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By (user no longer on site) OP 33 weeks ago
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Genuine question?
I mean, I know some that have said, no.. but that doesn't mean they don't lol
And when we were younger girls used to say "na I don't do that"
But a really genuine question, is there some girls that just flat out refuse to? For one reason or another.
I should also say, That is of course any girls choice not to and must be respected.
Just genuinely curious |
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Giving oral to a woman turns me on but receiving it ot not receiving it from a woman doesn't really bother me. I dont think i have ever met a woman though that said she doesn't do oral and to be fair most women iv ever been with have given me oral |
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"I’m lost- I thought all women gave oral? What reason do they give for not doing it? So the women who say no also expect to receive oral?? Milly x"
Maybe they don't because of sexually transmitted diseases.
I personally have never felt the need to say no. |
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"I’m lost- I thought all women gave oral? What reason do they give for not doing it? So the women who say no also expect to receive oral?? Milly x"
I don't think people are obligated to give a reason for not performing oral sex.
Also so what if they want to receive and not give? |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"I’m lost- I thought all women gave oral? What reason do they give for not doing it? So the women who say no also expect to receive oral?? Milly x"
It wouldn't occur to me to deny a woman because she had boundaries or limits tbh.
If you think about it the other way around.
A guy goes down on a woman and then demands a blowjob... |
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By *og-ManMan 33 weeks ago
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"I’m lost- I thought all women gave oral? What reason do they give for not doing it? So the women who say no also expect to receive oral?? Milly x"
Isn't the term Pillow princess used in this case or am I wrong
I'd imagine it's just a case of not liking the actual of having a dick or taste in your mouth
I'd imagine if men were asked if they could only do one sex act for the rest of their lives and given a choice of giving or receiving oral
Most would pick giving |
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"I’m lost- I thought all women gave oral? What reason do they give for not doing it? So the women who say no also expect to receive oral?? Milly x
Isn't the term Pillow princess used in this case or am I wrong
I'd imagine it's just a case of not liking the actual of having a dick or taste in your mouth
I'd imagine if men were asked if they could only do one sex act for the rest of their lives and given a choice of giving or receiving oral
Most would pick giving "
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By *affa31Woman 33 weeks ago
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"I’m lost- I thought all women gave oral? What reason do they give for not doing it? So the women who say no also expect to receive oral?? Milly x
Isn't the term Pillow princess used in this case or am I wrong
I'd imagine it's just a case of not liking the actual of having a dick or taste in your mouth
I'd imagine if men were asked if they could only do one sex act for the rest of their lives and given a choice of giving or receiving oral
Most would pick giving "
They’ll say giving but not in a million years would the vast majority actually mean it. |
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I'd imagine if men were asked if they could only do one sex act for the rest of their lives and given a choice of giving or receiving oral
Most would pick giving "
Yeah, fuck no haha.
I was sporadically seeing a civilian for a while and she said shes only sucked the cocks of men shes loved. She said it felt too submissive and degrading to do it otherwise. Disappointing, obviously but at least she wasn't in love.
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"I’m lost- I thought all women gave oral? What reason do they give for not doing it? So the women who say no also expect to receive oral?? Milly x"
Sorry, I’m Not talking about consent or feeling obligated etc what I was thinking was that if I’m Going to fuck a dude and kiss him and share a bed with him, be it a long term partner or ONS, why would I give him Oral. If it’s a worry about STIs lash a Johnnie on. And I was just wondering if anyone had ever been given a reason why the fem Wouldn’t, not the males presumption to why she wouldn’t? And I was wondering if anyone male had been in a position when the fem Said she would give but would receive. I didn’t say that she’s obligated to explain or that it should be done without her consent- just for clarity!! Milly x |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Can't remember ever being with a woman that didn't as a rule. Actually had a fwb that made me wait for 2 months before touching me, while made me go down on her multiple times every time we met, she claimed she was testing me to see how long I'd keep coming back but then enjoyed it too much! |
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Of course not all girls give blowjobs, they’re not robots, they have likes and dislikes just like you.
Hold on, are you a robot?!? Fab any of my pics that show traffic lights, just to be sure.
Even the ones that enjoy giving will not necessarily like you cumming in their mouth. I once checked during a blowjob, “careful I’m going to cum” and I got the reply “that’s the idea!”  |
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By *dfabMan 32 weeks ago
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I recall a conversation with a few female friends a long time back. They all thought that the oral giving was more intimate and reserved for those they wanted more than a one off with. They felt fucking was fine but BJ's were for those they wanted to keep around longer.
Kinda makes sense, to some degree.
Oh and Jaffa, not every guy prefers receiving to giving. Just saying. |
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By *aagirlWoman 32 weeks ago
Laois, Carlow, Kildare |
"Can't remember ever being with a woman that didn't as a rule. Actually had a fwb that made me wait for 2 months before touching me, while made me go down on her multiple times every time we met, she claimed she was testing me to see how long I'd keep coming back but then enjoyed it too much!"
