So I was going to message someone and on reading the profile she says she wants a face pic with the first message.
So I'm just wondering, does everyone have a 'go to' face pic that they send? Is it one from a night out where someone took it and you look good? Is it a selfie? Does it have slight filters on it?
Or are you like me that sends the face pic I took to get picture verified? It probably won't get me anywhere now that I think of it  |
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By *ettaManMan 5 days ago
Based in Kerry, work in Cork. |
I have a picture of a couple from Blarney that I send asking if they remember us....
Nah, I'm kidding. I have one saved in my private pics that I sometimes use or else I just take a few selfies until I get just the right angle to see the lynx can.... |
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"I never send face pics....prefer to see the look of disappointment on their face when I turn up.for a coffee "
I used to do this on a previous profile! The smile / excitement on their face slowly turing to disappointment / horror never gets old |
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"Personally we would never send a face pic as a first message. We like to make sure someone can hold a conversation before even suggesting it lol"
Without wanting to state the obvious difference between a couple with a good, well verified profile of a couple that appears to be known and well liked in the scene, and a single guy with a shit profile and 1 veri, I feel in this instance, I feel this difference is very relevant!
For the record, I agree with you, I didn't send the face pic or the message! |
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"I have a picture of a couple from Blarney that I send asking if they remember us....
Nah, I'm kidding. I have one saved in my private pics that I sometimes use or else I just take a few selfies until I get just the right angle to see the lynx can...."
I think this is the way to go! |
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"Personally we would never send a face pic as a first message. We like to make sure someone can hold a conversation before even suggesting it lol
Without wanting to state the obvious difference between a couple with a good, well verified profile of a couple that appears to be known and well liked in the scene, and a single guy with a shit profile and 1 veri, I feel in this instance, I feel this difference is very relevant!
For the record, I agree with you, I didn't send the face pic or the message!"
There's no difference really apart from some men feeling they don't have any choice and have to send a pic.
I don't have any face pics on here and don't send them at all. |
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Don't send it if you are not comfortable with it.
I have a couple I alternate between when sending. Obviously there were 40 deleted before I picked them 
I only send to people I have plans to meet or that ive talked with a long time, its nice to get a feel for someone |
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"God I would never send a face pic with the 1st message. And would never ask for 1. What kind of a beauty queen is she that she has to see how ya look before your personality. "
Plenty aren't here for personality so it does serve a purpose. They are just being very clear in what they want. |
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Yes quite a few profiles on here state that they will not reply unless message is accompanied by a face pic and a few even state that they will never send one.
I treat them the same as someone who's age range I am outside, NEXT |
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Found my face pic that I shared back in 2018 with someone on Fab when I did search on facial recognition search so no way would I share with anyone now. I was careful who I had shared with but obviously not careful enough. |
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We have a go to face pic but we wouldn't send it until a few messages have been exchanged. Having one ready for send out means if someone does a reverse search it doesn't appear anywhere else like Facebook. |
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"I have no problem sending a face pic but that's just me.
Its when you are blocked after sending one without a reply...that's annoying....but it's FAB...use to it.
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That's just fucking rude right there. Almost as rude as send them one on the promise that they will return the favour but they don't. |
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