Ok question and please don't attack me i know this not tinder. but in fairness most of the guys on tinder or on fab .
But would you date someone on fab . I'm sick of being single but I honestly don't think I could go back to a vanilla relationship . i just enjoy fab way to much i love the social aspect just as much as the play . And in every vanilla relationship I was in the guy always complained that I liked sex to much 🙄 as I have such a high sex drive. A guy once broke up with me just because he could not make me climax.
And I know there will be good points and bad points to dating a fellow fabber . But I just think it would suit me better
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My partner and I met on a Fab social. Dating someone on the same wavelength is so freeing. Neither of us were looking for love, but we found it and it's amazing. And we have the most joyously kinky, but fun, sex life.
Rachel x |
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Of course, I would love to meet someone with similar kinks as me. I’m open to vanilla too I think, but ENM. It’s not that I would need someone else every week or month, but it’s hard to eat the same sandwich everyday!! Most of the time I like a white bread ham and cheese, but sometime, just sometimes I need a seeded roll with turkey! |
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I really enjoy dating. Even when I wasnt open to a relationship I still enjoyed all the nice things that come with going on a date.
I think I've tried everything I need to try over the last years and reckon I'm open to an enm relationship now.
I've dated women on fab. Sure why wouldnt I. Fab is full of sex positive hotties and its soooo nice to have those cards on the table up front. |
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By *j69funCouple 5 weeks ago
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I Mr was on here as a single and then left to get back out dating and I found miss j on pof. Shortly into the relationship we were talking about kinks and things we have tried in the past and I told her about fab. She taught it sounded interesting and said I'd try that and here we are 6 years later and we have a strong relationship , amazing sex life and fab is a bonus naughtiness when we want it.
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By *om TangoMan 5 weeks ago
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I think the only happy relationship I can get into is a lifestyle one. I love the social side of the lifestyle and I can’t see me giving that up anytime soon. My kinks wouldn’t be filled in a vanilla relationship. |
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"I Mr was on here as a single and then left to get back out dating and I found miss j on pof. Shortly into the relationship we were talking about kinks and things we have tried in the past and I told her about fab. She taught it sounded interesting and said I'd try that and here we are 6 years later and we have a strong relationship , amazing sex life and fab is a bonus naughtiness when we want it.
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that's brilliant I'm delighted for you x |
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"I would love to meet someone here.
I’ve no interest in traditional dating apps or something vanilla but it’s easier said than done 😅"
They do a very nice lunch in the lady Gregory 🥣🍽 hotel in Gort..FYI  . |
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"Ok question and please don't attack me i know this not tinder. but in fairness most of the guys on tinder or on fab .
But would you date someone on fab . I'm sick of being single but I honestly don't think I could go back to a vanilla relationship . i just enjoy fab way to much i love the social aspect just as much as the play . And in every vanilla relationship I was in the guy always complained that I liked sex to much 🙄 as I have such a high sex drive. A guy once broke up with me just because he could not make me climax.
And I know there will be good points and bad points to dating a fellow fabber . But I just think it would suit me better
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We met on Fab 
Neither of us were looking for a relationship at the time but when we realized we had a proper connection ( and both being filthy minded ) probably helped
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I have never been on any dating apps,only on swingers sites,and a big part of the reason i have never is because i wouldn’t know how to approach the conversation with a woman about the lifestyle ,and then say you were getting on and it was a dealbreaker,youd be back to square one.I hope to find someone as filthy as myself oneday🤣 and thats a big part of why im on fab. |
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"I would love to meet someone here.
I’ve no interest in traditional dating apps or something vanilla but it’s easier said than done 😅
They do a very nice lunch in the lady Gregory 🥣🍽 hotel in Gort..FYI . "
is that you asking me out on a date 🤔😅😂😂 |
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I have recently been chatting with a lady on here and we have met a few times and have decided that we want to be in a proper relationship but with an extra bit of fun in the future on here. She likes the idea of a couple or a single male watching us having fun in the same room and if things are comfortable thing maybe a bit of soft swapping.
We are just taking things easy to start and discussing all our kinks and being honest with each other. |
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"Personally...no I would never date a fab man again. Learned my lesson 
If you met a lovely guy and he asked you to give up the lifestyle… could you 🤔"
I personally don't think I could. I have been on fab maybe 8 months now and I have gone on vanilladates while being on fab and tbh I found them boring 🫣 |
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By *egsyWoman 5 weeks ago
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"Personally...no I would never date a fab man again. Learned my lesson
If you met a lovely guy and he asked you to give up the lifestyle… could you 🤔"
Nah, I'm done with relationships full stop. I choose peace from now on  |
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By *ustMe!Woman 5 weeks ago
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"Personally...no I would never date a fab man again. Learned my lesson
If you met a lovely guy and he asked you to give up the lifestyle… could you 🤔
Nah, I'm done with relationships full stop. I choose peace from now on "
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"Ok question and please don't attack me i know this not tinder. but in fairness most of the guys on tinder or on fab .
But would you date someone on fab . I'm sick of being single but I honestly don't think I could go back to a vanilla relationship . i just enjoy fab way to much i love the social aspect just as much as the play . And in every vanilla relationship I was in the guy always complained that I liked sex to much 🙄 as I have such a high sex drive. A guy once broke up with me just because he could not make me climax.
And I know there will be good points and bad points to dating a fellow fabber . But I just think it would suit me better
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The Hungry Cats socials in Belfast have had four or five relationships come from their events, so it is possible to meet someone in the lifestyle 😁 |
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By *t777Woman 5 weeks ago
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"Ok question and please don't attack me i know this not tinder. but in fairness most of the guys on tinder or on fab .
