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A bit of craic for the evening |
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I'm in |
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By *eturning MGMan 13 weeks ago
mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland |
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By *hantomfemmeWoman 13 weeks ago
Sligo/Galway depends on the day |
Ultimate sexual fantasy.... love new things |
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Massive dick and squeaky voice |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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By *og-ManMan 13 weeks ago
somewhere |
In womans lingerie purple
On me not dressed in lingerie Blue |
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Massive dick squeaky voice😂😂 |
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We're in for the evening so let's see how we get on |
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By *hantomfemmeWoman 13 weeks ago
Sligo/Galway depends on the day |
Fluffy pjs and a glass of something nice |
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If its tits and ass then yes...
Face? No definitely not 😜😘 |
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If a social goes well we usually let the other person/ persons know the next day then we try to find a suitable date for a play meet sometimes it can take ages as getting 4 individuals agreeing to a time and place is difficult. Or if it was an exceptional social we will make plans for as soon as possible |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Works sometimes.. generally when people set up a "quick profile" when abroad etc.. and don't care for verifications like me.. but all in all goes against me |
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No way !!!
Great to look at but hard to listen to LOL |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Dig him |
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"Open-side Flanker "
good game would love to know what your answering lol |
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tis there room on the sofa for one more! Slides in..
Sayin I'd such a lazy day.  |
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I'm in for a little while tonight |
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Fab socials are the best, I find people are more open to chatting to random people than vanilla nights. Whether theres attraction there or not, people are there to chat and have the craic with everyone. Vanilla nights out are much more don't talk to me vibe |
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By *rystalsswingCouple 13 weeks ago
Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands |
Hard to choose one, so picking 2 which were during the day that probably stand out. That being said we both love the social side and a good night out, when all parties know what's going to be happening in a few hours 😈😈 |
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That is not a situation that would arise because I am straight |
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I’m not a person who encourages violence, but if someone tries to act without consent that too in a public setting, that person is going to be bound to a wheel chair for the rest of their life.
And for the person who asked me that question I’d like you try asking that in person. |
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It is hard to pick one... but there was one with a couple and single guy that I still think about and also every time with a certain Indian!x |
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Depending on the setting and company, I'm more than happy to show off! 😅 |
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forby missing breakfast I fed the cat mowed the lawns in-between doin a load of washing then jump started the fob of my beamer
I'm sure there's loads of little other activities will not go into details  🤣 |
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Call me fickle. The first thing I notice in a profile is their profile pic. If its a dick pic or all their photos are dick pics I tend to ignore them.
If their pics catch my eye I read their profile and their verifications. Also how they interact with others in the forums are a good indication of who they are. If they come across negative bitchy or have an air of self importance I steer well clear. |
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"In.
Lina."
Can’t message you 🤷🏽♂️ 😂😂😂 |
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I have met some men from here who I have continued to meet regularly over the years. I don't tend to do one off meets.  |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
Yes, we prefer the more private ones... with lasting friends!
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By *hantomfemmeWoman 13 weeks ago
Sligo/Galway depends on the day |
Most painful breast bone most satisfying upper thigh |
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By *rystalsswingCouple 13 weeks ago
Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands |
There has to be banter, light hearted craic. We have never arranged to meet anyone who weren't prepared / able to do this regardless of how good they look 🙈 I know that's prob unfair as lots don't like texting, Straight being one of those people. That's why we try to get to a social a couple of times a year |
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By *og-ManMan 13 weeks ago
somewhere |
"Open-side Flanker
good game would love to know what your answering lol "
I asked him what's his favorite position  |
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By *og-ManMan 13 weeks ago
somewhere |
Got mcflurries once as McDonald's was right outside the hotel |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
"In.
Lina.
Can’t message you 🤷🏽♂️ 😂😂😂"
Ooops just fixed it there
Lina. |
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By *og-ManMan 13 weeks ago
somewhere |
I usually don't have any as they're for the ladies but love the lemon meringue |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
This one definitely put a smile on my face - Bacon Slut. |
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I love only pineapple on my pizza  |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
Hmm! It will have to be you, i think we even verify you that way no... now enjoy the pet in the head;-) |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Not as enjoyable as the first time. Emotionally challenged men |
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Lots of tgings...some with each other and some with other people. It's about finding the right people. But in the meantime we have our list to work on 😈 |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
Everytime I get that FAB message saying that I have been ban! 😇 |
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That 20-30% of people who do not have respect for others on the forums and hide behind the screen of “Anonymity” |
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A confident guy, little bit cheeky (but not cocky). If you make me laugh your half way there |
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wouldn't have many, possibly just deleting my last profile I'd say.. |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
I came out of my last one yesterday, for calling someone the R word, might get put back in FAB Jail for talking about it.😅
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Hard to beat a good spit roast  |
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Ha ha fun{¬zIg=¬}ny,
Was dying to but Missus got out before me !! |
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"wouldn't have many, possibly just deleting my last profile I'd say.."
twice and I'd yea a little for the better |
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By *og-ManMan 13 weeks ago
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"I came out of my last one yesterday, for calling someone the R word, might get put back in FAB Jail for talking about it.😅
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So bold |
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Mainly me , but sometimes I'll ask a meet to help out. |
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We really prefer repeat meets to be honest with you |
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Oh probably Terminator 2 or The Usual Suspects.
