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For us it's what there looking for followed by their bio and only if it's a decent read do we move onto pics and veris and the veris shouldn't have too much detail in them as we don't really mind what people do with others it's more to see if we can see if they will vibe with us |
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By *asheaMan 3 weeks ago
Killarney |
"What do you look at first?
Ours is :
1) age
2) location
3) number of verifications
4) read their profile
5) look at their photos
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For ladies it's age location, what they are looking for and pictures of they have them. For couples kinda all the same just the guy has to be straight. |
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Hmm good question ours is probably
1) age
2)location
3) bio length & vibe
4) public pics
5) veris (although don't really bother us as all the same generally)
6) bi female or not.
If the profile ticks the vast majority of our boxes we message generally. |
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"What do you look at first?
Ours is :
1) age
2) location
3) number of verifications
4) read their profile
5) look at their photos "
Everything , in no particular order tbh , l read the profile , sometimes there are things that don't allow me message, could be only looking for ladies or couples, distance , etc etc, everyone is different so it all depends tbh but the whole profile is read . |
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"What do you look at first?
Ours is :
1) age
2) location
3) number of verifications
4) read their profile
5) look at their photos "
Usually profile and photos.
Age and location will be taken care of by selection choice.
Verifications are only views of the person who leaves it .. I'd rather find out for myself.
I'm a very select choice so haven't have the opportunity as yet.
Time-wasters have been my main issue sadly. |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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All of the info in the order that’s displayed. When I get to the verifications I also look at the profiles of the people who left the verifications. Get a sense on whether they’d fuck anything that moves. |
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Yes, absolutely right, I would for the same, we know this is a swinging site, but our preference is Quality over Quantity, what we really would like is to meet a couple/ lady for regular social and fun times, not many here seems to meet anyone more than once, and that's their choice and we respect that, just not for us |
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By *ACOLCouple 2 weeks ago
Limerick |
"Hmm good question ours is probably
1) age
2)location
3) bio length & vibe
4) public pics
5) veris (although don't really bother us as all the same generally)
6) bi female or not.
If the profile ticks the vast majority of our boxes we message generally. "
Very similar here!
Lina. |
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"Hmm good question ours is probably
1) age
2)location
3) bio length & vibe
4) public pics
5) veris (although don't really bother us as all the same generally)
6) bi female or not.
If the profile ticks the vast majority of our boxes we message generally. "
We think its important to go through everything as you have listed above, before messaging, at least you can see if you both are both a potential match |
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By *og-ManMan 2 weeks ago
somewhere |
I view profiles because I've seen them on the forums
So the first thing I notice is their sense of humour followed by their profile picture
I usually send a message if filters allow just to say I like their profile and that they look great
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Profile pic (there's plenty that don't even do this)
Location, no point strinking up a conversation with anyone more than an hours drive away.
Are they actually single (if a solo person), at best they are up front, at worst we have to go by crumbs in a profile and err on the side of caution.
Age, our range is quite broad but there is a too young and a too old for us
What are they looking for in us?
Is there a good bio with a bit of thought put into it.
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For me it’s Profile picture first…hopefully with no toilets in view or close up of a d*
Smoking status and age
Then if I’ve managed to get that far it’s bio and other pics
Occasionally I’ll check veri’s but…are they really truthful? 🥴 Having them is definitely a bonus though
Bit cheeky as I say this all with a hidden profile but 🤷♀️🤭 |
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"For me it’s Profile picture first…hopefully with no toilets in view or close up of a d*
Smoking status and age
Then if I’ve managed to get that far it’s bio and other pics
Occasionally I’ll check veri’s but…are they really truthful? 🥴 Having them is definitely a bonus though
Bit cheeky as I say this all with a hidden profile but 🤷♀️🤭"
The only thing about veris, especially social ones, is that they will actually meet and aren't a fantasist hitting people up for wank chat and pic hunting with no intention of meeting. |
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By *om TangoMan 2 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
First thing
Have they made an effort of getting picture verified, if not have they any verification, if no I’m gone, if yes who from, is any verifications from single males and is any from going to socials.Next is age. read their bio. Check a few pictures. Had she any tattoos. Age and location. Do they accommodate or can they travel. |
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"For me it’s Profile picture first…hopefully with no toilets in view or close up of a d*
Smoking status and age
Then if I’ve managed to get that far it’s bio and other pics
Occasionally I’ll check veri’s but…are they really truthful? 🥴 Having them is definitely a bonus though
Bit cheeky as I say this all with a hidden profile but 🤷♀️🤭
The only thing about veris, especially social ones, is that they will actually meet and aren't a fantasist hitting people up for wank chat and pic hunting with no intention of meeting. "
Yes and no…I’ve experienced flaky guys with verifications…but supposedly that’s quite normal for fab guys? Not as reliable as for example couples, supposedly
But yes, they’re handy for the fantasist that you mention for sure! |
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"First thing
Have they made an effort of getting picture verified, if not have they any verification, if no I’m gone, if yes who from, is any verifications from single males and is any from going to socials.Next is age. read their bio. Check a few pictures. Had she any tattoos. Age and location. Do they accommodate or can they travel. "
I’m intrigued by the “verifications from single males or going to socials”? Are those a good or bad thing in your opinion? |
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If age and location work, I'll check out the pics first. Hoping not to be turned off by filthy background mess and seeing people who make an effort with their pics (no old grey badly fitting bra), I'll move on to the bio and personal details. Like to delve into the veris, read who gave them and what was said. And I read the reciprocal verification. A lot is read between the lines.
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"First thing
Have they made an effort of getting picture verified, if not have they any verification, if no I’m gone, if yes who from, is any verifications from single males and is any from going to socials.Next is age. read their bio. Check a few pictures. Had she any tattoos. Age and location. Do they accommodate or can they travel. "
I want to ask, are you looking for tattoos on the lady and if not is that a no from you? |
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If I was meeting and looking at profiles it's always age first and if they are outside my preferences I click out of that profile without looking at anything else.
Number of verifications is irrelevant as long as they have some but I'm more interested in who they have been verified by than what is written in the verification.
After that it's all down to the bio because if that doesn't tick my boxes we aren't compatible and it's pointless continuing.
If the bio is acceptable I'll look at their pics then but I've never once made a decision to chat to someone based on their pics. |
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By *om TangoMan 2 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
First thing
Have they made an effort of getting picture verified, if not have they any verification, if no I’m gone, if yes who from, is any verifications from single males and is any from going to socials.Next is age. read their bio. Check a few pictures. Had she any tattoos. Age and location. Do they accommodate or can they travel. |
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For us ,photo verification then age,would then look at interests ,we prefer to meet long term couples so that's also high up,we also look at veries and of course pics love to see nice tastefull sexy pics |
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