We are interested in Bi MMF and hope to meet friendly genuine people.
Often someone's profile says they are straight and they say in our inbox that they aren't, the lack of authenticity is a bit off putting. A lie to start off with is a bad start
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"We are interested in Bi MMF and hope to meet friendly genuine people.
Often someone's profile says they are straight and they say in our inbox that they aren't, the lack of authenticity is a bit off putting. A lie to start off with is a bad start
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never understood why some bi-men feel the need to hide this fact, just put it on your profile!! |
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Hi folks. I am a fully bi man. Ut I find it very hard to find any couples that actually what to meet a bi guy. If you say on your profile that you are bi or bi curious why don't you like to meet any.i find on A lot of profiles where a couple says the woman is bi but the man isn't. Well in my opinion the man must be bi curious to a certain extent to play with both sexs.
So people please be truthful to yourselves.  |
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"Hi folks. I am a fully bi man. Ut I find it very hard to find any couples that actually what to meet a bi guy. If you say on your profile that you are bi or bi curious why don't you like to meet any.i find on A lot of profiles where a couple says the woman is bi but the man isn't. Well in my opinion the man must be bi curious to a certain extent to play with both sexs.
So people please be truthful to yourselves. "
If some couples don't want to meet bi-men...Why would you want to meet them? |
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"Hi folks. I am a fully bi man. Ut I find it very hard to find any couples that actually what to meet a bi guy. If you say on your profile that you are bi or bi curious why don't you like to meet any.i find on A lot of profiles where a couple says the woman is bi but the man isn't. Well in my opinion the man must be bi curious to a certain extent to play with both sexs.
So people please be truthful to yourselves.
If some couples don't want to meet bi-men...Why would you want to meet them?"
precisely...same though for overly persistent straight guys, surely the attraction has to be mutual |
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"Hi folks. I am a fully bi man. Ut I find it very hard to find any couples that actually what to meet a bi guy. If you say on your profile that you are bi or bi curious why don't you like to meet any.i find on A lot of profiles where a couple says the woman is bi but the man isn't. Well in my opinion the man must be bi curious to a certain extent to play with both sexs.
So people please be truthful to yourselves. "
I'm straight and quite happy in group situations with other men. I'm confident and comfortable in my sexuality.
Having sex with men doesn't arouse me at all and I've never felt an emotional connection with another man.
It's pretty condescending to tell other people they must be this or that based on your own bias
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"Hi folks. I am a fully bi man. Ut I find it very hard to find any couples that actually what to meet a bi guy. If you say on your profile that you are bi or bi curious why don't you like to meet any.i find on A lot of profiles where a couple says the woman is bi but the man isn't. Well in my opinion the man must be bi curious to a certain extent to play with both sexs.
So people please be truthful to yourselves.
I'm straight and quite happy in group situations with other men. I'm confident and comfortable in my sexuality.
Having sex with men doesn't arouse me at all and I've never felt an emotional connection with another man.
It's pretty condescending to tell other people they must be this or that based on your own bias
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Don’t think anyone was condescending on this thread, or displayed any bias, in fact it’s because society and this society in particular has come so far that there is no need to keep your sexual preferences “edited”. ppl should be confident and display their preferences |
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"Hi folks. I am a fully bi man. Ut I find it very hard to find any couples that actually what to meet a bi guy. If you say on your profile that you are bi or bi curious why don't you like to meet any.i find on A lot of profiles where a couple says the woman is bi but the man isn't. Well in my opinion the man must be bi curious to a certain extent to play with both sexs.
So people please be truthful to yourselves.
I'm straight and quite happy in group situations with other men. I'm confident and comfortable in my sexuality.
Having sex with men doesn't arouse me at all and I've never felt an emotional connection with another man.
It's pretty condescending to tell other people they must be this or that based on your own bias
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Basically saying that all men that attend parties or take part in MFM are Bi-sexual!...Just not understanding so many other dynamics! |
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"Hi folks. I am a fully bi man. Ut I find it very hard to find any couples that actually what to meet a bi guy. If you say on your profile that you are bi or bi curious why don't you like to meet any.i find on A lot of profiles where a couple says the woman is bi but the man isn't. Well in my opinion the man must be bi curious to a certain extent to play with both sexs.
