Question for the ladies who have this on your profile: Does it work? Do you get messages from married men saying “You’ll make an exception for me”? Do you arrange meets, only to find he’s wearing a ring, or the tell-tale sign he’s just taken it off? |
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It's a personal choice for everyone who they want to meet.
Personally, it doesn't bother me what their marital status is as long as they are discreet.
But please don't make this another fucking debate about cheating men or cheating women.
Everyone's heard that bullshit!!!  |
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"It's a personal choice for everyone who they want to meet.
Personally, it doesn't bother me what their marital status is as long as they are discreet.
But please don't make this another fucking debate about cheating men or cheating women.
Everyone's heard that bullshit!!! "
Agreed 100% |
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"It's a personal choice for everyone who they want to meet.
Personally, it doesn't bother me what their marital status is as long as they are discreet.
But please don't make this another fucking debate about cheating men or cheating women.
Everyone's heard that bullshit!!! "
This is my opinion.
NOW NOBODY ELSE GIVE THEIR OPINION
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"It's a personal choice for everyone who they want to meet.
Personally, it doesn't bother me what their marital status is as long as they are discreet.
But please don't make this another fucking debate about cheating men or cheating women.
Everyone's heard that bullshit!!!
Yes discussion closed 🤣
This is my opinion.
NOW NOBODY ELSE GIVE THEIR OPINION
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"It's a personal choice for everyone who they want to meet.
Personally, it doesn't bother me what their marital status is as long as they are discreet.
But please don't make this another fucking debate about cheating men or cheating women.
Everyone's heard that bullshit!!!
Yes discussion closed 🤣
This is my opinion.
NOW NOBODY ELSE GIVE THEIR OPINION
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Would be a shame to close the discussion before ANYONE actually answered the question that was asked |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"Question for the ladies who have this on your profile: Does it work? Do you get messages from married men saying “You’ll make an exception for me”? Do you arrange meets, only to find he’s wearing a ring, or the tell-tale sign he’s just taken it off?"
People can put whatever they want on their profile, it's their's, the only people that pay any attention to it are the people that read it , wether they go with what's written or take it upon themselves to do other wise ie if they are married what's to stop them saying they're single ? |
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"It's a personal choice for everyone who they want to meet.
Personally, it doesn't bother me what their marital status is as long as they are discreet.
But please don't make this another fucking debate about cheating men or cheating women.
Everyone's heard that bullshit!!!
Yes discussion closed 🤣
This is my opinion.
NOW NOBODY ELSE GIVE THEIR OPINION
Would be a shame to close the discussion before ANYONE actually answered the question that was asked "
Especially the ladies as it was their opinion was sought 😬 |
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Exactly. I mean this is hardly a dating site for single lonely hearts. It’s a swinger site involving lots of married and taken men and women. If people want singles the they need to leave and go to match or something |
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By *affa31Woman 33 weeks ago
Galway |
"Exactly. I mean this is hardly a dating site for single lonely hearts. It’s a swinger site involving lots of married and taken men and women. If people want singles the they need to leave and go to match or something "
Eh no  |
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By *ealmc1973Man 33 weeks ago
Limerick, Clare, Tipperary |
"Ya gotta love that, once again, a question is aimed at women and all but one reply are from men.
Ye can’t help yourselves can ye "
Jaff, given the blokes/ladies ratio on here, most topics would be left without any reply whatsoever |
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"Ya gotta love that, once again, a question is aimed at women and all but one reply are from men.
Ye can’t help yourselves can ye "
And the one woman who DOES reply doesn’t answer the question!
I’m kidding. |
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By *affa31Woman 33 weeks ago
Galway |
"Ya gotta love that, once again, a question is aimed at women and all but one reply are from men.
Ye can’t help yourselves can ye
Jaff, given the blokes/ladies ratio on here, most topics would be left without any reply whatsoever "
I’ll think you find that women are very active on the forum when we want to be |
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By *affa31Woman 33 weeks ago
Galway |
"Ya gotta love that, once again, a question is aimed at women and all but one reply are from men.
Ye can’t help yourselves can ye
And the one woman who DOES reply doesn’t answer the question!
I’m kidding."
Cause it’s a minefield of a topic. |
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"Ya gotta love that, once again, a question is aimed at women and all but one reply are from men.
Ye can’t help yourselves can ye
And the one woman who DOES reply doesn’t answer the question!
I’m kidding.
Cause it’s a minefield of a topic. "
Respectfully, all I want to know is, do you feel it works? Given that you have it in your profile, I feel you’re the perfect candidate to answer |
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By *affa31Woman 33 weeks ago
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"Ya gotta love that, once again, a question is aimed at women and all but one reply are from men.
Ye can’t help yourselves can ye
And the one woman who DOES reply doesn’t answer the question!
I’m kidding.
Cause it’s a minefield of a topic.
Respectfully, all I want to know is, do you feel it works? Given that you have it in your profile, I feel you’re the perfect candidate to answer "
No it doesn’t. The vast majority of men do not read profiles before messaging. |
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"Ya gotta love that, once again, a question is aimed at women and all but one reply are from men.
Ye can’t help yourselves can ye
And the one woman who DOES reply doesn’t answer the question!
I’m kidding.
Cause it’s a minefield of a topic.
Respectfully, all I want to know is, do you feel it works? Given that you have it in your profile, I feel you’re the perfect candidate to answer
No it doesn’t. The vast majority of men do not read profiles before messaging. "
Thank you for your input |
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"Question for the ladies who have this on your profile: Does it work? Do you get messages from married men saying “You’ll make an exception for me”? Do you arrange meets, only to find he’s wearing a ring, or the tell-tale sign he’s just taken it off?"
Guys either hide it or they are up front.
They might say in the first few messages or they don't and just keep cancelling meets at the last minute.
Plenty of women meet married men. It just narrows your playing field. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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For me personally, no. I dont want anything to do with attached guys and I spell this out loud and clear in my bio.
For anyone else on here, its your personal choice. Nothing to do with me. |
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"For me personally, no. I dont want anything to do with attached guys and I spell this out loud and clear in my bio.
For anyone else on here, its your personal choice. Nothing to do with me. "
Am single never had a band ring but I wear two family rings both them fingers, one since my grandma passed when I was 18 and one when my father passed 2005 and only explain if asked, We are not all controlled by religion , God bless you lol  |
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I am exactly the same. It's not for me and to answer the OP's question the way I overcome this is by insisting that the guy accommodates first before I will have them at my house. This s out a lot of the married men. I also refuse to do hotel meets as this is often a married man working away from home. Nor should a meet cost a hotel room. It's not sustainable.
I would also never shame anyone for anything they seek on Fab married or not. None of us know what that person lives with. Nor is it our business. Hope that makes sense. |
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"I am exactly the same. It's not for me and to answer the OP's question the way I overcome this is by insisting that the guy accommodates first before I will have them at my house. This s out a lot of the married men. I also refuse to do hotel meets as this is often a married man working away from home. Nor should a meet cost a hotel room. It's not sustainable.
I would also never shame anyone for anything they seek on Fab married or not. None of us know what that person lives with. Nor is it our business. Hope that makes sense. "
I think that is a very fair approach. If a man is honest about his status - then women can make a judgement call.
I don't message anyone who says they are not interested in attached men. |
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