Was chatting someone this week about, without knowing someone character wise as that takes time, what initially attracts you to someone across a room or in a crowd that you are in.
An interesting answer was if someone seemed unobtainable.
I presume that is like a challenge and that can be exciting.
What’s yours go too feature of attraction of someone fully clothed in your eye line that makes you go hmmmm, maybe!  |
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A tall, good looking, mature man with a great body would probably initially pique my interest, but it's how he holds himself and interacts with others that would make my gaze linger longer - a casual confidence, an easy smile, and a genuine interest in those he's with |
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"A tall, good looking, mature man with a great body would probably initially pique my interest, but it's how he holds himself and interacts with others that would make my gaze linger longer - a casual confidence, an easy smile, and a genuine interest in those he's with"
Yes to all of the above! A guy who is just himself, is interested in, and enjoys interacting with others is quite attractive  |
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You cannot achieve the unachievable.
You cannot deny the undeniable.
You cannot fathom the unfathomable.
And you can never obtain the unobtainable.
Know your limits.
Play to your strengths.
Seize the moment.
Live your best life and you will have obtained everything that is due to you. |
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"Yes men’s bums do seem to come up a lot when I’m talking to females about their attraction to men 
The smile is better though!!    if it has a good ass attached to it "
Ha ha the guys like to look at a girls boobs, us girls like to look at bums or legs!! What can I say but the smile and personality wins!! |
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"Yes men’s bums do seem to come up a lot when I’m talking to females about their attraction to men
The smile is better though!! if it has a good ass attached to it
Ha ha the guys like to look at a girls boobs, us girls like to look at bums or legs!! What can I say but the smile and personality wins!!"
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Remind me not to walk ahead of you on our next fab hike.... |
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"Yes men’s bums do seem to come up a lot when I’m talking to females about their attraction to men
The smile is better though!! if it has a good ass attached to it
Ha ha the guys like to look at a girls boobs, us girls like to look at bums or legs!! What can I say but the smile and personality wins!!
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Remind me not to walk ahead of you on our next fab hike...."
Walk like an Egyptian!!! |
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"If someone thinks they are unobtainable. I think they should stay that way.A big ego is a big turnoff to me."
I don’t think it’s about them thinking it about themselves, it about the person looking at them thinking they are. That may be an even more confusing explanation  |
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If we’re talking about a social/m&g, it would be someone who makes the effort to chat to lots of people, even people they’re not sexually interested in. A guy that’s having a laugh with people rather than on the prowl. They’re the guys that I hope one of us will catch the other giving a lingering glance and a little smile.
Obviously a good beard helps  |
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"If we’re talking about a social/m&g, it would be someone who makes the effort to chat to lots of people, even people they’re not sexually interested in. A guy that’s having a laugh with people rather than on the prowl. They’re the guys that I hope one of us will catch the other giving a lingering glance and a little smile.
Obviously a good beard helps "
Beards are nice, some people really suit their beard!!! |
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Sometimes a nicely trimmed beard, good conversationalist, polite, and reasonably ok looking still doesn't do it.
Some people make up their minds that you are not their cup of tea without ever actually getting to know you.
If you find yourself left out of the circle, "walk" away and find your own tribe.
Don't depend on others to make things happen for you....create your own opportunities.
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"Sometimes a nicely trimmed beard, good conversationalist, polite, and reasonably ok looking still doesn't do it.
Some people make up their minds that you are not their cup of tea without ever actually getting to know you.
If you find yourself left out of the circle, "walk" away and find your own tribe.
Don't depend on others to make things happen for you....create your own opportunities.
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Sometimes you're attracted to somebody straight away, other times it's the case of getting to know somebody a few times through meeting them in person and through messaging on fab, telegram or Kik or whatever other messaging apps your on!!
Don't judge people by their looks, some people can surprise you! Some guys just have the right approach!!
And Badger you're right, you have to find who you're people/tribe are!! That's what's great about the socials and the walking groups, You get to meet new people and you're going to meet up with people you've met a few times before!! Some people you gel with and others you won't!!
It's about making connections!! |
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