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"Personally im not a fan of giving bjs but hubby doesn't mind as he would rather be giving me oral
He is frantically shaking his head in the background as this was written "
No i wasn't shaking my head lol personally I don't like getting a blow job never have so im honestly a lot happier not getting bjs |
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"Genuine question?
I mean, I know some that have said, no.. but that doesn't mean they don't lol
And when we were younger girls used to say "na I don't do that"
But a really genuine question, is there some girls that just flat out refuse to? For one reason or another.
I should also say, That is of course any girls choice not to and must be respected.
Just genuinely curious "
I know some that don't some like it some dont like with everything |
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An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...  |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I do enjoy giving blow jobs but hate when some men get too pushy trying to ram it down your throat just kills the mood let me take control and stop trying to make me gag |
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I have had a few do it and also a few that said no they dont do that lol but got told belfast is best place to get one as they know what they are doing and 100 percent honest im yet to meet one that knows what to do and near sucked it inside out xx |
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them... "
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft? 
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔 |
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔"
If you don't make me blow I dont record you in my bj book |
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"Genuine question?
I mean, I know some that have said, no.. but that doesn't mean they don't lol
And when we were younger girls used to say "na I don't do that"
But a really genuine question, is there some girls that just flat out refuse to? For one reason or another.
I should also say, That is of course any girls choice not to and must be respected.
Just genuinely curious "
Of course some women aren't interested in giving oral, and if they say they no it would be wiser to take that at face value rather than adopting the position of "that doesn't mean they don't".
Human beings of all genders are diverse. We all enjoy different things. We might even enjoy different things on different days, or with different people. I like purple sprouting broccoli but I don't want to eat it every day with every meal. Some people don't like it at all as they find it too bitter. Others only like it cooked a certain way or in a certain dish.
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔
If you don't make me blow I dont record you in my bj book"
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔"
If I’ve got to the point of having my cock out with a woman about to “start” a bj I’m already hard! 
(Unless I’m being woke up by it) |
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them... "
Don't be daft! If your with a woman and she is going to give you a BJ, the majority of men will already be hard/semi by the time she's removing your clothing! |
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔
If you don't make me blow I dont record you in my bj book
Harsh "
🤷♂️ keep standards up LK |
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I've dated 4 women that didn't give them, all for different reasons. One of them oddly enough was she was saying oral (both receiving and giving) for marriage yet she would do nearly everything else |
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I love this thread.
So, having never enjoyed them in marriage as the X would cum in seconds and it was game over as he couldn't get hard again.
Then I came to Fab and realised that sex is actually amazing, all of it, especially giving head. It's so hot to know what I'm doing is being enjoyed. Love a vocal man too.
I also have seen the other side where a guy I met from here had never had a BJ ever in his life. Married his first love and she didn't like doing it so he had (note past tense 😂) never had a BJ.
Anyway, I absolutely love to give them. |
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By *dfabMan 31 weeks ago
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔"
Why would it matter if he starts soft?
If what you're doing gets him hard, then you're doing something he's enjoying.
Once you've got your mouth around a cock, it's a blow job.
Whether he cums or not is down to what you both want and how you want to proceed.
Also no guy should have an issue if the giver wants you to wear a condom for it.
Not white knighting!
Safe sex and health go hand in hand.
Just don't forget to mention you will need a dental dam before you go down on her also.
Equality and safety in equal measures folks |
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔
Why would it matter if he starts soft?
If what you're doing gets him hard, then you're doing something he's enjoying.
Once you've got your mouth around a cock, it's a blow job.
Whether he cums or not is down to what you both want and how you want to proceed.
Also no guy should have an issue if the giver wants you to wear a condom for it.
Not white knighting!
Safe sex and health go hand in hand.
Just don't forget to mention you will need a dental dam before you go down on her also.
Equality and safety in equal measures folks "
There was a heavy dose of sarcasm in my reply to the OP here. I'm not actually questioning what constitutes a blow job, or what the qualifying starting point is |
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔"
A blowjob is a standalone sexual act. He may be soft, semi erect, or fully excited and hard, before you start. But it’s the fact you suck him until he blows, that makes it a blowjob. Otherwise it’s just foreplay, and you sucked him before penetration.
Hope this helps? |
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔
If you don't make me blow I dont record you in my bj book"
Exactly this 😎👍 |
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔
A blowjob is a standalone sexual act. He may be soft, semi erect, or fully excited and hard, before you start. But it’s the fact you suck him until he blows, that makes it a blowjob. Otherwise it’s just foreplay, and you sucked him before penetration.
Hope this helps?"
