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Findom - Can someone explain please?
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Hey fabbers,
I came across some Miss/Goddess/xxxx on Twitter. People handover cash to them like mad. Even dudes send them money over revolut.
What's all about it?
What type of pleasure is it?
Can't really understand!
Can someone expert explain please. |
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It's just another fork or Dominance/submission. The sub is giving something that they may find painful/difficult in order to please the Dom and demonstrate to them that they are submissive to the Dominant. Many submissives enjoy being used in different ways that others may not understand.
There are definitely situations where findom is just pure financial abuse. As with all D/s there needs to be boundaries and ethics, and true care and consent between anyone involved. It would be easy to step into unethical territory here. |
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"Oh I see.
I agree with you on financial abuse. I felt it the same after seeing those hard working guys giving out cash to those girls like mad."
I guess these sub men you saw would say that they get something for the cash they hand over. There are many MANY sub men out there with little to no outlet for their desires |
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"Oh I see.
I agree with you on financial abuse. I felt it the same after seeing those hard working guys giving out cash to those girls like mad.
I guess these sub men you saw would say that they get something for the cash they hand over. There are many MANY sub men out there with little to no outlet for their desires "
We're seeing it a lot on *that fet site*. The only messages we get are from sub guys wanting to serve us. I'd love to understand their motivation. |
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I understand about serving someone else gives pleasure. Like I do while giving massages.
But I don't get it about giving out money :D
"Oh I see.
I agree with you on financial abuse. I felt it the same after seeing those hard working guys giving out cash to those girls like mad.
I guess these sub men you saw would say that they get something for the cash they hand over. There are many MANY sub men out there with little to no outlet for their desires
We're seeing it a lot on *that fet site*. The only messages we get are from sub guys wanting to serve us. I'd love to understand their motivation."
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By *og-ManMan 27 weeks ago
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Id imagine most people feel good if they do something nice for someone .....buy someone a coffee and a sandwich that's down on their luck outside a shop
Then multiply it by 100 for some people that gives others money or presents
I've never heard of a woman doing it for a man |
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100%
"Id imagine most people feel good if they do something nice for someone .....buy someone a coffee and a sandwich that's down on their luck outside a shop
Then multiply it by 100 for some people that gives others money or presents
I've never heard of a woman doing it for a man "
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"Id imagine most people feel good if they do something nice for someone .....buy someone a coffee and a sandwich that's down on their luck outside a shop
Then multiply it by 100 for some people that gives others money or presents
I've never heard of a woman doing it for a man "
I've been looking for a woman to give me money for her pleasure for years. |
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"Id imagine most people feel good if they do something nice for someone .....buy someone a coffee and a sandwich that's down on their luck outside a shop
Then multiply it by 100 for some people that gives others money or presents
I've never heard of a woman doing it for a man
I've been looking for a woman to give me money for her pleasure for years. "
Dream on, son  |
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"I don't think findom is about doing something nice. It's about feeding their own need to be submissive to someone "
Yes and Bog made a good point. It's ALWAYS men that feel this need and I always wonder why.
But yet women are often the submissive type in bed.
I think this is different though. |
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Findom can be done ethically as part of d/s though is extremely open to abuse. For the subs who undertake it there's so many scenarios and aspects of their kinks that it can be linked to. Done ethically it can be highly enjoyable for the sub |
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"I don't think findom is about doing something nice. It's about feeding their own need to be submissive to someone
Yes and Bog made a good point. It's ALWAYS men that feel this need and I always wonder why.
But yet women are often the submissive type in bed.
I think this is different though."
The cliche (which is partly true) is that wealthy men in positions of power, who make decisions all day long, enjoy submissive sexual roles as it allows them to switch off in a way they don't get in their everyday lives. They are emasculated by passing chunks of their wealth over to a Dominant woman who ensures that they are made small and encouraged to do acts of service or degradation which they crave. |
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I know it's a kink for people. But I just find lately that every second girl you see on sites are just looking for free money. That it's not about the kink. There are legit doms and subs out there into it, but so many now just looking for easy money I think. Never did anything for me personally. I hate when you get talking with someone, and think it's going well, then they're like send me money. I just ignore them. |
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Financial domination- findom, when done properly the cashpig, cashsub relinquishes control of everyday adult life things. The dom then takes care of the sub. // should be like giving someone you trust your money and they use it to look after you and take care of your bills etc or other finance matters. My two pence |
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I just found out about this kink!
Psychologically there must be something that kicks this off.
Some don't even have sexual contact which seems even more bizarre.
It's definitely a strange world out there!
Again, like others, not judging, as long as its not being abused. X |
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I know there are genuine doms and subs in the world but I would be very angry at doms taking financial gains as their only reason. Lonely people are easy prey . Ìf anyone has oodles of spare cash give it to a good cause |
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By *ACOLCouple 14 weeks ago
Limerick |
"Someone once said to me, what you don't understand, or what disgusts you in some cases, about someone's kink, is exactly what that person loves about it."
This is totally true.
Findom has that very fine line with paypigs. So some people might confuse paypigs to findoms.
Both need to have an ethical base.
Lina.
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"Everyone has their own kinks and fetishes
However I just mentioned F D in a private message and have now been banned from private messaging!!!!!! "
Fine line between FD ans solicitation apparently |
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By *ACOLCouple 12 weeks ago
Limerick |
"Everyone has their own kinks and fetishes
However I just mentioned F D in a private message and have now been banned from private messaging!!!!!! "
Best to not even mention it on here, the other site, also doesn't allow you to approach people for FD... but at least there you can find those.
Lina |
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I know someone who is into this as a Sub, and his Dom did it by looking at all his finances, ensuring he has living expenses and savings covered and they have negotiated extensively. In their case he funded a particular thing for her that satisfied his fetish. I can honestly say from my view looking from outside in, it seemed very ethical. |
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By *ACOLCouple 12 weeks ago
Limerick |
"I know someone who is into this as a Sub, and his Dom did it by looking at all his finances, ensuring he has living expenses and savings covered and they have negotiated extensively. In their case he funded a particular thing for her that satisfied his fetish. I can honestly say from my view looking from outside in, it seemed very ethical. "
This is exactly how it gets done, the ethical way. |
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