I was in chat yesterday showing my face cam and a local girl messaged and said she wanted to phone for a phone play. I asked her if I could see her. Id happily shown my face. She said no then I said no problem but I'll not be phoning and wished her good luck. She then instantly blocked me... Do you think I was the problem? |
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Yeah I'm not upset they blocked me as I had wished then good luck because they hadn't shared a face pic.
I think it is ok not to want to be intimate with someone when you don't know what they look like lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"If someone feels off then walk away
I wouldn't be giving out my phone number that easy especially since its the easiest way to black mail someone
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Speaking from experience eh?  |
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There is no pleasing some folks. I get blocked sometimes after sending my first message. I am a well-mannered, intelligent and emotionally mature man, so my messages are always polite and respectful. If I get turned down, I do reply by thanking the responder for taking the time to reply. I got blocked recently after a lot of messages, some of which were suggestive on both sides, as I WhatsApped a photo from her page saying how much I liked it. My mistake was showing a pic from her page-she took great offence at this silly mistake on my part. It was never going to get shown anywhere else and it's one of her public photos, so anyone can grab it anyway. I think we both missed a great opportunity based on our messaging, but neither of us will ever find out! |
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"There is no pleasing some folks. I get blocked sometimes after sending my first message. I am a well-mannered, intelligent and emotionally mature man, so my messages are always polite and respectful. If I get turned down, I do reply by thanking the responder for taking the time to reply. I got blocked recently after a lot of messages, some of which were suggestive on both sides, as I WhatsApped a photo from her page saying how much I liked it. My mistake was showing a pic from her page-she took great offence at this silly mistake on my part. It was never going to get shown anywhere else and it's one of her public photos, so anyone can grab it anyway. I think we both missed a great opportunity based on our messaging, but neither of us will ever find out!"
In fairness, if a female screenshot a pic of mine, regardless of it being on view, and sent it to me in a chat off of here, I’d be rethinking my choices with that person. |
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"I was in chat yesterday showing my face cam and a local girl messaged and said she wanted to phone for a phone play. I asked her if I could see her. Id happily shown my face. She said no then I said no problem but I'll not be phoning and wished her good luck. She then instantly blocked me... Do you think I was the problem? "
No, your boundaries are not the problem. |
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"There is no pleasing some folks. I get blocked sometimes after sending my first message. I am a well-mannered, intelligent and emotionally mature man, so my messages are always polite and respectful. If I get turned down, I do reply by thanking the responder for taking the time to reply. I got blocked recently after a lot of messages, some of which were suggestive on both sides, as I WhatsApped a photo from her page saying how much I liked it. My mistake was showing a pic from her page-she took great offence at this silly mistake on my part. It was never going to get shown anywhere else and it's one of her public photos, so anyone can grab it anyway. I think we both missed a great opportunity based on our messaging, but neither of us will ever find out!
In fairness, if a female screenshot a pic of mine, regardless of it being on view, and sent it to me in a chat off of here, I’d be rethinking my choices with that person. "
It was not a screen shot-showed her a photo of her sexy boots, not even a pic of her. Seems a rather silly reason to get cross. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"If someone feels off then walk away
I wouldn't be giving out my phone number that easy especially since its the easiest way to black mail someone
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Happened to me before, I matched with a girl on dating site afew years back. We were texting for a couple of days then one night the conversation got abit shhpicy! we sent dirty photos to each other then after a while I got a collage of my photos back to me with a threat if I didn't send them money they would leak it to my friends, I told them " Go for it" nothing happened.. but luckily my face wasn't in any of the photos.. happened to a mate of mine aswel and he was embarrassed and terrified, I told em what happened and he was relieved.. Never give in and pay them |
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