One for the ladies if I may ask.
If a man is a good kisser does it make you feel more relaxed ?
I once had a meet with a couple and I wasn’t permitted to kiss the lady which I was happy to abide by but I really do enjoy kissing as part of the excitement and fun 😋 |
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I've had a few meets with couples and there ruke was no kissing which I was disappointed with as I love kissing dont get me wrong the meets were great but it would of been much better kissing sets the tone really for everything and ive been told im a great kisser so they missed out |
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Absolutely there has to be kissing, especially the slow sensual touching tongues kind of kissing
I see it as a prelude for the finer things to come…when the lips venture down the neck…and down the torso to…
I better stop there 😜😜
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"When first started out here I was no kissing. Now, I have to kiss. It just makes it more interesting and can get me really going. "
Kissing is my absolute favourite! Its a good way of really checking someone out |
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The kiss that ignites the passion can be so strong, it awakens the beast inside and makes you want to bite, pull hair and tear underwear off…. Depending on how passionate the kiss… who remembers calling it a wear 🤣🤣 |
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By *ol_ieMan 22 weeks ago
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Have met with a few couples that have announced no kissing as it's too intimate.
I just don't get it and it's not the same without the kissing.
But people can have their own preference and the rest of us just have to roll with it. |
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By *exaMan 22 weeks ago
galway, mullingar, mayo, clare, limerick |
I have had a couple do this.
And it was as we began to play. Infact they added other new "rules" they never mentioned initially, after I had booked the place, been in communication with them for weeks.
Needless to say, I didn't continue with them and we all said our goodbyes and moved on.
However, if you're not kissing, why have sex in the first place? |
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By *dfabMan 21 weeks ago
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Here's a question.
Wife doesn't French kiss, so it's been 20÷ years since I have.
Would my kissing be shite immediately as it's just focused on the lips, or would it all come rushing back to me, like cycling, and I'd make a decent impression?
Did have a proper kiss a few years ago after a M&G in the bloody capall(name change for obvious reasons) pub in Dublin and reckoned I'd muscle memory bit had to.leave for transport, so unsure. Seemed to be having desired effect. |
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"Here's a question.
Wife doesn't French kiss, so it's been 20÷ years since I have.
Would my kissing be shite immediately as it's just focused on the lips, or would it all come rushing back to me, like cycling, and I'd make a decent impression?
Did have a proper kiss a few years ago after a M&G in the bloody capall(name change for obvious reasons) pub in Dublin and reckoned I'd muscle memory bit had to.leave for transport, so unsure. Seemed to be having desired effect. "
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"A lad in lycra and racing silks locking lips with an injured equine before getting the bit between his teeth for the ride home" .....
A bit if a tongue twister is that.....or is it just me!
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By *dfabMan 21 weeks ago
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"Here's a question.
Wife doesn't French kiss, so it's been 20÷ years since I have.
Would my kissing be shite immediately as it's just focused on the lips, or would it all come rushing back to me, like cycling, and I'd make a decent impression?
Did have a proper kiss a few years ago after a M&G in the bloody capall(name change for obvious reasons) pub in Dublin and reckoned I'd muscle memory bit had to.leave for transport, so unsure. Seemed to be having desired effect.
....
"A lad in lycra and racing silks locking lips with an injured equine before getting the bit between his teeth for the ride home" .....
A bit if a tongue twister is that.....or is it just me!
🚴♂️🏇😛💋"
Ya what now?
Have you had more to drink than me?  |
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"I have had a couple do this.
And it was as we began to play. Infact they added other new "rules" they never mentioned initially, after I had booked the place, been in communication with them for weeks.
Needless to say, I didn't continue with them and we all said our goodbyes and moved on.
However, if you're not kissing, why have sex in the first place?"
I preferred not to kiss other men on the lips when I was here with my partner. He was the only person I had the desire to kiss. I simply didn't want to share that side of intimacy with anyone else. For me, if the other person couldn't see that sex could still be sensual and hot, and that there were countless other ways to get things going and get everyone in the mood, then they weren't for us. This wasn't something that was imposed on me, and it didn't bother me if he was kissing someone else.
I didn't enjoy kissing people just because. I still don't. If I'm kissing someone it's because I already have a connection, I already know that I fancy the arse off them and I already want them.
