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Ladies, what would you love to hear from a guy?
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I'm not shy about walking up to someone at a club, but when it comes to actually saying something... my mind goes blank. Ladies, what would make you smile if a guy came up to you? What’s something you’d love to hear? |
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"I'm not shy about walking up to someone at a club, but when it comes to actually saying something... my mind goes blank. Ladies, what would make you smile if a guy came up to you? What’s something you’d love to hear?"
Honestly, just something like " I think you are attractive & I'd like to chat to you if thats ok".
I personally dont need cheesey chat up lines. Prefer pure honesty. |
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"I'm not shy about walking up to someone at a club, but when it comes to actually saying something... my mind goes blank. Ladies, what would make you smile if a guy came up to you? What’s something you’d love to hear?
Honestly, just something like " I think you are attractive & I'd like to chat to you if thats ok".
I personally dont need cheesey chat up lines. Prefer pure honesty. "
I will try these one next time as it's not easy for me.
I always have a problem with a first few words. Maybe I shouldn't approach to any women at all... |
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"Here's a few bob buy yourself something nice is I'm sure something that everyone likes to hear 🤣🤣"
Come on what you would say?
Pretty woman looking at you and you look at her. She's nice and you approach. What to say. Is not that easy to start conversation if you know nothing about that person... |
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By *INTMan 16 weeks ago
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"Come on what you would say?
Pretty woman looking at you and you look at her. She's nice and you approach. What to say. Is not that easy to start conversation if you know nothing about that person..."
TL;DR version:
* Be authentically yourself.
* Ask open questions.
* LISTEN!
Wordy version:
You're overthinking it. It's not that hard. Start by introducing yourself & getting their name. After that, ask open questions and LISTEN to the answers.
I can't emphasize listening enough. You're interested in getting to know this person better, right? So pay attention to what they're saying and get to know them better!
Remember to offer your own - honest - responses as well. This is a conversation, not an interrogation.
And boom! You've started a conversation.
NB: Be prepared for it to not work out. Sometimes you meet the right person. Sometimes you don't. If the chemistry is there, it's there. If it's not, don't try to force it.
Good luck!
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"Come on what you would say?
Pretty woman looking at you and you look at her. She's nice and you approach. What to say. Is not that easy to start conversation if you know nothing about that person...
TL;DR version:
* Be authentically yourself.
* Ask open questions.
* LISTEN!
Wordy version:
You're overthinking it. It's not that hard. Start by introducing yourself & getting their name. After that, ask open questions and LISTEN to the answers.
I can't emphasize listening enough. You're interested in getting to know this person better, right? So pay attention to what they're saying and get to know them better!
Remember to offer your own - honest - responses as well. This is a conversation, not an interrogation.
And boom! You've started a conversation.
NB: Be prepared for it to not work out. Sometimes you meet the right person. Sometimes you don't. If the chemistry is there, it's there. If it's not, don't try to force it.
Good luck!
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Maybe you have right that I thinking too much. Just don't have good experience from the past. I'm fail on introduce part... |
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"I'm not shy about walking up to someone at a club, but when it comes to actually saying something... my mind goes blank. Ladies, what would make you smile if a guy came up to you? What’s something you’d love to hear?"
Try " hello ".. |
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