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By *eija OP Woman 20 weeks ago
City Centre |
I'm full of questions today 😅🤣🤣
I am getting so many messages from men attaching pics to their message (which is great) BUT why attach all the pics I can already see on your profile? 😳🙄
Thoughts please..
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By *eija OP Woman 20 weeks ago
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"Cause they are covering the possibility you would not open their profile to see them?"
First thing I look at when I receive a message is the profile then read the message..
But sure, this could be their thought process...
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By *eastCouple 20 weeks ago
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It's precious to learn about your thought process though.
Can I add a cheeky question and ask what you like to see when you open a profile?
Besides the verifications and basic info?
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I once got a message from a woman I'd never spoken to before asking if I had 2 profiles?
When I said no and asked why she said she had just received a message from another well known Irish forum user and there were half a dozen pics attached which were all taken from my profile and still had my profile name on them.
Two other women contacted me the same day telling me exactly the same.
I don't understand anyone attaching pics on a first message regardless but when they are pics already in their public gallery it seems a bit stupid and when they are from someone else's gallery it's more than a little suspicious especially when they go to so many events. |
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By *eija OP Woman 20 weeks ago
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"I once got a message from a woman I'd never spoken to before asking if I had 2 profiles?
When I said no and asked why she said she had just received a message from another well known Irish forum user and there were half a dozen pics attached which were all taken from my profile and still had my profile name on them.
Two other women contacted me the same day telling me exactly the same.
I don't understand anyone attaching pics on a first message regardless but when they are pics already in their public gallery it seems a bit stupid and when they are from someone else's gallery it's more than a little suspicious especially when they go to so many events. "
My thoughts exactly seems a bit stupid I'm well able to look at a profile.
Jeez your scenario is a bit nuts...people are strange! 😅🤣🤣
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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I get them all the time too.
It's pics they have on their profile usually face.
As I state that on mine. I think they think. If the attach it you're more likely to respond as it looks like they read your profile.
Unfortunately most are a few years old  |
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By *og-ManMan 20 weeks ago
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"I once got a message from a woman I'd never spoken to before asking if I had 2 profiles?
When I said no and asked why she said she had just received a message from another well known Irish forum user and there were half a dozen pics attached which were all taken from my profile and still had my profile name on them.
Two other women contacted me the same day telling me exactly the same.
I don't understand anyone attaching pics on a first message regardless but when they are pics already in their public gallery it seems a bit stupid and when they are from someone else's gallery it's more than a little suspicious especially when they go to so many events. "
I wonder did anyone ever say it to him at a social |
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By *og-ManMan 20 weeks ago
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"When they attach pics which over 5 years old is our favourite thing..  
Got one last night I replied its from 2014 would you not consider updating and he sends back the same one  "
Sure he hasn't aged a bit |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"I'm full of questions today 😅🤣🤣
I am getting so many messages from men attaching pics to their message (which is great) BUT why attach all the pics I can already see on your profile? 😳🙄
Thoughts please..
B x"
We have even asked this directly and never got an answer. Maybe they think that cause they dont really look at the profile they message we dont either |
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By *eija OP Woman 20 weeks ago
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"I'm full of questions today 😅🤣🤣
I am getting so many messages from men attaching pics to their message (which is great) BUT why attach all the pics I can already see on your profile? 😳🙄
Thoughts please..
B x
We have even asked this directly and never got an answer. Maybe they think that cause they dont really look at the profile they message we dont either "
I swear I just got a message and the guy attached his profile pic 🙄🤣🤣
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"I'm full of questions today 😅🤣🤣
I am getting so many messages from men attaching pics to their message (which is great) BUT why attach all the pics I can already see on your profile? 😳🙄
Thoughts please..
B x"
Because they think if you see 📎 beside their message- you're more likely to open the message itself regardless weather the message was worth opening in the first place |
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By *eija OP Woman 20 weeks ago
City Centre |
"I'm full of questions today 😅🤣🤣
I am getting so many messages from men attaching pics to their message (which is great) BUT why attach all the pics I can already see on your profile? 😳🙄
Thoughts please..
B x
Because they think if you see 📎 beside their message- you're more likely to open the message itself regardless weather the message was worth opening in the first place "
Then I open the message see how lazy they have been and don't bother responding..what's the point in sending it in first place...
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I personally usually send one from my friends only gallery. But I can see why people who don’t have any private or friends only ones might think that sending a pic that they think is their best or one of their best, even if already visible publicly, might get someone’s attention straight away,whereas the recipient might not want to go and check out the gallery or gallery because they’ve been sent a message with no pics. |
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Mostly I find that they have no profile pic and send a face pic. I mean if you don't even have a picture on your profile because you are worried about being recognised then why send your face pic to random strangers? |
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By *og-ManMan 20 weeks ago
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"All I get is messages from men with pics attached and my profile says straight. "
Its the equivalent of the Nigerian email scam
Send out enough and some straight bloke will answer is the way they look at it
You can block men from messaging in your filters in case you didn't know |
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"I'm full of questions today 😅🤣🤣
I am getting so many messages from men attaching pics to their message (which is great) BUT why attach all the pics I can already see on your profile? 😳🙄
Thoughts please..
B x
Because they think if you see 📎 beside their message- you're more likely to open the message itself regardless weather the message was worth opening in the first place
Then I open the message see how lazy they have been and don't bother responding..what's the point in sending it in first place...
B "
Men don't think that far ahead 😅 |
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By *rRiosMan 20 weeks ago
dublin |
"I'm full of questions today 😅🤣🤣
I am getting so many messages from men attaching pics to their message (which is great) BUT why attach all the pics I can already see on your profile? 😳🙄
Thoughts please..
B x"
To encourage you to open the message, I might start sending “Please help!” messages with crossword clues attached to get more engagement! |
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"...I am getting so many messages from men attaching pics to their message (which is great) BUT why attach all the pics I can already see on your profile?
B x"
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Unfortunately some men assume that their extremely limited cognition is on par with the women they are messaging, completely unaware that in fact most are quite savvy and switched on. They think women won't notice such faux pas'. |
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"Cause they are covering the possibility you would not open their profile to see them?
First thing I look at when I receive a message is the profile then read the message..
But sure, this could be their thought process...
B"
You’re a minority :- |
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"Cause they are covering the possibility you would not open their profile to see them?
First thing I look at when I receive a message is the profile then read the message..
But sure, this could be their thought process...
B You’re a minority :- "
Not really. It's pretty common |
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