There are a ton I'd recommended to avoid, but can't think of which one is the worst right now! |
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Right there for sure..
I'm not a boob fan 🤣🤣
So arse...but actually shoulders,arms and hands do it for me... 😈 |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
"I came out of my last one yesterday, for calling someone the R word, might get put back in FAB Jail for talking about it.😅
So bold "
You forgot to say #YOLO. |
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Well we might just do that sometime soon. Its a bit of a trek so would have to be a good reason 😉😜
We haven't seen you for sooooo long! 😘😘 |
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Solo meet…Mrs had one the other week, with a fella we’d met before. Gentleman who fully understands the lifestyle, so knew she was 100% safe, and enjoying herself. We’d talked about it a lot before and happy to give it a go, but it just wasn’t the same for me (mr) as being there and seeing her enjoying herself. Very horny night, but the next few days after where a head fuck. Not ruling out trying it again, but in no rush to either. |
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Aww you two are honestly the sweetest couple!! Xx |
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By *rystalsswingCouple 13 weeks ago
Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands |
I don't honestly know 🙈 Prob vibes (I don't like that term) but it's the best way to describe it!
Sometimes we just click with people 🤷♀️
Good pics on their profile always help, especially for Straight 😈 |
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I'm sensing the answer you wish I'd say but I wear a thong |
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We are hoping to head lots of places for socials. We like to try new ones. I've not been to the North so it's on the list...
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And what is the sexy social sports social? I've a feeling thats in your imagination? But if it'd to do with GAA then I'm out 🤣🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"And what is the sexy social sports social? I've a feeling thats in your imagination? But if it'd to do with GAA then I'm out 🤣🤣"
Just cause Galway beat mayo don't be against gaa 🤣🤣 |
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"And what is the sexy social sports social? I've a feeling thats in your imagination? But if it'd to do with GAA then I'm out 🤣🤣
Just cause Galway beat mayo don't be against gaa 🤣🤣"
Don't really care about the result but trying to get in and out of Castlebar was a fecking nightmare 🤬 |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"And what is the sexy social sports social? I've a feeling thats in your imagination? But if it'd to do with GAA then I'm out 🤣🤣
Just cause Galway beat mayo don't be against gaa 🤣🤣
Don't really care about the result but trying to get in and out of Castlebar was a fecking nightmare 🤬"
Ya not like a tight squeeze 😉 |
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Going to my first social because I got to meet some lovely people |
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This was the same couple
Guy when kissing kitty used so much tongue it was weird but when he went down on her, he used no tongue at all.
When Frankie lightly brushed the women’s arm she practically orgasmed off the bed!! |
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A nice sun dress preferably black with no panties and a butt plug at the cocktail bar, nothing else than the buttplug in the bedroom 😈 |
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"Back in for a while!"
Can’t message 🙈 |
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By *rystalsswingCouple 13 weeks ago
Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands |
19th Aug 23 because what followed after was amazing 👏 |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
Will be to attend socials, FAB should be a tool to mainly find parties/socials, it takes alot to talk to someone in person, and more if you are a single. Lots of keyboard warriors in here. |
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By *rystalsswingCouple 13 weeks ago
Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands |
People being wankers.
It costs nothing to be nice |
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Some and some. Online shops are good but you can never tell the quality of the material (has to feel right). I (mr) love vintage the most, so markets! |
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We put "Alternative" as a heads up that we've a different look and possibly not to everyone's taste. Our influences are Punk/Goth and vintage. I tend to send face pics early on in the conversation. The response is usually, "Oh cool" or "Oh I see" 🤣
Either way, we know where we stand
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
"Go on so.. in for a bit "
Can't message due to filter |
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"We put "Alternative" as a heads up that we've a different look and possibly not to everyone's taste. Our influences are Punk/Goth and vintage. I tend to send face pics early on in the conversation. The response is usually, "Oh cool" or "Oh I see" 🤣
Either way, we know where we stand
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The outfit in your newest pic is cool as fuck in our opinion |
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My fave ice-cream right now is Dunnes brand Raspberry and White chocolate with a splash of Tequila Rose on it.
As of last night anyway 😊
And thank you to my fab friends for leaving the bottle! |
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I suppose I just like to be very discrete being honest not sure if I’d like people knowing I’m on here ! |
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Way too many to choose one, as of now there’s a pic posted today by the person who asked me this question, and that would be my current favourite |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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In for a spell |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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We've never been invited to any parties as of yet but if the dates lined up for us we wouldn't have any serious issues with travelling to the south for events |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Honestly plan on doing nothing for the day, any Netflix series recommendations? |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
Ha! Not at all, it always goes unnoticed... |
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My worst fab experience was actually my first fab experience. I quiet liked her at the time. They only thing was she hated everyone and warned me not to meet basically every woman in Galway because they were 'toxic'.
