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Profile feedback - be brutally honest.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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I would love feedback on my profile. Im genuine, I certainly do not harass or give anyone on here the kind of abuse that some "men" do, however, I find it very difficult to A) get noticed and B) actually strike up conversation with anyone.
I try to be as respectful as possible. I will send a brief message with a face pic attached to a lady or couple profile that catches my attention and Im usually ignored.
It is actually quite nice when you receive a "no thanks you" reply. |
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By *affa31Woman 44 weeks ago
Galway |
The pic of the bed is weird. The pics of your hand on the massage table, also a bit weird.
Surely you’re advertising yourself, not a massage bed.
Your profile is heavily focused on squirting. That’s likely to make women think that that’s all you care about when the majority couldn’t give a shite if they squirt or not. |
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By *ustBoWoman 44 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Pretty much what Jaffa said ,plus the whole massage thing so many say that on here I'm sure most women have heard that countless times.
But if you think the profile reflects you and what you want it is perfect. Don't change a thing because it won't appeal to some and will appeal to others. There's no point in pretending to be something your are not. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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I'd remove all the photos but your first one and take a few new ones with you in them.
The dick beside an object photo is a running joke on Fab.
The massage thing is, unfortunately for you in this case, a very common USP for guys on Fab hoping to get their leg over.
I honestly think you have a better chance of getting laid based on your personality than you do by offering a massage. |
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" I will wink of your profile"
..that needs fixing.
Also be cautious about guaranteeing women orgasms, for quite a few women they can't even do that on their own and it comes across as overconfident. Keep it believable or a reader might not believe the rest of what you say either. |
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The part about wanting to meet women that haven't squirted and the drenched bed just turn me off immediately...but its the same with verifications saying "sorry about the bed/sofa/stairs etc, who the fuck wants to be lying there again when someone else's piss is sunk into it  |
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"I would love feedback on my profile. Im genuine, I certainly do not harass or give anyone on here the kind of abuse that some "men" do, however, I find it very difficult to A) get noticed and B) actually strike up conversation with anyone.
I try to be as respectful as possible. I will send a brief message with a face pic attached to a lady or couple profile that catches my attention and Im usually ignored.
It is actually quite nice when you receive a "no thanks you" reply. "
You not acknowledging the feedback after specifically asking for it is a big turn-off for me.
Also the squirting promises, why would you think women want to be 'taught how to squirt? If I could go back to the wonderful time when I couldn't squirt, I would gladly. But unfortunately, it is seen as a target by guys on Fab so once the floodgates are opened, there's no going back.
Bet you're sorry you asked now  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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Thank you all for the feedback. I asked you to be brutal and you absolutely were 🤣 It is appreciated though, sincerely.
I have updated my profile, and taken on the advice given.
I expect I'll have completed Fab in a few weeks 🤷♂️ (Inbetweeners reference for anyone who took that seriously)
Happy Fabbing everyone! |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I'd love a feedback on my profile. I'm a shy guy and is very respectful to the women here.
I also send a simple introduction message like "Hey I'm xx , I saw your profile and it looked really interesting, I'd love to chat with you and get to know you better".
Any kind of feedback on profile and how to talk to women here would be very helpful. Thanks 😊😊 |
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"I'd love a feedback on my profile. I'm a shy guy and is very respectful to the women here.
I also send a simple introduction message like "Hey I'm xx , I saw your profile and it looked really interesting, I'd love to chat with you and get to know you better".
Any kind of feedback on profile and how to talk to women here would be very helpful. Thanks 😊😊"
Hey there! You're in Dublin which hosts loads of events so I'd recommend attending socials and getting yourself out there.
As for your profile, your photos are good. I'd remove the virgin bit, that's for a conversation after you've agreed to play with someone. Also I'd remove the teaching reference. Generally older ladies aren't on here to teach younger guys, it's more about building a connection which can be done at socials. Good luck. Mrs  |
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"I'd love a feedback on my profile. I'm a shy guy and is very respectful to the women here.
I also send a simple introduction message like "Hey I'm xx , I saw your profile and it looked really interesting, I'd love to chat with you and get to know you better".
Any kind of feedback on profile and how to talk to women here would be very helpful. Thanks 😊😊"
If you so desire. 29 and still a virgin smacks of bullshit. Need to be discreet equals your with a dolly bird or worse, a wife. It doesn’t seem that appealing to women folk here I’m sure.
There’s no fast way on Fab. I’ve seen absolute pricks with less words than you on Fab and meet between 18 and 99 and verified by 50 women and I’ve seen profiles where they seem like a nice fella with a bit of info on his profile and it’s thin on the ground for him.
I’m not a fan of ‘socials’ and the be all of Fab if you want to get ‘known’. Fuck that but if you want to meet others socially, look out on the forums for dates, there’s usually one or two a month. |
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"Ok ye wonderful fabbers... have at my profile! I think it needs a refresh
Great bio but more up to date pics/videos wouldn’t hurt x
(Ignore mine 🤣)"
I agree, just need time to take them. I do have newer ones in my friends only though |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Ok ye wonderful fabbers... have at my profile! I think it needs a refresh"
I think your profile looks great ,I like how very detailed it is and doesn't need any changes.
Review mine too? |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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Would any of you review my profile.
I've been blocked and ignored by so many women when I've sent nice messages. I've never said anything derogatory or disrespectful.
I think its my profile |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Would any of you review my profile.
I've been blocked and ignored by so many women when I've sent nice messages. I've never said anything derogatory or disrespectful.
I think its my profile "
Change your pics it’s all cock no personality |
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"Ok ye wonderful fabbers... have at my profile! I think it needs a refresh
I think your profile looks great ,I like how very detailed it is and doesn't need any changes.
Photos are good, just need to divulge more in your bio like one of your said fantasies maybe? And get a veri from a person you've met, not just cam
Review mine too?"
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Would love to get on the feedback train 😂 braced for brutality..."
Pics have some artistic flair and it’s well presented . Maybe a little crude but it works |
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By *oe872Man 25 weeks ago
Antrim/Belfast |
Thank you!
The shower video is the perfect tease to open things up...
Love the detail and the clear setting out of what you want and don't want!
Also paragraphs 👌 nothing as infuriating as a large block of text, no matter what it says! |
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