Which is why - going back to the OPs original question - it would be completely alien for me to kiss someone if I wasn't already relaxed in their company. |
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By *exaMan 21 weeks ago
galway, mullingar, mayo, clare, limerick |
"I have had a couple do this.
And it was as we began to play. Infact they added other new "rules" they never mentioned initially, after I had booked the place, been in communication with them for weeks.
Needless to say, I didn't continue with them and we all said our goodbyes and moved on.
However, if you're not kissing, why have sex in the first place?
I preferred not to kiss other men on the lips when I was here with my partner. He was the only person I had the desire to kiss. I simply didn't want to share that side of intimacy with anyone else. For me, if the other person couldn't see that sex could still be sensual and hot, and that there were countless other ways to get things going and get everyone in the mood, then they weren't for us. This wasn't something that was imposed on me, and it didn't bother me if he was kissing someone else.
I didn't enjoy kissing people just because. I still don't. If I'm kissing someone it's because I already have a connection, I already know that I fancy the arse off them and I already want them.
Which is why - going back to the OPs original question - it would be completely alien for me to kiss someone if I wasn't already relaxed in their company."
That's cool.
But saying it upfront is important. As is saying a lot of other things a person prefers ahead of time.
For instance in my profile I had to explain the lines I'll not cross with another man, as I'm not bi.
I also prefer directness.
Cos after driving for 1 hour, booking and paying for the place, and that happened, it was just distasteful. |
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"I have had a couple do this.
And it was as we began to play. Infact they added other new "rules" they never mentioned initially, after I had booked the place, been in communication with them for weeks.
Needless to say, I didn't continue with them and we all said our goodbyes and moved on.
However, if you're not kissing, why have sex in the first place?
I preferred not to kiss other men on the lips when I was here with my partner. He was the only person I had the desire to kiss. I simply didn't want to share that side of intimacy with anyone else. For me, if the other person couldn't see that sex could still be sensual and hot, and that there were countless other ways to get things going and get everyone in the mood, then they weren't for us. This wasn't something that was imposed on me, and it didn't bother me if he was kissing someone else.
I didn't enjoy kissing people just because. I still don't. If I'm kissing someone it's because I already have a connection, I already know that I fancy the arse off them and I already want them.
Which is why - going back to the OPs original question - it would be completely alien for me to kiss someone if I wasn't already relaxed in their company.
That's cool.
But saying it upfront is important. As is saying a lot of other things a person prefers ahead of time.
For instance in my profile I had to explain the lines I'll not cross with another man, as I'm not bi.
I also prefer directness.
Cos after driving for 1 hour, booking and paying for the place, and that happened, it was just distasteful. "
My response was to your question "...if you're not kissing, why are you having sex in the first place?" |
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Kissing is a start of the spark. Think of the closeness of two bodies together. Hands wandering down your back or running hands through your hair pulling your mouth closer. The smell of the other person fills your senses. Chemistry zoess out |
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"I have had a couple do this.
And it was as we began to play. Infact they added other new "rules" they never mentioned initially, after I had booked the place, been in communication with them for weeks.
Needless to say, I didn't continue with them and we all said our goodbyes and moved on.
However, if you're not kissing, why have sex in the first place?
I preferred not to kiss other men on the lips when I was here with my partner. He was the only person I had the desire to kiss. I simply didn't want to share that side of intimacy with anyone else. For me, if the other person couldn't see that sex could still be sensual and hot, and that there were countless other ways to get things going and get everyone in the mood, then they weren't for us. This wasn't something that was imposed on me, and it didn't bother me if he was kissing someone else.
I didn't enjoy kissing people just because. I still don't. If I'm kissing someone it's because I already have a connection, I already know that I fancy the arse off them and I already want them.
Which is why - going back to the OPs original question - it would be completely alien for me to kiss someone if I wasn't already relaxed in their company."
Yes I have done it , no kisses for the reason I always thought it was an act of passion and not just the fact of the quick ride from a site where I was fucking like a man who was thrown out once it was over, so certain things are sacred and intimate , ok I am ready for you to take the piss  |
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Wouldn't want to meet anyone who doesn't want to kiss... 