So people please be truthful to yourselves.
I'm straight and quite happy in group situations with other men. I'm confident and comfortable in my sexuality.
Having sex with men doesn't arouse me at all and I've never felt an emotional connection with another man.
It's pretty condescending to tell other people they must be this or that based on your own bias
Don’t think anyone was condescending on this thread, or displayed any bias, in fact it’s because society and this society in particular has come so far that there is no need to keep your sexual preferences “edited”. ppl should be confident and display their preferences "
You can probably tell from our profile that we agree with not hiding.. but you have to realize how risky that still is, despite how far *some* of society has come..
We've become more educated and aware of differing sexuality and kink but the threat of prejudice and hate and violence is still very real and, in many places, increasing.
We made the choice to be the change we want to see in the world and we welcome others to do the same but many people unfortunately still need to hide themselves and their sexuality.
Their reasons may not always be valid (sometimes their purpose is to deceive) but many times the reasons are genuine and we should be mindful to respect that choice. |
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"Hi folks. I am a fully bi man. Ut I find it very hard to find any couples that actually what to meet a bi guy. If you say on your profile that you are bi or bi curious why don't you like to meet any.i find on A lot of profiles where a couple says the woman is bi but the man isn't. Well in my opinion the man must be bi curious to a certain extent to play with both sexs.
So people please be truthful to yourselves.
I'm straight and quite happy in group situations with other men. I'm confident and comfortable in my sexuality.
Having sex with men doesn't arouse me at all and I've never felt an emotional connection with another man.
It's pretty condescending to tell other people they must be this or that based on your own bias
Don’t think anyone was condescending on this thread, or displayed any bias, in fact it’s because society and this society in particular has come so far that there is no need to keep your sexual preferences “edited”. ppl should be confident and display their preferences
You can probably tell from our profile that we agree with not hiding.. but you have to realize how risky that still is, despite how far *some* of society has come..
We've become more educated and aware of differing sexuality and kink but the threat of prejudice and hate and violence is still very real and, in many places, increasing.
We made the choice to be the change we want to see in the world and we welcome others to do the same but many people unfortunately still need to hide themselves and their sexuality.
Their reasons may not always be valid (sometimes their purpose is to deceive) but many times the reasons are genuine and we should be mindful to respect that choice."
This is the most empathetic and mature take I’ve read here.
Everyone has their own reasons, and if some men are more comfortable choosing not to share their bisexuality/curiosity as standard on their profile, that should be respected. Similarly, if people prefer their play partners to be more transparent, then that is their prerogative too. There’s no real need to have strong opinions on what is in essence just personal preferences. |
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"You can probably tell from our profile that we agree with not hiding.. but you have to realize how risky that still is, despite how far *some* of society has come..
We've become more educated and aware of differing sexuality and kink but the threat of prejudice and hate and violence is still very real and, in many places, increasing.
We made the choice to be the change we want to see in the world and we welcome others to do the same but many people unfortunately still need to hide themselves and their sexuality.
Their reasons may not always be valid (sometimes their purpose is to deceive) but many times the reasons are genuine and we should be mindful to respect that choice."
Absolutely this. Great post and attitude  |
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"We are interested in Bi MMF and hope to meet friendly genuine people.
Often someone's profile says they are straight and they say in our inbox that they aren't, the lack of authenticity is a bit off putting. A lie to start off with is a bad start
never understood why some bi-men feel the need to hide this fact, just put it on your profile!!"
Some guys feel that if they put bi on their profile , it will greatly diminish their chances of meeting single females , there are a lot of guys with straight profiles on fabswingers and bi -profiles on fab guys, then you have the guys who target bi- couples and when they meet , they won’t touch the bi male of the couple . Bi - Fab is a minefield !!!  |
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Often someone's profile says they are straight and they say in our inbox that they aren't, the lack of authenticity is a bit off putting. A lie to start off with is a bad start
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