So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here? |
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By *nickers pants guyMan 14 weeks ago
Cork killkenny laois Limerick Offaly kildare carlow Dublin Waterford and everywhere else |
"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here? "
Perfect response brilliantly executed  |
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By *ickin2Man 14 weeks ago
Kilkenny |
"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here? "
Nicely sorted |
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To be fair, your profile does just say "sexting/webcam only".
They're probably not going to waste anymore time on it than you are. Its an interested or not kind of question, really.
I would understand your point if your getting this from blank profiles etc. |
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"To be fair, your profile does just say "sexting/webcam only".
They're probably not going to waste anymore time on it than you are. Its an interested or not kind of question, really.
I would understand your point if your getting this from blank profiles etc."
I mean their bio clearly states everything. It wouldn't be my cup of tea. I could say that some of the fellas are harmless and it's not fair on them but then there are plenty of fellas that aren't so.... I have no idea  |
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By *eturning MGMan 14 weeks ago
mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland |
"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here? "
Simple answer is No. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here? "
Your profile states sexting and webcam action only. I’m not into that so don’t really know how all that comes about to start off with webcam action so not sure what introduction is needed to frame all that up. Like it’s hardly like you need to know if they are clean or safe or drug users or knife carriers or have their own teeth or go bareback or whatever as it’s only on a screen that you see them or am I missing the whole picture here? Answer on a small postage stamp with three word answers please. |
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NOPE!!!
I get countless ones that I have on my profile not to do and I simply reply with “read my profile”
Couldn’t care less if I’m rude or not! If you can’t read a simple profile then that’s not my issue |
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Sexting/webcam would be one on one so certainly would not be going on cam or otherwise without some semblance of an idea who we would be talking to. Privacy and discretion is a huge factor obviously |
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By *oo32Man 14 weeks ago
tipperary |
"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here? "
Maybe...
I'm sure the person receiving the message probably thinks that |
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"Sexting/webcam would be one on one so certainly would not be going on cam or otherwise without some semblance of an idea who we would be talking to. Privacy and discretion is a huge factor obviously"
Which you can establish after that initial contact surely? If I'm honest, I'm not entirely sure what guys in this example are doing wrong 🤷
Perhaps instead of just stating that crap introductions won't be entertained you could give an idea of what you expect, instead of guys having to guess what it is you want then being berated for getting it wrong. It also might save you getting wound up when folk invariably fall short of your expectations.
So yeah, honestly, I think it is a bit asshole-ish |
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Unlike Playboy which most read for the articles, Fab men tend to look at the photos here and based on ambient light, aspect ratio, depth of field and yes, boobs (being honest  ) think long and hard about what to send (sky remote, sitting on toilet, bulge in Y fronts)
I'd be nice to the men of Fab  |
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"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here? "
Wow, I'm stealing that one! I used to say "my profile tells you exactly what I'm looking for", and block them straight after |
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""Sick to death of timewasters"
Openly admits to wasting other peoples time for fun  "
That's a very different situation. Also, who has wasted whose time on here? The sender of the message at least got a reply, when many men cry they send loads of messages without getting any reply. Yes, it is a bit more cheeky than "thanks, but no, thanks" but it's fair play to the OP. |
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By *j47Man 14 weeks ago
limerick |
"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here? "
Replying to them is a total waste of time as when you hit block all those mails between you and the profile you just blocked disapear  |
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By *affa31Woman 14 weeks ago
Galway |
"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here?
Replying to them is a total waste of time as when you hit block all those mails between you and the profile you just blocked disapear "
No they don’t. |
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"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here?
Replying to them is a total waste of time as when you hit block all those mails between you and the profile you just blocked disapear "
Messages only disappear when someone deletes their account |
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By *j47Man 14 weeks ago
limerick |
"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here?
Replying to them is a total waste of time as when you hit block all those mails between you and the profile you just blocked disapear
Messages only disappear when someone deletes their account "
I stand corrected  |
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"So tired of messages coming coming in and obvious that the sender doesnt read our profile. For example, ‘hi (obligatory dick pick) want to cam/text?’ No introduction other than that. So i respond with ‘that would be great! Ive updated our profile with our contact number’, and once sent i block the user. That leaves them scrambling trying to fogure out how they got a reply and then cant access our profile. Am i the ***hole here? "
Aren't we all a**holes in our own right? Some for not bothering to read the profile, some for just looking at the pics, some who just can't read but we give them special treatment cause, aww bless and then there the a**holes that do read and don't bother to send a msg at all cause they're all shy and stuff and way out of my league types.
Everyone's an ass but you just keep doing you and don't worry about the eggs |
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