So if I have penetrative sex with someone and one or both of us doesn't have an orgasm, was it not sex?
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔
A blowjob is a standalone sexual act. He may be soft, semi erect, or fully excited and hard, before you start. But it’s the fact you suck him until he blows, that makes it a blowjob. Otherwise it’s just foreplay, and you sucked him before penetration.
Hope this helps?
So if I have penetrative sex with someone and one or both of us doesn't have an orgasm, was it not sex?
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If one of you had an orgasm, they had sex, the other had a sexy play 🙃 |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Mansplaining blowjobs is peak fab.
And your wrong.
A blowjob, technically called Fellatio, is an oral sex act consisting of the stimulation of a penis by using the mouth.
That's it.
Now a Brojob...
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔
A blowjob is a standalone sexual act. He may be soft, semi erect, or fully excited and hard, before you start. But it’s the fact you suck him until he blows, that makes it a blowjob. Otherwise it’s just foreplay, and you sucked him before penetration.
Hope this helps?
So if I have penetrative sex with someone and one or both of us doesn't have an orgasm, was it not sex?
If one of you had an orgasm, they had sex, the other had a sexy play 🙃"
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"An actual, genuine blowjob, from start to finish? Soft, to hard, to ejaculation?
I can count on one hand how many genuine bj's I've received, and I have a couple of fingers spare! The last was in 2017....
Women (in my experience) only suck cock, to get it hard for penetration. It's just foreplay to them...
Is it only an actual genuine blow job if the guy starts off soft?
Personally, I love giving oral. Sometimes it's a precursor to something else, sometimes it's an interlude, sometimes it's the finale, and sometimes it's a standalone act.
I'm now questioning how many blow jobs I've actually given if "from soft" is a determining factor 🤔
A blowjob is a standalone sexual act. He may be soft, semi erect, or fully excited and hard, before you start. But it’s the fact you suck him until he blows, that makes it a blowjob. Otherwise it’s just foreplay, and you sucked him before penetration.
Hope this helps?
So if I have penetrative sex with someone and one or both of us doesn't have an orgasm, was it not sex?
If one of you had an orgasm, they had sex, the other had a sexy play 🙃
Bovine Faeces "
I’m guessing you don’t orgasm through penetrative sex then? 🤔
“We had sex last night, but I didn’t cum”
“I gave him a blowjob, but he didn’t cum”
If a tree falls in the woods, but nobody sees it fall, did it really fall……? 🤪 |
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"How do you stop a woman giving you a blow job,marry her 
Soooo many men nodding their heads disconsolately after reading this... "
Cpuld also read:
How do you get a man to stop doing the things that made you want to marry him in the first place...marry him! |
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By *affa31Woman 27 weeks ago
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"Fuck me how does anyone stay married "
I often wonder that and tbh, why anyone gets married in the first place. If anyone follows thefabulouspharmacist, her Sunday confessions are all people whinging about their partners.
I know we always hear more whinging that positives but Christ, if you’re all so unhappy, do something about it! |
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"How do you stop a woman giving you a blow job,marry her
Soooo many men nodding their heads disconsolately after reading this...
Cpuld also read:
How do you get a man to stop doing the things that made you want to marry him in the first place...marry him!"
Ahh; the irony of your statement being such a mouthful….😋 |
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"Fuck me how does anyone stay married
I often wonder that and tbh, why anyone gets married in the first place. If anyone follows thefabulouspharmacist, her Sunday confessions are all people whinging about their partners.
I know we always hear more whinging that positives but Christ, if you’re all so unhappy, do something about it!"
True that whinging will always be loudest, same with everything!
Mrs is always reading out those confessions to me. Some people live in a terrible existence! |
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By *og-ManMan 27 weeks ago
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"Fuck me how does anyone stay married
I often wonder that and tbh, why anyone gets married in the first place. If anyone follows thefabulouspharmacist, her Sunday confessions are all people whinging about their partners.
I know we always hear more whinging that positives but Christ, if you’re all so unhappy, do something about it!
True that whinging will always be loudest, same with everything!
Mrs is always reading out those confessions to me. Some people live in a terrible existence!"
When you say reading out to you .....a warning perhaps |
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"Fuck me how does anyone stay married
I often wonder that and tbh, why anyone gets married in the first place. If anyone follows thefabulouspharmacist, her Sunday confessions are all people whinging about their partners.
I know we always hear more whinging that positives but Christ, if you’re all so unhappy, do something about it!
True that whinging will always be loudest, same with everything!
Mrs is always reading out those confessions to me. Some people live in a terrible existence!
When you say reading out to you .....a warning perhaps "
Perhaps!!
Some are hilarious, some just very ignorant where you feel sorry for the man, others just really sad! |
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I'll attempt some sort of sloppy kisses but my deep throating days are over 🙃 