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By *xhibitA OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Dublin |
what do you scrutinise first on a profile. I’ve found myself being more and more turned off by usernames lately.
For example, I looked at the profile pic (a male that seemed nice) they sent further pics that were ok. So far so good, but the username put me right off. I won’t out them  but it wasn’t far off ‘the anal ripper’ - and that was it. I was out!
What do you scrutinise?
More interested to hear other women and couples views on this. What’s in a username? There are some god awful ones around the place
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I never pay much attention to the username, but I won’t even look at a profile with a dick pic as a profile picture
First thing I check is height, cause I don’t want to be the elephant in the room 😅
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By *xhibitA OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Dublin |
"I never pay much attention to the username, but I won’t even look at a profile with a dick pic as a profile picture
First thing I check is height, cause I don’t want to be the elephant in the room 😅
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Be great to get the opportunity to assess a meet.
But ya, profile names and pictures can tell a tale but also give an idea of what people are into. Which is fine.
But those that are a bit crass can be a turn-off! |
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"what do you scrutinise first on a profile. I’ve found myself being more and more turned off by usernames lately.
For example, I looked at the profile pic (a male that seemed nice) they sent further pics that were ok. So far so good, but the username put me right off. I won’t out them but it wasn’t far off ‘the anal ripper’ - and that was it. I was out!
What do you scrutinise?
More interested to hear other women and couples views on this. What’s in a username? There are some god awful ones around the place
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Some are very very good , ones that a bit of thinking was put in, others not so much , basic tbh BUT a persons username would never decide anything for me , it's what they put on their updated status.. profiles, forums are the deciding factor for me. |
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By *xhibitA OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Dublin |
"Be great to get the opportunity to assess a meet.
But ya, profile names and pictures can tell a tale but also give an idea of what people are into. Which is fine.
But those that are a bit crass can be a turn-off!"
Glad I’m not the only one to think that! |
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By *xhibitA OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Dublin |
"what do you scrutinise first on a profile. I’ve found myself being more and more turned off by usernames lately.
For example, I looked at the profile pic (a male that seemed nice) they sent further pics that were ok. So far so good, but the username put me right off. I won’t out them but it wasn’t far off ‘the anal ripper’ - and that was it. I was out!
What do you scrutinise?
More interested to hear other women and couples views on this. What’s in a username? There are some god awful ones around the place
Some are very very good , ones that a bit of thinking was put in, others not so much , basic tbh BUT a persons username would never decide anything for me , it's what they put on their updated status.. profiles, forums are the deciding factor for me."
That’s fair. I’m more likely to ignore the likes of “daveybigdick” and “Ifancymysister” type profiles |
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"what do you scrutinise first on a profile. I’ve found myself being more and more turned off by usernames lately.
For example, I looked at the profile pic (a male that seemed nice) they sent further pics that were ok. So far so good, but the username put me right off. I won’t out them but it wasn’t far off ‘the anal ripper’ - and that was it. I was out!
What do you scrutinise?
More interested to hear other women and couples views on this. What’s in a username? There are some god awful ones around the place
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if they have long list of wants on there profile or they just waffle on lol |
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Oh I scrutinise everything. I’m basically like CSI crossed with the Revenue Commissioners
First, I zoom in on their profile pics like I’m analysing satellite imagery. If I can spot dirt under nails or if they have shit under the bed it throws me off
Typos? One or two, fine. But if you write ‘your sexy’ instead of ‘you’re sexy' I'm on the back foot 
And don’t get me started on the bed. If your sheets look like they’ve survived a catfight or your pillows are shaped like pancakes…or if you leave your clothes on the floor, sorry, I just remembered I left my oven on.
Do I even need to mention Toilets, why on earth do people take pictures with a toilet in the background.
Also if you write “we’re drama-free” — you're 100% not. That's swinger code for “we once had a screaming match in the corridor of The Aspect after Vanilla and someone threw a flip-flop or a Croc.”
If your profile pic is just the guy with his shirt off and the caption “she’s camera shy,” I already know she doesn’t exist… or she’s tied up in the basement. Or if your pics are all her, but every message is from him, she’s not the hotwife, you’re the star of the show, and I didn’t buy tickets
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"Oh I scrutinise everything. I’m basically like CSI crossed with the Revenue Commissioners
First, I zoom in on their profile pics like I’m analysing satellite imagery. If I can spot dirt under nails or if they have shit under the bed it throws me off
Typos? One or two, fine. But if you write ‘your sexy’ instead of ‘you’re sexy' I'm on the back foot
And don’t get me started on the bed. If your sheets look like they’ve survived a catfight or your pillows are shaped like pancakes…or if you leave your clothes on the floor, sorry, I just remembered I left my oven on.
Do I even need to mention Toilets, why on earth do people take pictures with a toilet in the background.
Also if you write “we’re drama-free” — you're 100% not. That's swinger code for “we once had a screaming match in the corridor of The Aspect after Vanilla and someone threw a flip-flop or a Croc.”
If your profile pic is just the guy with his shirt off and the caption “she’s camera shy,” I already know she doesn’t exist… or she’s tied up in the basement. Or if your pics are all her, but every message is from him, she’s not the hotwife, you’re the star of the show, and I didn’t buy tickets
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Gynaecological pics are a bit if a turn off, to be honest.
I like to give people benefit of the doubt when it comes to typos in the profiles, autocorrect can torpedo a good piece of text. But I do find a general unawareness of the difference between there/their/they’re is something I can’t overlook. |
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To us usernames are irrelevant, but we do like profiles with a bit of thought rather than 2 sentences.
If we see multiple verifications of social meets that are over the top flattering but no follow up play date verifications it seems odd. Probably irrelevant but a red flag to us.
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By *hantomfemmeWoman 1 week ago
Sligo/Galway depends on the day |
Usernames can be a turn off. I wont even reply if there is no profile pic, the min I get a dick pic im gone. And if profile pic is a cock or balls pic it would definitely put me off meeting.... seen the goods so why bother with the fun of a chase |
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Usernames can be a big difference maker anything that would lead to thinking of someone who overly enjoys something that we aren't looking for example (no idea if this is a real screenname) bully bull toxic would really turn us off |
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