This is a very controversial topic, and I always see it getting alot of hate from people. So disclaimer, I am who I am anyone who has met and verified me have said the same. But I want the most honest answers here.
I've been on the site awhile and found many interesting profiles from singles to couples, we have many of the same interest and all that jazz but when comes time for communication I get left on read or deleted or not read at all. I can get over people having a very full inboxes and missing messages but to read it and delete it without a no thanks is very rude imo. I wouldn't do it to a person mybe that's just me,
My question here is wat about me are the ladies /couples not liking that I can't get a response |
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There's currently 60 ladies online so it's a numbers game. Some only meet at events these days some aren't meeting single guys and some are just here for the forums. It's tough as a single guy but ladies and couples are under no obligation to reply to every single message. Tbh the average message from a single guy here doesn't warrant a reply.
Here's some recent examples
Can I sniff your thong and cum on your bum or mmm would love that ass to fart for me |
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"There's currently 60 ladies online so it's a numbers game. Some only meet at events these days some aren't meeting single guys and some are just here for the forums. It's tough as a single guy but ladies and couples are under no obligation to reply to every single message. Tbh the average message from a single guy here doesn't warrant a reply.
Here's some recent examples
Can I sniff your thong and cum on your bum or mmm would love that ass to fart for me"
sure I get that but as I've shown so far I put way more thought in than asking for such things I comment on their likes and interests and about myself etc I know there is no obligation but it's just a common courtesy to say I've read ur message sorry not for me. But still my question is. Is it me that's the problem them I'm not getting a response |
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What’s your objective ?? What do u hope to get from a response .
The dynamics on fab are definitely changing.
I can tell you from a single woman on this site . It’s draining . So many messages . So little substance . Socials and events are in my opinion how most women and couples meet potential play partners.
Ultimately if that’s what your objective is to have sexual experiences . This is the way to go about it .
Maybe join some chat groups too . |
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Thanks that's mainly the kind of info I'm looking for. Again I hear what ladies are saying being flooded with messags and little substance in them I'm really putting in the effort but not getting anywhere. So I wana know is it just me am I not what women are looking for it's a simple question with a harsh answer but I want to know |
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"Thanks that's mainly the kind of info I'm looking for. Again I hear what ladies are saying being flooded with messags and little substance in them I'm really putting in the effort but not getting anywhere. So I wana know is it just me am I not what women are looking for it's a simple question with a harsh answer but I want to know "
Honestly me personally I struggle to build any sort of engagement with men on fab .
In person at relaxed social events is the best way to do it .
Also a lot people have had their time wasted too many times that the interest can’t be lost .
That’s why at least at the socials u know whoever is there has actually shown up . |
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By *idpunkMan 32 weeks ago
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"There's currently 60 ladies online so it's a numbers game. Some only meet at events these days some aren't meeting single guys and some are just here for the forums. It's tough as a single guy but ladies and couples are under no obligation to reply to every single message. Tbh the average message from a single guy here doesn't warrant a reply.
Here's some recent examples
Can I sniff your thong and cum on your bum or mmm would love that ass to fart for me"
Seriously?
That's bang out of order |
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"So I wana know is it just me am I not what women are looking for it's a simple question with a harsh answer but I want to know "
TBVH, the one who fancies you will respond. That's all.
Don't overthink it |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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Exactly theirs thousands of men and so little women.its just numbers game..I don't get messages back and even deleted and don't mind that and Jano their dead right..I've had few responses back .bit of banter and so on.all good lighten up fella.move on |
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As a rule of thumb if they don't reply their just not interested.
As stated on Fab rules: No reply is a reply".
Lighten up, and don't over think it looking for an issue with yourself where there is none.
As a note, in general, I think random messages to people is one of the most ridiculous ways of hoping to get a meet here!..Get to Socials ,parties etc. |
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"As a rule of thumb if they don't reply their just not interested.
As stated on Fab rules: No reply is a reply".
Lighten up, and don't over think it looking for an issue with yourself where there is none.
As a note, in general, I think random messages to people is one of the most ridiculous ways of hoping to get a meet here!..Get to Socials ,parties etc."
Fab is definitely evolving a lot only want to meet at events myself included. Tbh for single guys here if you've no interest in the community and getting involved than your better off on Tinder etc more chance than of meeting |
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" Tbh the average message from a single guy here doesn't warrant a reply.
Here's some recent examples
Can I sniff your thong and cum on your bum or mmm would love that ass to fart for me"
Shite, I've been trying too hard. I'll make a note of those to send out in my next batch of emails😊 have you any more examples I could use?? |
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Fab is definitely evolving a lot only want to meet at events myself included. Tbh for single guys here if you've no interest in the community and getting involved than your better off on Tinder etc more chance than of meeting "
Yep, agree!
I think its a time and cost thing really, for many people. It's much easier to meet at parties and socials where you have larger groups. A lot of people then form their own social circles from that, the dreaded clique!! Probably reduces number of those looking for meets through random messages.
Well time for us to get out and about again, or we'll be cast aside! |
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Hi OP.
Your profile is reasonable. Can I suggest ways to improve it.?
Ask someone to take your pics, then edit them . You're a creative type, your pics could reflect that.
You've a pic of someone giving you a BJ. Not a good look to most women.
Fab is returning to what swinging is all about. A community of mainly couples, meeting at socials.
You've been to two socials and got your veris. This could have been your opportunity to meet some of the attendees again, I wonder did you impress, or stay in touch with the others, including the male partners. If the hubby doesn't trust you, you haven't a hope.
Fab is better when you build relationships, it doesn't matter if you don't have sex with them. But every person you meet at a social can introduce you to someone who might suit you.
Post on the Irish forum, and chat about random stuff, that way people get an idea of what you're like.
All of the above helps other fabbers to get to know you.
Best of luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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I don't know that I agree with the sentiment above that fab is returning to a couples based community scene or that women are necessarily just meeting at events.
There's way more single women online in Galway than when I joined three years ago and the majority of them are getting verified on solo meets.
That said there are more events on now then ever and it is one of the easiest ways to meet people if socialising is your bag.
Telegram is the big shift in my opinion. Everyone is in a chat group now and if admins run a good ship it's really easy to get to know people in an online social environment. People post their profiles and regular photos. Its a perfect set up for safe flirting.
Everyone I met through fab in the last twelve months was through a chat group. So not really fab... And there's more and more non fab members turning up in certain groups.
Also agree with Rosy about dating apps.
I think you have a decent profile OP and I don't think you need a photographer. Just use the timer 😁
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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I think we may over think the whole thing, message like how you would talk to someone in person. Don’t stress it. I find single women in the main here to be friendly and willing to engage, it may not come to anything and that’s okay |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"There's way more single women online in Galway than when I joined three years ago
Cause and effect right there 
Big icecream fans!  "
Its definitely not me. All I do is melt in the heat and leave a sticky mess. |
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