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Hi so I wanted to ask the ladies and couples out there, how do you pick the guys out of the noise?
What are some good things to do when messaging? And what are some omg don't do that experiences you have had?
What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?
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Personally, physical attraction plus the vibe of their message and profile would be the key to engagement. If that holds up over a few messages, then a social meet will determine whether we get over the line to something more.
There's nothing definable and no magic formula |
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"Personally, physical attraction plus the vibe of their message and profile would be the key to engagement. If that holds up over a few messages, then a social meet will determine whether we get over the line to something more.
There's nothing definable and no magic formula "
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By *hantomfemmeWoman 5 weeks ago
Sligo/Galway depends on the day |
For me it's personality and physical attraction. And the understanding that if I read the message and dont reply straight away im probably busy dealing with reality but will get back to you. Don't need messages saying my attitude sucks |
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What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?
Have a wank. "
Have a wank first, then read our profile and lastly think about what they want to say and formulate a coherent sentence  ohhh - And update their profile before messaging us. We really love one liners from black profiles  |
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"Hi so I wanted to ask the ladies and couples out there, how do you pick the guys out of the noise?
What are some good things to do when messaging? And what are some omg don't do that experiences you have had?
What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?
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Won't matter what you send to a lot of people, we pick from people we meet at parties or socials, you don't need a lot of people, just ones you are compatible with. |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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Great point. Need to start attending. Hard to know when very little response on here. I've met a few and it's impossible to stand out when there are 500 messages in a woman's inbox. It's insane. |
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"Hi so I wanted to ask the ladies and couples out there, how do you pick the guys out of the noise?
What are some good things to do when messaging? And what are some omg don't do that experiences you have had?
This is the route im going to be taking
What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?
Won't matter what you send to a lot of people, we pick from people we meet at parties or socials, you don't need a lot of people, just ones you are compatible with. "
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This whole thing of it’s impossible to stand out when there’s 500 messages in an inbox is nonsense.
Good messages and good profiles stand out no matter how many other unread messages there are.
The only reasons people have that many unread messages is because they have no filters set and they’re terrible at fab admin/they like to take screenshots to show how popular they are.
The way to get attention is to put effort in to your profile and pictures. That’s what people will look at before they consider replying. You could have crafted the most perfect message but if your profile is shit, you’ll be left on read. |
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Also it really doesn't take that long to go through a few hundred messages. Once you've deleted all the silhouettes and one word messages you're probably down to about five or ten coherent ones. Remove the ones that didn't read the profile and maybe you have two out of two hundred.
It's totally worth having a good profile a opening with a coherent friendly message.
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By *illdonCouple 5 weeks ago
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What makes me laugh is you get sent a message by a couple and you reply.... Never to hear from them again! As said earlier, socials are the way to go you can't beat that in person environment. I only come in here for the forum now to be honest. The other side of it is just a waste of time. C'est la vie! |
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By *licat.2Woman 5 weeks ago
Not Belfast but NI |
"This whole thing of it’s impossible to stand out when there’s 500 messages in an inbox is nonsense.
Good messages and good profiles stand out no matter how many other unread messages there are.
The only reasons people have that many unread messages is because they have no filters set and they’re terrible at fab admin/they like to take screenshots to show how popular they are.
The way to get attention is to put effort in to your profile and pictures. That’s what people will look at before they consider replying. You could have crafted the most perfect message but if your profile is shit, you’ll be left on read. "
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"This whole thing of it’s impossible to stand out when there’s 500 messages in an inbox is nonsense.
Good messages and good profiles stand out no matter how many other unread messages there are.
The only reasons people have that many unread messages is because they have no filters set and they’re terrible at fab admin/they like to take screenshots to show how popular they are.
The way to get attention is to put effort in to your profile and pictures. That’s what people will look at before they consider replying. You could have crafted the most perfect message but if your profile is shit, you’ll be left on read. "
Exactly this  |
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