Obviously I met them for a coffee anyway and then she ghosted me and started telling women not to meet me. They met me anyway.
Months later she was a party (my first party) where she completely blanked me. That was fine but what I didn't know was that without my knowledge she told the host it was perfectly fine for me to share a room with her at the end of the night and then she proceeded to loudly fuck her man of the night about two feet from my head.
I had to laugh at that point but jesus like.
Luckily for me I'll sleep through anything. And I did. |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
Recently dipped our toes into a MFM, and I guess the bug has bitten, so might give it a proper go... |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
New experiences, even if they are bad... trying new things is always fun. |
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Play or no play based on which part of the couple is not able to attend, me being straight and someone who loves the social aspect of fab would go for drink if the female part of the couple had pulled out or play if the male part has pulled out but ok with us playing, if not drink with the female part 🙃 |
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I'd discuss it but I wouldn't push it. |
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By *M316Man 13 weeks ago
Dublin |
Old catholic laws I’ve been told and also the media publicity and potential backlash against owners. I’d say it’s more the latter |
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By *og-ManMan 13 weeks ago
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I wouldn't know.....I'm from Dublin |
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I think 30 is on the profile. I prefer guys over 40 but it's quite dependent and maturity. You can tell a lot when you meet someone and some 40+ guys can be less mature than a 30yr old. 28 is the youngest I've met. |
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I think sometimes I just get a red flag fairly quickly. Sometimes I can't put my finger on why. But maybe a few messages in I'd have an idea...I'm a better judge now. It took a while. I'm naturally suspicious and an over thinker! |
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By *og-ManMan 13 weeks ago
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Definitely exciting but then again most I didn't believe were going to happen until I was on the way to them
Never did the whole lots of sexy messages and chatting to a build up beforehand
Everything was because of me chatting on the forums.
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Love a good bbq not with your usual sausages and burgers though.
Love a terriaki sauce
A good salad with either salmon or steak. |
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By *andb28Couple 13 weeks ago
kildare |
Definitely PJs and favourite drink , we haven't gone to any party's yet so we don't know what to expect |
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We would travel a bit, never really considered how far before. All depends on the person we are meeting id say |
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Squeaky voice, large dick… no one said they had to talk |
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
"Love a good bbq not with your usual sausages and burgers though.
Love a terriaki sauce
A good salad with either salmon or steak."
We had for lunch today and avocado salad with teriyaki ribs |
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It was gonna be a rose kinda night but I'm all out so I'm going with passionfruit martini kinda night😇😜😋😋😋 |
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'A vote for fabswingers is sure to get the juices running. A suck and a tug will get things growing. A finger licking poke is likely to fill a hole. But don't listen to the politicians of fab as they will promise you the earth for a quick 5 minute fumble"
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By *ACOLCouple 13 weeks ago
Limerick |
RVC! What a fabulous weekend it was, my watch told me I did 18k steps the Saturday night,
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Sometimes, but not very often.
But I'm a good judge of character and it's usually a social in a public place if I'm meeting a guy, then he'll trust my judgement after that. With couples messaging I get red flags before he would. |
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By *andb28Couple 13 weeks ago
kildare |
I would say it's actually quite the opposite finding meets , but finding one we click with and want to meet up with is the real problem we would say |
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By *andb28Couple 13 weeks ago
kildare |
We came to the decision together , we wanted to see what the lifestyle was all about, and have lots of fun learning new things and meeting fun new people |
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A meet
A sharp tooth drew blood on a sensitive body part
And not quite a meet but nakedness involved , a 9inch scrape on my arse cheek , still visible , |
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I think probably 55 being honest but all depends on the women if she looked younger or older I suppose there has to be physical attraction too! |
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No there isn't any item of clothing a woman could turn up in that would turn me off.
If she's turning up, the clothes are coming off. |
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Actually yes, kind of. It wasn't very comfortable and it takes some getting used to...
I've seen a few profiles that make my eyes water and it would definitely put me off. I am no size queen! |
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Most looking forward to more socials and meeting new people.
Most afraid of making stupid decisions and not trusting my instincts... |
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By *andb28Couple 13 weeks ago
kildare |
First part-I would say meeting someone who does not respect our boundaries in the bedroom , second part-Excited to meet new people who share the same lifestyle |
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No because he told.me he was 35 so I didn't know he was 28 🙈 |
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Yes I have had one meet where I probably wasn’t really ready for haha |
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Yes once. Someone did something I didn't ask for or consent to and it was enough for me to put my clothes back on and leave. |
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By *andb28Couple 13 weeks ago
kildare |
The weirdest message we ever received is honestly that bad , it can't be repeated 😂 |
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Not really I tend to take each sexual encounter for what It is at the time. I think be in the moment and try not to over think it is the best approach |
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By *andb28Couple 13 weeks ago
kildare |
Id say features we really like are the winks and views , because they were know people are actually interested in us |
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