If a woman posts that she is in the mood the boys come running,but if a man does the same,women run the other way...i know this is the age old question but if thid is "modern" times why is it still so?maybe i am way of on this? |
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Yet again thats what i am getting at.if a man puts up id like to do xyz to you,you might block or invite him,same as if it was a sensual message.how is a dumb male suppose to know which one will get him a green light to the next stage? |
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"Yet again thats what i am getting at.if a man puts up id like to do xyz to you,you might block or invite him,same as if it was a sensual message.how is a dumb male suppose to know which one will get him a green light to the next stage?"
How do you manage talking to people in the pub? Do you insist on everyone wearing a sign to tell you how they will react if you ask them different questions?  |
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I think you are going of topic o abit micheal.another good example i seen here recently was a girl looking for 2 men.i am sure within an hour she had at least 5 offers,are you tell me it would be the same ifa man posted that.i know the ratio in here is about 6to1 but still there is a big diffence.as for the pub,comunication is not what i am talking about and you know it. |
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I think, in general, the Irish forum is a lot more tolerant of guys and guys making requests than other places in the fab forum.
There's definitely a vibe though and it is hard being a single guy if you are not established in the scene.
You'd have to admit yourself though, a very large cohort of men on fab would fuck anyone and have all the class and tact of rabid dog. Women don't often behave like that in pubic.
So all things being equal we would all behave the same and be treated the same. But we're not and we aren't. It has ever been thus. |
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"If a woman posts that she is in the mood the boys come running,but if a man does the same,women run the other way...i know this is the age old question but if thid is "modern" times why is it still so?maybe i am way of on this?"
all are different but as i have stated a couple times before. Women are wired very differently to men in a large majority.
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Ye,i get what your saying about some guys.a girl once told me she ivited a guy of here to her house.she opened the door.he came in,bent her over the coach,did what he did n left.as you say alot o guys on here might think the same as him.as you say unless your well got in here,but its very difficult to get that far in here.being nice doesnt seem to get you anywhere.yet a girl chatted with me one night n wanted to meet there n then as she had a free house,it didnt suit me at the time,and she hasnt been on since i can only presume she got a fella n got sorted..lol.just to give context she had no pic,veri's or details.now if that was a fella how long would he be searching for the same? |
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Your right of course. A fella with a blank profile wouldn't get a look in.
Men don't fear for their safety they same women have to. That's pretty obvious right?
I'm not sure what you are getting at here.
Its not a level playing field. A lot more men than women will always be less discerning and more dangerous. |
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I am not really getting at anything other than tge boy/girl debate.is the scales tipping back to the girls side more now than ever?with such freer and more accepting societys should it not be balancing more?its not that i want a free fun all,(but might be nice).lol but as the song goes,"the good guys get washed away"and the few horrible ones give us men all a bad name..what ye think? |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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I think that women are quite well able to pick out the guys they want and the thirsty try hard guys with no clue, or class, actually make the smart guys stand out and set the bar so low and that there's really no excuse. |
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Did you never hear of wolves in sheeps clothing?but you are right,girls are smart enough but they can olso be conned,and one horrible meet could put them of this forever.the clubs would be the perfect place to meet but either people are to nervous or doesnt suit then.i think in a club its more level playing field and first connection is easier.i am talking about the one to one.the guys sending message with no reply,and god forbid you ever tell them "i am free now".but thats all a girl needs to do. |
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"If a woman posts that she is in the mood the boys come running,but if a man does the same,women run the other way...i know this is the age old question but if thid is "modern" times why is it still so?maybe i am way of on this?"
Because they are running to the penis they want.
Supply and demand, and there is plenty supply.
Its not about being prudish or stuck in "old times".
They are simply getting it somewhere else |
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It is kind of shocking that when you tell a woman your available for sex right now they don't appreciate that more. I guess they just don't fully understand how hard it is being a man. |
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"It is kind of shocking that when you tell a woman your available for sex right now they don't appreciate that more. I guess they just don't fully understand how hard it is being a man."
I've never experienced that tbh.
They usually just come running |
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"It is kind of shocking that when you tell a woman your available for sex right now they don't appreciate that more. I guess they just don't fully understand how hard it is being a man.
I've never experienced that tbh.
They usually just come running "
See, it's actually guys like you that ruin it for the rest. Probably ruin the women while your at it |
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Sweet lord. It's like watching a conversation with a 14 yo. Some really excellent points made by men here, those who obviously have learned to understand women and how they work and the very big differences to how men work. There is no guide book, but come on, there are realities that will always exist as long as we are the more vulnerable sex and as long as men think with their cocks. |
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"Sweet lord. It's like watching a conversation with a 14 yo. Some really excellent points made by men here, those who obviously have learned to understand women and how they work and the very big differences to how men work. There is no guide book, but come on, there are realities that will always exist as long as we are the more vulnerable sex and as long as men think with their cocks."
”to understand women and how they work”? You could be Einstein and that won’t be achieved.
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I didn't mean 100% 'understand' and I did think of clarifying when I wrote that last post, but I figured people knew what I meant. There was an obvious degree of men able to talk to the way women work. None of us are that stereotypical that our behaviour will be fully predicted (even by people who know us) but there are generalisations. |
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"I didn't mean 100% 'understand' and I did think of clarifying when I wrote that last post, but I figured people knew what I meant. There was an obvious degree of men able to talk to the way women work. None of us are that stereotypical that our behaviour will be fully predicted (even by people who know us) but there are generalisations. "
course but The worse thing I see on here is jump into a profile and the first paragraph is just pure negativity after negativity and sometimes the whole lot. I think the big difference on the site is many men would fuck a different woman every few weeks but most women want to find one compatible man and that makes it even harder again for men on sites like this. It’s like my original post. Wired differently.
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