Recently met a lady for a social, nice cup of tea and a chat.
Then decided to meet at her place for fun the following week.
Good fun was had, but when I was leaving, shd asked me not to verify her.
Found this a bit strange, but accepted her request.
She's never been verified, so would anyone find this a strange request?? |
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"Even if you sent her a verification she doesn't have to display it
I've heard some people dont want any sign of a verification in case anyone they know see"s their profile "
Yeah, but wouldn't the grean tick show that they were verified? |
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I wouldn’t read too much into it. I know I don’t ask for verifications because I hate writing them and once you have a few they become pointless anyway. Maybe the odd new one to keep things fresh and for social club invites |
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"I wouldn’t read too much into it. I know I don’t ask for verifications because I hate writing them and once you have a few they become pointless anyway. Maybe the odd new one to keep things fresh and for social club invites "
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Anyone who's asked me not to verify them has done so because of fwb or other people on Fab that would be upset about it.
At the time it didn't bother me but when people repeatedly do it it's a red flag. I won't be made into a dirty secret for jealousy reasons.
Get your house in order if you have those hassles and don't involve others. |
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People can be strange, I met a guy socially quite locally, shared kisses etc and he didn't want a veri. I was like whatever. He's messaged a fair few times since to meet, and im just like right if he's not happy to be verified by me. I don't wanna bounce on his cock. I take from veris he has he wants popular ladies and couples with less meat on there bones. Perfectly fine but I don't wanna sleep with people like that! |
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"Anyone who's asked me not to verify them has done so because of fwb or other people on Fab that would be upset about it.
At the time it didn't bother me but when people repeatedly do it it's a red flag. I won't be made into a dirty secret for jealousy reasons.
Get your house in order if you have those hassles and don't involve others. "
Dirty secret??
Mmmmmm nice🤣🤣🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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People have all sorts of reasons.
I haven't written or received a verification in about a year because I'm not bothered. The ones that are there serve the purpose of veris.
Some women I've met have a jealous fwb. Red flag for me.
Some are like me and just don't care and that's fine.
I know a couple that only display verifications from event hosts. And if I'd known that I wouldn't have spent half an hour in deep thought writing one for them 😂 |
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After so many years on Fab I'm kinda bored writing verifications there's only so many ways you can describe a massive cock. I'm also turned off by people more interested in getting the verification over the actual meet. On particular meet he blows his load and the first thing he utters is can't wait to read the verification. My vagina dried up immediately  |
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"Anyone who's asked me not to verify them has done so because of fwb or other people on Fab that would be upset about it.
At the time it didn't bother me but when people repeatedly do it it's a red flag. I won't be made into a dirty secret for jealousy reasons.
Get your house in order if you have those hassles and don't involve others. "
Well said H . |
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". On particular meet he blows his load and the first thing he utters is can't wait to read the verification. My vagina dried up immediately "
Great to see romance is alive and well 🙈 |
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I’ve met ladies from here and for one reason or another, they asked me not to verify them and they wouldn’t verify me. I knew from the start that it was going to be a ‘secret’ thing for them because of their situation and I wasn’t bothered at all. I’ve met two others for coffee and they never left a verification and I haven’t asked why. It is what it is.
On the flip side, have you ever seen a shite verification anyway? Some people have them after 37 minutes after joining, no pics, ‘fill in later’ on their bio and a status update with ‘here before, back again, verify me if you remember me’ and of course, there’s always cocks who send one their way to the detriment of those of us who want to keep safe.
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With my experiences on here over the years. I personally don’t display verifications because ppl can get the hump if you meet some people. I’ve learnt keep your fab business to yourself and no one can say nothing to you then.
I will gladly verify anyone but I won’t display my play meets on fab. |
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I've been asked not to verify in the distant past because they didn't want others knowing who they were meeting.
Verifications can be weaponised on here so they are often more of a hindrance than a help. |
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I ask people not to leave me any verifications on my single profile.
My old single profile had hundreds of them, most from different socials I attended and organized... the messages I was receiving were pure vile. Men in my inbox were talking to me as if I'm a disposable fleshlight.
Since deleting the OG profile and creating a new one - I actively ask people not to leave me any veris. Inbox is clean, very few people are rude and not very many people message me all together, which is the way I prefer to keep it.
Also it's nobody's business who I meet lol
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"I've been asked not to verify in the distant past because they didn't want others knowing who they were meeting.
Verifications can be weaponised on here so they are often more of a hindrance than a help. "
Some people are shocking and watching everything.
I personally think no man or woman should have a say in who you hook with unless it’s your spouse or bf/gf. |
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"Recently met a lady for a social, nice cup of tea and a chat.
Then decided to meet at her place for fun the following week.
Good fun was had, but when I was leaving, shd asked me not to verify her.
Found this a bit strange, but accepted her request.
She's never been verified, so would anyone find this a strange request??"
I wouldn't find it a bit strange tbh , to me after l have a verification l don't ask for anymore because the one will show you exist & you can partake in the forums. |
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"After so many years on Fab I'm kinda bored writing verifications there's only so many ways you can describe a massive cock."
When you say massive cock, are you meaning a large phallic member or are you saying the creature attached to said phallic member is a massive cock? |
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