Been chatting to an older lady for a while and were due to meet today actually but something came up and I had to cancel, that is life sometimes.
However, during the week she mentioned wanting to be spoiled, not only in a sexual way but with gifts and trips etc etc etc.
It was in a general sense like not aimed at me fully but as if she hadnt had it before but wanted to meet a fella that fitted that bill.
She also says do you think I'm a gold digger.
Ive got fok all to give like that.
Wanted to throw it out there to all, is this a red flag or was I reading too deep into it? |
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By *rRiosMan 32 weeks ago
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I would see it as an orange flag but context is key really. Was she steering the conversation this way continually or was it just a general remark. Does she mention money often. Does she ask about your finances etc etc. |
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"Been chatting to an older lady for a while and were due to meet today actually but something came up and I had to cancel, that is life sometimes.
However, during the week she mentioned wanting to be spoiled, not only in a sexual way but with gifts and trips etc etc etc.
It was in a general sense like not aimed at me fully but as if she hadnt had it before but wanted to meet a fella that fitted that bill.
She also says do you think I'm a gold digger.
Ive got fok all to give like that.
Wanted to throw it out there to all, is this a red flag or was I reading too deep into it?"
Tell her that being spoiled is a two way street. |
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I think it all depends on the context of the conversation. "Spoiling" for me means showing attention, closeness, warmth, adoration, hugs, kisses, kind gestures, tenderness, being treated special, not gifts... but everyone is different, it can be interpreted ambiguously... maybe you should ask her directly what she meant. Mia |
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Spoiling us fine if it is a 2 way thing. Unless the context was spoiling with attention, affection, etc, I would see it as half way to a red flag, if all she meant was she wanted you to spend money on her. At this stage of a conversation it is an odd thing to bring up. But giving her the benefit of the doubt she may have meant that she likes someone to be physically attentive! |
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By *oldByMarCouple 32 weeks ago
playa de ingles |
Chatting with a female the other morning and she asked for a manicure to be paid for in her local salon in exchange for a meet
Asked how much she needed?
Replied €55 and my number to WhatsApp
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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Well seen as how she straight up said she wanted to be spoiled with gifts and trips I would say that is about as red as a flag can get if you don't want that kind of relationship.
Of course it your into that sort of thing and you have the disposable income to pull it off. Then more power to you.
My friend was recently whisked off to Malta by her sugar daddy and she couldn't be happier about it.
The thing is my friend didn't ask for a holiday. And yer one messaging you isn't being classy at all. She's just gold panning. 🤷🏻♀️ |
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Id only a red flag if its not something you want as part of a relationship/dynamic.
The person had agreed to meet regardless of your reaction to what she said.
And she is also clearly being upfront about her preferences and what she likes and is looking for |
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By *og-ManMan 32 weeks ago
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"Big red flag ......if that was a conversation I had with a woman before I met her then it
wouldn't go any further
What it l brought you turf... quid pro quo for a donut x"
Did we not do that already  |
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By *indenMan 32 weeks ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Once had a random guy messaging saying he'd love to spoil me. He had saved up all his Tesco club card points and wanted to have me over for dinner. Who said romance was dead on Fab "
And I’m still waiting on the reply….🥺 |
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By *og-ManMan 32 weeks ago
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"Once had a random guy messaging saying he'd love to spoil me. He had saved up all his Tesco club card points and wanted to have me over for dinner. Who said romance was dead on Fab
And I’m still waiting on the reply….🥺"
You could have got more for you points in Milano's |
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By *indenMan 32 weeks ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Once had a random guy messaging saying he'd love to spoil me. He had saved up all his Tesco club card points and wanted to have me over for dinner. Who said romance was dead on Fab
And I’m still waiting on the reply….🥺
You could have got more for you points in Milano's "
Do they accept club cards?…..😲🤞🤞🤞 |
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By *idpunkMan 32 weeks ago
East Antrim |
"Once had a random guy messaging saying he'd love to spoil me. He had saved up all his Tesco club card points and wanted to have me over for dinner. Who said romance was dead on Fab
And I’m still waiting on the reply….🥺"
That's sort of sweet |
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By *og-ManMan 32 weeks ago
somewhere |
"Once had a random guy messaging saying he'd love to spoil me. He had saved up all his Tesco club card points and wanted to have me over for dinner. Who said romance was dead on Fab
And I’m still waiting on the reply….🥺
You could have got more for you points in Milano's
Do they accept club cards?…..😲🤞🤞🤞"
You get treble value vouchers in milano's on your club card
So 50 euro of club card points gets you 150 euro to spend in Milano's |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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I'd say to her that the only gift she's getting from me is my cum dumped in her mouth and if that isn't good enough for her she can go and write her list to Santa. |
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By *indenMan 32 weeks ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"I'd say to her that the only gift she's getting from me is my cum dumped in her mouth and if that isn't good enough for her she can go and write her list to Santa. "
Chicks love that……   |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"I'd say to her that the only gift she's getting from me is my cum dumped in her mouth and if that isn't good enough for her she can go and write her list to Santa.
Chicks love that…… "
Yeah cheep cheap |
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By *indenMan 32 weeks ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"I'd say to her that the only gift she's getting from me is my cum dumped in her mouth and if that isn't good enough for her she can go and write her list to Santa.
Chicks love that……
Yeah cheep cheap "
I have club card points…… 
I’d split a milkshake with you any time….  |
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asking for gifts is not allowed
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