willing to please you, but you're playing the role SHE wants.This in itself heightens my pleasure and theirs, so it's a win win.
Other times I'm kinda thinking of Ray Winstone in some movie shouting "who's the fuckin' daddy!"
It's all fun and games , but if some people are creeped out by it then you gotta respect that, but it goes both ways.
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"Jesus the level of judgment on an "open minded non judgmental" site exasperates me. Its not for some ok scroll on by there really isn't a need to shame those that do. I'm sure many have kinks/fetish they wouldn't like to be shamed about. Live and let live people. Peace,love and all that jazz.
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Thats the thing about fab ... its always open non judgmental unless you don't think like everyone else
Guys use the word daddy or baby or whatever ya want fuck the rest ... they just have a twisted interpretation |
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"From..
100% weird as fuck
To..
I'm not knocking anyone's kink just not my thing
Hahahah this. Fella backed down straight away. "
Ah, maybe he took a look at himself, self reflected, and learned something today? |
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"From..
100% weird as fuck
To..
I'm not knocking anyone's kink just not my thing
Hahahah this. Fella backed down straight away.
Ah, maybe he took a look at himself, self reflected, and learned something today?"
Or else he might have just happened to have stumbled across my "tartan school girl for Daddy outfit picture" in my reply .....and on my profile... lol
Cant blame him as I look great...lol... now I just need a Daddy to complete the gross out on here.... |
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"From..
100% weird as fuck
To..
I'm not knocking anyone's kink just not my thing
Hahahah this. Fella backed down straight away.
Ah, maybe he took a look at himself, self reflected, and learned something today?"
Nice way to see it |
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"Fab is meant to be opened minded place kink shaming isn't cool. The Daddy dynamic isn't about the person being your Father it's them acting in a protective role. People wrongly assume daddy kinks are with the thought of having daddy issues or having a wholly unsuitable relationship with someone's father.
In fact, this form of fantasy has nothing to do with such relationships but rather symbolizes a BDSM practice tied specifically to the concept of a person's dominant presence over the sub person.
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Correct. It's role play and my partner gets of on it .. It's not everybodies thing but to judge others on it is small minded just because it's, not ur thing... |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"You can call me whatever you want, with your mouth full or not.
If you want me to call you anything, just ask. Personally it can be very erotic and usually let's you know that the lady is submissive, and willing to please you, but you're playing the role SHE wants.This in itself heightens my pleasure and theirs, so it's a win win.
Other times I'm kinda thinking of Ray Winstone in some movie shouting "who's the fuckin' daddy!"
It's all fun and games , but if some people are creeped out by it then you gotta respect that, but it goes both ways.
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This. I’m a submissive, and I call my Dom “Daddy” depending on the mood and where we are and who else is playing with us. Some days he’s Sir and some days Master !!Yucking someone’s yum should not be okay, especially on this site lol |
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By *rRiosMan 25 weeks ago
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"You can call me whatever you want, with your mouth full or not.
If you want me to call you anything, just ask. Personally it can be very erotic and usually let's you know that the lady is submissive, and willing to please you, but you're playing the role SHE wants.This in itself heightens my pleasure and theirs, so it's a win win.
Other times I'm kinda thinking of Ray Winstone in some movie shouting "who's the fuckin' daddy!"
It's all fun and games , but if some people are creeped out by it then you gotta respect that, but it goes both ways.
This. I’m a submissive, and I call my Dom “Daddy” depending on the mood and where we are and who else is playing with us. Some days he’s Sir and some days Master !!Yucking someone’s yum should not be okay, especially on this site lol"
Don’t be yuckin’ anyones yum’s for goodness sake! |
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In fairness a lot of people who are not into the kink lifestyle and have no knowledge of the Daddy Dom dynamic will simply have seen American porn stars screaming Fuck me Daddy! with no context.
Doesn't have to be about yucking someone else's yums. Knowledge and context is everything.
I got called Daddy for no reason whatsoever by someone and it was
Yuck. |
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"In fairness a lot of people who are not into the kink lifestyle and have no knowledge of the Daddy Dom dynamic will simply have seen American porn stars screaming Fuck me Daddy! with no context.
Doesn't have to be about yucking someone else's yums. Knowledge and context is everything.
I got called Daddy for no reason whatsoever by someone and it was
Yuck."
Got to agree. Fetish kink isn't something that should be snuck into play without prediscussion. That's asking for trouble. Kinks need to be aligned with both parties. |
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I like to call my hubby daddy, but I throw a little ‘zz’ in there so it’s dzzaddy. Good thing too, I could be accused of something terrible otherwise 
