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Question for the ladies - do you send the first message?
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Ladies, I'm curious, as you're scrolling through the profiles on fab, do you ever see one that makes you stop and want to send the first message?
Or do you get enough messages into your inbox on a daily/weekly basis that you don't feel the need to?
I know the ladies get swamped with first messages by us over eager males especially new people. And I know one or two ladies do send the first message but in general, by the majority, is it done? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I see a profile that piqued my interest, yes I would send a first message. It doesn't happen very often though, in fact I and I can't remember the last time I did.😆
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Yes I have done.I have no issue with sending a first message to someone. It can be an easier way to find someone I would be interested in,than expecting them to message me. Plus I have filters tighter than a ducks ass in order to stop most messages anyhow. |
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For me every engagement in the last few years - from libations to dalliances - has been on the back of the lady sending the introductory message.
I rarely message other than friends and forum dwellers or because of some forum thread, game, challenge or competition.
So yes, women do indeed send the first message. Perhaps more women should. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I do.
I'll probably wink first to see if they'll pick it up and roll it back. If that's a go, I'll message asking if I can dry hump their leg over coffee. |
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"Yes I do.
I'll probably wink first to see if they'll pick it up and roll it back. If that's a go, I'll message asking if I can dry hump their leg over coffee. "
Oh I might start using that 'dry hump' line, if that's ok?? It's a good one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never do that.. I don't know how and what to write...
In moments like these I am happy that I am not a man and I don't have to do this.
Thank you all men... 🤣🤣🤣 you are all wonderful, I really appreciate your efforts.... but I still won't respond to "hello" and many others 🤗🤗🤗 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I do.
I'll probably wink first to see if they'll pick it up and roll it back. If that's a go, I'll message asking if I can dry hump their leg over coffee.
Oh I might start using that 'dry hump' line, if that's ok?? It's a good one "
Absolutely! However it doesn't work. I now use the line "I like your little pee pee".
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I do.
I'll probably wink first to see if they'll pick it up and roll it back. If that's a go, I'll message asking if I can dry hump their leg over coffee. "
Now that's my kind of Coffee Meet 🤣🤣
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"Yes I do.
I'll probably wink first to see if they'll pick it up and roll it back. If that's a go, I'll message asking if I can dry hump their leg over coffee.
Oh I might start using that 'dry hump' line, if that's ok?? It's a good one
Absolutely! However it doesn't work. I now use the line "I like your little pee pee".
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I can’t believe the dry hump doesn’t work! It’s genius |
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"Not anymore. Every time I send a first message its a disaster. Men get suspicious. I did for the last time tiday and I was blocked. Madness
Your profile is hidden. That might be why"
Genius, because there is no way I got hidden last night AFTER the events? Thank you for the support I never asked for, very kind
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"Not anymore. Every time I send a first message its a disaster. Men get suspicious. I did for the last time tiday and I was blocked. Madness
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Your profile is hidden. That might be why"
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You are aware that she didn't come out of her mother's womb with her profile hidden? It's reasonable to assume that when she's messaging and actively engaged that perhaps her profile is in fact 'unhidden'. |
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"Not anymore. Every time I send a first message its a disaster. Men get suspicious. I did for the last time tiday and I was blocked. Madness
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Your profile is hidden. That might be why
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You are aware that she didn't come out of her mother's womb with her profile hidden? It's reasonable to assume that when she's messaging and actively engaged that perhaps her profile is in fact 'unhidden'."
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