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The cheating wife / girlfriend
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I’m not saying ever guy but most guys find this a massive turn on. The extra risk and the extra excitement and adrenaline having a woman who promised herself to another use you for her sexually satisfaction she isn’t getting from home. Her man unknowingly being a cuckold.
I see on a lot of woman's profiles “ no attached men” and this is completely fair each to there own but just curious is there many woman that find it as much as turn on as men?
Note: apologies of any misspellings or bad grammar. ( I know there is a lot of teachers on this and they have a lot of free time on their hands at the moment lol ) |
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Missus here. I find cheating gross any way you put it.
Spouse or a partner who have been cheated on isn't a cuckold. They're betrayed on every level.
Cuckold is a person who knows about it, is into it and have knowingly consented to it.
Please don't mix those two terms up. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Each to their own here but cheating for me is a no no, if a person wants to cheat ..hey knock yourself out..there is of course the people that will say they're not attached or married but they are but the other person thinks they're not simply because they've been told ..what does a person do then ?..He or she is fucking a person they think are single but the reality is they're not..  |
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A cheating spouse isn't a turn for me.
I've read a lot of discussions on fab and the points of view and lived experience are myriad. I'm the end, for better or worse, we all reap what we sow. It's just so sad when everyone else in the family has to reap that whirlwind too. |
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By *eijaWoman 40 weeks ago
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"A cheating spouse isn't a turn for me.
I've read a lot of discussions on fab and the points of view and lived experience are myriad. I'm the end, for better or worse, we all reap what we sow. It's just so sad when everyone else in the family has to reap that whirlwind too."
Exactly this! 
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"Missus here. I find cheating gross any way you put it.
Spouse or a partner who have been cheated on isn't a cuckold. They're betrayed on every level.
Cuckold is a person who knows about it, is into it and have knowingly consented to it.
Please don't mix those two terms up. "
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I think people are overthinking it too much... It's everyone's choice and if someone has a kick out of it, that's fine, although it might be indicative of some other issues, but...
I do not think that 'married kink' is as common as some might think.
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I think a shared wife or girlfriend is a lot hotter than a cheating one tbh. Less pressure and heartache. Cheating means problems and problems are not fun. |
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"I think a shared wife or girlfriend is a lot hotter than a cheating one tbh. Less pressure and heartache. Cheating means problems and problems are not fun. "
I agree with this. Half the fun of swinging is 'taking' another's spouse but it is done ethically i.e. with their full knowledge and blessing.
I wonder if some people here know what swinging is at all  |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Definitely not a turn on for me anyway,
I can't say it's not a fantasy,
but in reality I not willingly up for putting myself in a position in activity that's potentially damaging to other people, and in the end myself if it were to be found out . |
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"I’m not saying ever guy but most guys find this a massive turn on. The extra risk and the extra excitement and adrenaline having a woman who promised herself to another use you for her sexually satisfaction she isn’t getting from home. Her man unknowingly being a cuckold.
I see on a lot of woman's profiles “ no attached men” and this is completely fair each to there own but just curious is there many woman that find it as much as turn on as men?
Note: apologies of any misspellings or bad grammar. ( I know there is a lot of teachers on this and they have a lot of free time on their hands at the moment lol ) "
I wouldn't think it is most me ffs |
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By *panishRebelMan 40 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"I’m not saying ever guy but most guys find this a massive turn on. The extra risk and the extra excitement and adrenaline having a woman who promised herself to another use you for her sexually satisfaction she isn’t getting from home. Her man unknowingly being a cuckold.
I see on a lot of woman's profiles “ no attached men” and this is completely fair each to there own but just curious is there many woman that find it as much as turn on as men?
Note: apologies of any misspellings or bad grammar. ( I know there is a lot of teachers on this and they have a lot of free time on their hands at the moment lol ) "
Asley Madison is the site for this. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Missus here. I find cheating gross any way you put it.
Spouse or a partner who have been cheated on isn't a cuckold. They're betrayed on every level.
Cuckold is a person who knows about it, is into it and have knowingly consented to it.
Please don't mix those two terms up. "
I think you’re in the wrong place if you’re looking for a site with morals! |
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By *panishRebelMan 40 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"I’m not saying ever guy but most guys find this a massive turn on. The extra risk and the extra excitement and adrenaline having a woman who promised herself to another use you for her sexually satisfaction she isn’t getting from home. Her man unknowingly being a cuckold.
I see on a lot of woman's profiles “ no attached men” and this is completely fair each to there own but just curious is there many woman that find it as much as turn on as men?
Note: apologies of any misspellings or bad grammar. ( I know there is a lot of teachers on this and they have a lot of free time on their hands at the moment lol )
Asley Madison is the site for this. "
But really, what attracted me to fab and other swinger sites, was the openness and honesty of things. You say what you are into and so does everyone else. Then if you overlap you see if it works. No cheating required. Satisfaction possible. |
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"Missus here. I find cheating gross any way you put it.
Spouse or a partner who have been cheated on isn't a cuckold. They're betrayed on every level.
Cuckold is a person who knows about it, is into it and have knowingly consented to it.
Please don't mix those two terms up.
I think you’re in the wrong place if you’re looking for a site with morals! "
I think you're in a wrong place if you believe that people on here no better than dogs on heat, just eager to shag anythithing that has a pulse and set of genitals.
Thankfully on our fab journey we've met hundreds of really decent, moral, respectful people.
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By *itlbeeCouple 40 weeks ago
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No interest in cheaters at all, definitely a turn off.
There's also a lot of practical reasons to avoid cheaters.
People who are attached and hiding it are going to be flaky and inconsistent in their availability. They are way less likely to get regular STI tests, since their spouse finding out about it would raise suspicions.
And also you're putting yourself in the cross hairs of an angry spouse!
There are plenty of ethically non monogamous people, so no reason at all to entertain cheaters. |
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