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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, I know I'm not an ugly fella but you can't tell that because my face is kept private. So, I'd like some input on my profile and some understanding of WHY I rarely get beyond a "looked at me" or even an opened message.
Any feedback is appreciated. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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Your profile is whingy and tells us nothing about what you bring to the table. No one is here to dish out pity fucks.
People will also assume you’re cheating on your wife (perhaps you have permission to play but that’s not clear) and that will eliminate you from many people’s list. |
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I had a different response written, explaining why I wouldn't look twice at your profile but then I thought, the reasons mean something to me. Why give you tips if what we see is a true representation of who and what you are. I'd rather say an immediate 'no' that dress you up and fake who you are. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone, thanks for your input. I have changed my profile and, hopefully, it is sufficient. If not, please let me know. "
I'd still get rid of the update as it's not a good look to be honest
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The profile is better. The status update is awful. The pics need some improvement "
Staus update comes accross a whiney moan bag, he also states he isnt into mm meets ,but his only verification is from a man. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"The profile is better. The status update is awful. The pics need some improvement
Staus update comes accross a whiney moan bag, he also states he isnt into mm meets ,but his only verification is from a man. "
It doesn't mean anything if a man verifies another man or it shouldn't
I've verified a few men from coffee meets and I tell them it might mean grief for them later |
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"Ok, I know I'm not an ugly fella but you can't tell that because my face is kept private. So, I'd like some input on my profile and some understanding of WHY I rarely get beyond a "looked at me" or even an opened message.
Any feedback is appreciated. "
Have a look at a few male profiles and get some ideas in types of pics they post and how they describe themselves to stand out from the rest of the males on here,
The rest is your preferences and try make it clear you have permission from your wife or partner to try your hand in this life style |
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"The profile is better. The status update is awful. The pics need some improvement
Staus update comes accross a whiney moan bag, he also states he isnt into mm meets ,but his only verification is from a man.
It doesn't mean anything if a man verifies another man or it shouldn't
I've verified a few men from coffee meets and I tell them it might mean grief for them later "
Normally I'd agree but his verification on the other side doesn't seem to be a social one. I don't think it's a bad thing to.have a veri from another fella, it is suspect to lie about it. When you're competing with hundreds, you can't afford a single issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dead Bedroom Man Looking for Cuddles"
This is guaranteed to put pretty much everyone off your profile before they even look at the rest.
We're all here for the same thing and people hook up based on attraction. That means something different to everyone so all you can do is put your best foot forward and see what works.
Fab is hard because people, especially in the forum, see hundreds if not thousands of profiles and after a while they all blur together so when you ask for feedback you need to be prepared for some savagery.
Sympathy fucks are found on sadswingers.com
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What unit and where did you serve
2/8 Marines, Golf Company in Jacksonville, North Carolina.
Well done for the service to your country "
Thank you. I wish I could go back in time and do some things over though. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"What unit and where did you serve
2/8 Marines, Golf Company in Jacksonville, North Carolina.
Well done for the service to your country
Thank you. I wish I could go back in time and do some things over though."
Sure we all do that sometimes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Deployment? Years served?
Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA "
Well as i had a buddy die in a iraq I am very cautious of fellows claimin to have served in the marines, as you need to be a US citizen natualy born or natualized, or have lived and worked there on a permanent residence visa (old school green cards) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Deployment? Years served?
Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA
Well as i had a buddy die in a iraq I am very cautious of fellows claimin to have served in the marines, as you need to be a US citizen natualy born or natualized, or have lived and worked there on a permanent residence visa (old school green cards)"
I'm American.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Deployment? Years served?
Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA "
Sorry, what's the FCA? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Deployment? Years served?
Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA
Sorry, what's the FCA? "
The Irish equivalent of The National Guard..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Deployment? Years served?
Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA
Sorry, what's the FCA?
The Irish equivalent of The National Guard....."
Understood. |
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"Deployment? Years served?
Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA
Well as i had a buddy die in a iraq I am very cautious of fellows claimin to have served in the marines, as you need to be a US citizen natualy born or natualized, or have lived and worked there on a permanent residence visa (old school green cards)"
I know at least 4 people very close to where we live in the Marines and USAF.
Most were born there, parents moved home shortly after! |
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oh wow I missed that part. Eh, yea! That's not good. 