But would you date someone on fab . I'm sick of being single but I honestly don't think I could go back to a vanilla relationship . i just enjoy fab way to much i love the social aspect just as much as the play . And in every vanilla relationship I was in the guy always complained that I liked sex to much 🙄 as I have such a high sex drive. A guy once broke up with me just because he could not make me climax.
And I know there will be good points and bad points to dating a fellow fabber . But I just think it would suit me better
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Absolutely, have done and will do if the opportunity arises again.
Good luck x |
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"Personally...no I would never date a fab man again. Learned my lesson
If you met a lovely guy and he asked you to give up the lifestyle… could you 🤔
I personally don't think I could. I have been on fab maybe 8 months now and I have gone on vanilladates while being on fab and tbh I found them boring 🫣"
It’s true!! Maybe it’s my age group but on my last vanilla date he asked if I have a pension and if my salary was in 6 figures yet- true story!! Everything gets so serious once you hit your forties. Just because you date in your forties doesn’t mean you want to get married and rush down the aisle. Dating in your forties should be like dating in your 20s, lots of sex, the craic and see where life leads you. There must be men on this site who want the same or am I mad. |
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I personally don't think I could. I have been on fab maybe 8 months now and I have gone on vanilladates while being on fab and tbh I found them boring 🫣
It’s true!! Maybe it’s my age group but on my last vanilla date he asked if I have a pension and if my salary was in 6 figures yet- true story!! Everything gets so serious once you hit your forties. Just because you date in your forties doesn’t mean you want to get married and rush down the aisle. Dating in your forties should be like dating in your 20s, lots of sex, the craic and see where life leads you. There must be men on this site who want the same or am I mad. "
I agree with you. I have friends who ask 'will this guy mind me when I'm old' and I'm thinking crikey one step at a time! See where it goes, enjoy the now and cross that bridge when you come to it. |
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For me personally the single life has more pros than cons yes it gets lonely sometimes but your free to cum and go as you please pardon the pun lol don't have to answer to anyone I'm just a single pringle and happy that way each to there own is what I'm saying |
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"What about dating without it leading to a long term relationship. Or is this a case of having your cake and eating it. "
I don't think that's called dating because you know it's never going anywhere
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"What about dating without it leading to a long term relationship. Or is this a case of having your cake and eating it. "
I do this. And there's plenty of people who like to go on dates that are not looking for a relationship or a fuck buddy.
I even had a date buddy (as opposed to a fuck buddy) for a while and it was great.
I know dating means looking for a relationship for a lot of people but there's no reason people can't enjoy all the nice things that go with going on a date too.
Labels are handy for describing things but it's not written down anywhere that we have to be bound by them.
I just look for what I want. |
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"What about dating without it leading to a long term relationship. Or is this a case of having your cake and eating it.
I do this. And there's plenty of people who like to go on dates that are not looking for a relationship or a fuck buddy.
I even had a date buddy (as opposed to a fuck buddy) for a while and it was great.
I know dating means looking for a relationship for a lot of people but there's no reason people can't enjoy all the nice things that go with going on a date too.
Labels are handy for describing things but it's not written down anywhere that we have to be bound by them.
I just look for what I want. "
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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I met a wonderful woman on Fab last year and we ended up togther for a year. We had a couples profile for a while.
I'm the same, I'm not 100% sure how youd bring up this lifestyle to a potential partner from Tinder or in a pub.
Monogamy is a dated idea, thrust upon us by institutions who jave little regard for your happiness, rather they are more interested in control and making you feel huilty for having urges and taking pleasure from sex.
Monogamy isn't for everyone and so long as you're honest with your partner, it doesn't need to be part of a committed and trust filled relationship.
Personally, I would want to see my partner experience every pleasure that I can give them and that others can offer them too.
I don't like one offs from Fab, I prefer a FWB situation and I would be completely open to a proper friendship and more with someone with whom I shared this Fab world with |
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By *ezoMan 4 weeks ago
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Well so long as both parties are clear in what they want out of a relationship it is all good.
Better if you have complimenting interests.
It is disappointing that all the people organinsing speed dating or longer lasting dating never seems to happen. |
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"What about dating without it leading to a long term relationship. Or is this a case of having your cake and eating it.
I do this. And there's plenty of people who like to go on dates that are not looking for a relationship or a fuck buddy.
I might actually think.about doing this
Because at the end of the day I never want to get married again. And i don't think I could live with anyone again either 🤔
I even had a date buddy (as opposed to a fuck buddy) for a while and it was great.
I know dating means looking for a relationship for a lot of people but there's no reason people can't enjoy all the nice things that go with going on a date too.
Labels are handy for describing things but it's not written down anywhere that we have to be bound by them.
I just look for what I want. "
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Yeah I believe dating someone of fab would genuinely be for me and the way to go forward
Both on the same wavelength both passionate sexual people looking the same and the social aspect together yeah I’d definitely be on for a healthy fab dating experience
Count me in |
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"Ok question and please don't attack me i know this not tinder. but in fairness most of the guys on tinder or on fab .
But would you date someone on fab . I'm sick of being single but I honestly don't think I could go back to a vanilla relationship . i just enjoy fab way to much i love the social aspect just as much as the play . And in every vanilla relationship I was in the guy always complained that I liked sex to much 🙄 as I have such a high sex drive. A guy once broke up with me just because he could not make me climax.
And I know there will be good points and bad points to dating a fellow fabber . But I just think it would suit me better
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It's as good as any place to find your soulmate . |
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